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April 7, 2003 at 12:00 am #41930
JessicaMemberFear not! My first boyfriend in high school had significantly thinning hair at 17, and one of the most popular, genuinely well-liked and crushed-upon guys at my college was seriously balding (already at crown, hairline racing to meet it). I honestly don’t care about hairline when it comes to attraction, and going by other girls’ reactions to these young men, they don’t, either. Personality and charm will get you a lot more attention than a full head of hair.
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Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 22, City : Framingham, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College,April 7, 2003 at 12:00 am #33111
JessicaMemberLook at Sean Connery. He’s ancient, bald, and girls my age still get hot about him. You have nothing to worry about.
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Name : Jessica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Huntsville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,April 7, 2003 at 12:00 am #15707
StaceyMemberI’m out of your requested age range, but before I was 25 I dated a few men who were balding. I think it can be quite distinguished looking. Whatever you do, don’t try to disguise it with funny hair styles. I had a male friend who was balding by age 17, and instead of working with it, he would spike his hair like mad to make it look more plentiful. Ended up looking more obvious. Like the other responder, I think shaving your head is a good idea. That can be very sexy.
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Name : Stacey, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jehovahs Witness, Age : 28, City : Boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,April 7, 2003 at 12:00 am #36555
Brandy19402MemberI don’t want a bald boyfreind.
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Name : Brandy19402, Gender : F, City : Lexington, State : KY, Country : United States,April 26, 2003 at 12:00 am #23498
SierraMemberIt is not about hair but your attitude.Greg Graffin is so hot and can still be a rockstar even though his hairline is signifigantly missing because he carries himself well and reeks with punkrock sexiness and attitude.If you are nervous and insecure normally it will show with or with out hair and that is untractive. If you aare overweight i would consider shaping up and because fat and bald is not a good combination
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Name : Sierra, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Age : 17, City : Austin, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : Less than High School Diploma,August 29, 2003 at 12:00 am #16264
CJ31955MemberI was in the same boat & shaved it. Some girl’s don’t like it…some do…some could care less either way. But if you don’t stay tan and hit the gym, NO GIRL WILL LIKE IT. You will look like a chemo-outpatient.
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Name : CJ31955, Gender : M, Age : 24, City : CLEVELAND, State : OH, Country : United States,February 10, 2004 at 12:00 am #45696
VictoriaMemberFirst order of business is eyes, smile and personality — I don’t even process whether a guy has hair until later in the game. Don’t let anybody talk you into a hairpiece or Rogaine — shave your head and every girl you meet will want to rub it!
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Name : Victoria, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 25, City : Durham, State : NC, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,August 27, 2004 at 12:00 am #13773
odd_socksMemberI’ve dated a balding guy in his mid 20s. It didn’t really matter, especially not after a few dates. If a guy was intelligent, funny, etc, it wouldn’t bother me at all.
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Name : odd_socks, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Adelaide, State : NA, Country : Australia, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,January 23, 2005 at 12:00 am #27392
CarrieMemberI am 24, and I don’t care if a guy is bald. It makes absolutely no difference. Guys put WAY too much pressure on themselves about hair. My boyfriend is so paranoid that he is losing hair – if he is losing hair, I can’t tell. And if all his hair falls out tonight, I will still love him the same.
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Name : Carrie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Clinton, State : NJ, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper class,January 23, 2005 at 12:00 am #22560
ChristyMemberBald guys = hot.
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Name : Christy, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : american, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : starving college student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,February 13, 2005 at 12:00 am #32365
NikMemberI’m sorry to break the news to you, but I care and so do most of the other women I’ve known. When I see a guy who’s losing his hair, he stops being a ‘guy’ in my mind and starts being a ‘BALD guy.’ There are some exceptions (like actor Ed Harris who is a hot bald guy), but you’d need a remarkably attractive face to pull it off. My advice: start using the Rogaine, pronto.
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Name : Nik, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Atheist, Age : 24, City : San Francisco, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,May 27, 2005 at 12:00 am #29458
anneMemberShave it. My husband went bald at 20. He shaves it. I never knew him with hair. I could care less. I love him for him. If you are a good person, women will look beyond that. Only shallow women will look at that as a flaw.
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Name : anne, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, City : nyc, State : NY, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,June 3, 2005 at 12:00 am #25994
Laura GMemberMy boyfriend’s brother (26) is balding, and my BF denies the fact because he’s afraid it’ll happen to him, too. If it does, I won’t care — as long as he changes his hairstyle (my dad is balding with longish hair, and comes across as a badly aging hippie, even though he’s not). Well-groomed is seriously more important (plus, in a few years, looking a couple years older than you are may help you get girls — you’ll look more mature and established).
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Name : Laura G, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Methodist, Age : 22, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, -
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