Jessica

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  • in reply to: What’s up with the “gay male” double standard? #42580

    Jessica
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    Much of the porn industry is dominated by heterosexual men, many of whom fantasize about threesomes. Often, a heterosexual male’s concept of a threesome equals two girls all over one guy. When these guys see two girls together, they mentally put themselves between the two girls. However, this is of course a very general statement (and for all you guys with this fantasy, I warn you that the girls are much more likely to be all over each other and leave you out). Another reason (again having to do with the dominating party of the porn industry) is that heterosexual men do not often fantasize about other men – they fantasize about women. Adding another woman to the visualization is just an added bonus.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Sex begins at 40? #46759

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    Most women meet their sexual peak somewhere in their forties or fifties – the high level of desire is likely to last from the thirties to sixties. Men reach their sexual peak in their teens and twenties, so you are an attractive find as someone who is likely both experienced and lusty.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Whites, dogs and minorities #15598

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    I’m the perfect person to answer your question, because I am one of the hypocrites you refer to, although I am not necessarily the extreme ‘pro-war’ type. The main reason I am more concerned with the welfare of domesticated animals in this country than with children in other countries is that human beings of any age have more control over their own destiny than any domesticated animal. Second, there are many more people who care about the plight of children than the plight of animals – I feel like the animals need my support more. And finally, as a historian, I must concede that war, for whatever reason, does not discriminate according to age. It’s the unfortunate reality.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: How come women can be short? #46788

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    Why is it OK for guys to be tall, but only women who are slender supermodels are acceptable as tall?

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: “Not that there’s anything wrong with that…” #28327

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    My typical response is ‘oh, OK.’ I’m bisexual and have no problem with any sexual orientation that doesn’t involve children or other species. However, the reason people are stuck in the notion that they have to reassure you that it is ‘OK’ with them that you’re gay is that often their experience dictates that they must do this. For example, one of my best friends is a lesbian. My husband (who is extremely nosy) asked her if she was bisexual, and she replied, ‘No, even worse.’ Even worse? She’s used to getting criticized by people for her sexuality, and people like us see that, and feel the need in future circumstances to assure people that we are not the criticizers.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Military equal rights? #37043

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    Excellent point. People will tell you that ‘someone has to stay home to run the country’ as a reason for women not being drafted – which is garbage, because, yes, someone does have to stay here, but it doesn’t have to be all of one gender. Draft a certain percentage of the population, regardless of gender (if we ever have a draft again) and the other percentage will stay home. It’s absolutely ridiculous and I agree with you completely.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: How do I know if I’m gay? #27030

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    I’m sorry that you have to deal with prejudice; however, I believe it is unnecessary to label your sexuality, especially when you are so young. Allow yourself to be attracted to whomever you are attracted to; fantasize about whoever you want to. If you must have a label, choose one after you’ve had more experience.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Young people and the military #19977

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    I’m not in the ‘young men’ category you requested, but feel I am qualified to answer your question. I am 23 and pursuing a master’s degree in U.S. military history. Among the people my age I associate with (of both genders), an utmost respect for the military prevails. We collectively agree that the best opportunities for guaranteed success in life are the military and college. Though at times we may disagree with the policies and directives behind the soldiers, even those I know who participate in peace protests recognize the importance of our military – the men and women who so assist our country deserve great respect.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Going bald before I’m 20, do girls care? #33111

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    Look at Sean Connery. He’s ancient, bald, and girls my age still get hot about him. You have nothing to worry about.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Only whites on TV? #25493

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    Television stations conduct surveys to discover what kinds of people are watching which shows. Commercials target the primary audience of a show; therefore, what commercials you catch depends on what you’re watching. For example, during ‘All My Children’ and other melodramatic daytime shows, the commercials are geared primarily toward white, suburban housewives. During the Bernie Mac show or Martin, the commercials more likely target the African-American audience. I tire of this sort of ‘prescription’ advertising, and have quit watching network television because of it.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Can’t stand rap and hip-hop #33440

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    Beatniks recited poetry to drums in the 1960s, which was a similar musical movement to rap and hiphop. I don’t understand how some country music, which sounds like the whine of a mosquito, can be listened to without agitation, so I suppose we all have different taste.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Getting a 21-year-old boy to commit #31439

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    Ultimately, you’ll have to ask him these questions. No Y? Forum reader can accurately tell you what’s going on inside his head. While each of us might be able to give you our experience with stereotypical 21-year-old guys, the fact is, everyone’s different. The important thing is that if you can’t get a straight answer from him, or you’re unsatisfied with whatever answer he gives you, you should move on – for your own happiness.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Optimal age for marriage #43094

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    I believe everything you say is correct – in most cases. I have lived with my husband since we were in high school, and we have essentially both saved each other from destruction and grown together. I’m in graduate school and he’s working on his bachelor’s degree in physics, so we’re not the ‘barefoot and pregnant high school sweethearts’ that get publicized. In fact, we don’t intend to have children. So, in answer to your question, different people have different reasons. It’s also somewhat of a generational question – our grandparents were ready for marriage younger than our generation is because cultural expectations have changed.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Orgasms and my baby #14280

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    I think this is something you ought to talk to a doctor about, though I’ve always heard that sex up until delivery (including orgasm) was OK as long as it remained comfortable for the woman.

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Am I gay if I am around gay people? #34263

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    You are who you are, and your friends are who they are. Homosexuality is not defined by who you hang out with; it’s defined by who you’re attracted to sexually. If people think you’re gay because you have gay friends, they are ignorant – and do you really care what ignorant people think?

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    Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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