I don't think there's any difference between men's attraction to women's butts and women's attraction to men's butts. I'm a man and I find women's butts extremely attractive and desirable, without actually wanting to touch them or thinking about specific sexual acts. I think most men and women feel this way about body parts of the opposite sex.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, With the exception of ear piercings, which are traditional, I generally see piercings as a form of self-mutilation by people who are depressed, frustrated or have low self-esteem - although I accept that in some cases it's a purely artistic expression. Regarding tongue piercings specifically, I group them in the category of sexually motivated piercings, along with nipple and genital piercings. When I see a woman has a tongue piercing, it makes me suspect that she's hornier or kinkier than average and perhaps not so innocent. This, combined with its subtlety, makes it the only piercing that I find attractive and acceptable.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, Purple just happens to be a color that goes better with darker skin. Incidentally, I'm an extremely pale white ma,n and bright colors don't suit me at all.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, Psychologists say we're not born with our fetishes, rather we develop them all from experiences in our lifetime. This seems to indicate that perversion is just part of white culture. However, that can't be the case, as people of all races now live together in the same culture - yet we whites still maintain our pervertedness. It must therefore be that white people, although not being born perverts, are somehow more prone to developing fetishes. But why would we evolve this way? Well, sex is the main thing that drives evolution, so it seems to me that any race that is more sexually preoccupied has an evolutionary advantage. The more fetishes you have, the more opportunity there'll be for sexual arousal, therefore the more perverted a race, the higher its success of continuation. So perhaps white people's pervertedness is just an evolutionary strength that has helped us survive in the past. It may be that this evolved in us to compensate for other weaknesses - like maybe we're not very good at dating?
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, I'm really sorry to hear about your problem, Kelly. To some extent, I know how you feel because I have a problem with my nose that causes me to have to cough up loads of mucous every morning when I wake up, and it really puts girls off. However, after 8 years of seeing different doctors about it, I've now finally found a doctor who can help me, and after a year of treatments I think I'm cured! I just wanted to say: don't give up looking for a cure - there's always a solution to every problem. Just keep seeing loads of different doctors and eventually one of them will be able to help you. And look on the Internet, too. I must admit that I do like a woman who smells nice, but there's no way I'd let a bad smell put me off a girl if I liked her. I'd probably just be very sympathetic about it. And contrary to what most girls think, guys aren't really that put off by bodily functions, anyway. I think guys are a lot more laid back about this stuff and can find it funny or even sexy. I think the most important thing is having self-confidence and showing people that you're not ashamed of your body - then other people won't think of it as such a big deal. One final thing I'd like to mention: I believe it's possible to get used to any smell. If you go to the toilet, it smells bad at first, but after you've sat there a while you don't notice it anymore. People who live on a farm get used to the smell of manure; some even come to love the smell, as it reminds them of something they love (home). It may sound crazy, but I think if anyone loved you, they may even grow to love your smell, too. But don't give up on an answer just because a couple of doctors said there's no cure. I have probably seen about 20 doctors about my condition, and the first 19 of them were no help at all.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, It's instinctive. Instincts have evolved to make us more likely to have children, beacuse people who have children pass on their genes and people who don't don't. So it's logical that the desire to have children is instinctive.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, Seeking partners of certain cultures or races is simply a matter of personal taste. Your culture may be an important part of your life, and perhaps you couldn't imagine being with someone who isn't a part of that culture. Maybe you're simply not attracted to people of a different race. There's nothing wrong with that. These are personal choices; if you don't want to go out with someone because they are a certain race or culture, then these are your tastes and you're entitled to them. However, there is nothing 'wrong' with dating someone of a different race, just as there is nothing wrong with dating someone of a different star sign or different IQ or different weight. We all have differences, but we're all exactly the same species: human.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, I've only had one sexual partner of any kind. This was a girlfriend I had at the age of 23. The relationship lasted 18 months. The number of sexual partners I've had is insignificant to me. I love sex but wouldn't want to have it outside of a relationship, and I wouldn't want a relationship unless the girl was someone very special. Hence I've only had one girlfriend.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, I'd like to respond to what Cynthia said. What do you mean you don't think it's proper for strange men to try and pick women up in the street? How else is anyone supposed for find a partner? If you only ask friends out then you're severely limiting your choices. I don't know that many women, so if I wanted a girlfriend I would have no choice but to ask a girl out on the street. I don't see what the problem is with doing that.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, I'm not aware of any differences in black people to my race (white people). I think black people are better dancers; that's the only difference I know about.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, There seems to be a lot more acceptance of religion over there in America. Few Americans seem surprised when I tell them I believe in a God. Here in the UK, very few people are religious. Atheism is the 'norm' and if you have a religion people think you're strange. Religion in the UK is usually kept secret for fear of ridicule.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, I have noticed that a lot of men don't have much confidence about hitting on women normally, and need to get drunk in order to do it. I don't think the race of the woman makes any difference though. I treat black women exactly the same as I treat white women and would expect them to treat me the same as they treat black men. I live in the UK though, so perhaps things are different here.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, Pointing out our faults is what stand up comedy is all about. We're laughing at our faults. All stand up comediens draw our attention to our own faults and joke about it, no matter what the subjectmatter.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, I don't think there can be many men my age who have a problem with women in the workplace, or female bosses. I'm a man and I like women, so I it's great to have the opportunity to work with women. As for female bosses, I much prefer them because they are generally less mean and more understanding than men. I view ambition as being very attractive and important in a woman. I think the worst type of woman is a lazy woman who assumes she doesn't need to earn money because her husband will give it to her.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, I think you're asking a rhetorical question, here. But I agree with your point. I don't enjoy seeing the contents of people's mouths when they're eating.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 26, City : Torbay, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
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