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From reading your response I can see that you say you are celibate? Why, unless it has something to do with a medical problem or it’s for some religios purposes than… I don’t understand. I am a 26 year old female and over the last year or so my priorities have changed witout my knowledge. Getting closer to 30 and with a child I don’t have any choices, I have to settle down. A little. You, you should be enjoying your youth and having all the fun you want. There are a million ways to protect yourself from any unwanted consequences. Trust me, you’ll have the rest of your life to practice celibacy. You won’t however be young and virant for to much longer. Just my thoughts…
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,that’s my only question. I’m not trying to pass any kind of judgement on you or anything else. I just really would like to try and understand what about this would turn you on? If you can explain it to me because I know sometimes we don’t even understand ourselves.
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,You should be alright if this is someone normal that your talking about. The fact that she has had sexual experiences and a child are not really reasons to worry about that. Now if she is like a sex addict or something or if she has a million children than that’s a whole other issue. And you have to go by the individual. Some woman have children and you still couldn’t get in there without some effort. And there are women out there who don’t have any children and there pussies are just there, open for the world to see.
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,OK. That is just a not truth. What that is is a simple way to dismiss someones thoughts and or feelings. I have had plenty of experience with nice black men. And I still cringe when I see people like you. So what’s your excuse for black men who feel the same way? What, they just can’t find a nice white girl?? Be serious. Or for that matter what about white women and white men who have a problem with this. The reason so many black women have a problem with this thought is because we have to put up with all there bullshit. You see, sorry to have to inform you of this but you’ll aren’t aware of them the way we are. We grow up with these men. When they come up to us half of the time they can say something or act a certain way and we know exactly just what kind of ‘brother’ we’re dealing with. We see the person, you meet the representative. So to them we become too much to deal with or we have issues. For you’ll who don’t know the half about what this man really stands for, don’t see anything in big bold red letters telling you to STOP! Even when they start to treat you bad or become unattentive to you you make excuses. And it happens, it’s enevitable simply because you could really never understand one another. You could never understand his passions and his subconcious yearnings and desires because you don’t share any of the same things. You are from a completely different place. That’s like being from another planet. And the same is to be said for you. He could never truly make you completely happy? He doesn’t know anything about you. Everything you do is foriegn and new. He can’t understand you or ‘know’ you because he’s not used to the things you do. Whether you want to admit it or not, we are al extremely different and you’ll might even make eachother happy, still doesn’t mean it’s the perfect fit. And let me tell you, I don’t care how white washed he may be, when a sista walks by, he’s looking so don’t be so shocked if you get left. You just can’t compete sorry
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I have read over a couple of your responses. Why couldn’t you be from Massachusetts!
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,It’s all about the thrill and the dangerousness of it. You’re correct,it’s dangerous and difficult but it’s all worth it in the end. As long as no-body comes to an end.
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,well, how long do you think it is? Ever think about visiting the good ol’ USA (SMILE!) And don’t worry, it’s probably because you are dealing with young girls because you are a young man. As you grow so will your sexual experiences, no pun intended
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,To be completely honest with you, I think I maybe just like you. I have never reached an orgasm from intercourse. There is a lot of pleasure to be had but… I have had to take myself on a few times also.
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Don’t worry your completely normal. Most young men end up dating girls that may be a year or two younger. And at this age you don’t even know exactly what it is that you like yet. You may not even like younger girls in a couple of years. At least you are aware of yourself so you have the oprotunity to monitor this behavior and garuntee that it dosen’t grow into a disorder.
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Yes this is true. Asian men happen to have the smallest utensils for this task. So Asian woman are smaller be design so that they fit together. Asian men have the smallest penises in the world. This is general knowledge. And do a study you wouldn’t have to have sex with every woman and compare. You know in today’s day and age there are these brand new inventions called doctors. I know obviously this is a new term for you. Let me ask you this. When a woman is delivering a baby, and the doctor has to make the decision whether or not she needs to be cut, rather if her vagina is big enough to deliver the baby or will she need some assistance, he doesn’t need to have to have sex with her to make that determination did he?
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Well, I am one of those people who did not know that this culture exsisted. I mean for example, what country do white people come from? Not the skin color the culture. Because I was always taught that this country (America) was founded by folks migrating from other countries, so that would mean that there isn’t even a class called white regarding culture. Rather only as a color issue.
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I am a black woman myself who has a young child. A young male child. I have seen the same behaviors your talking about on a much larger scale. I have seen parents encouraging young children not not only with the dancing but allowing them to mutter certain curse words or display actions that are not becoming. I think this has a lot to do with the economic classes that these people fall into. I have on occassion witnessed a young white mother encouraging her child to stand out or be noticed. I hanoestly believe that that is the source of this behavior. White children are already considered to be a part of the norm. They are encouraged to stand out by becoming someone prominent in their communities, states, countries, ect… Black children are taught they need to stand out for thier natural talents. Even if these talents are stereotypical or limiting. They are taught that to suceed you need to have one of only a few talents or skills that are available to us. Such as dancing. And since there is so much competition in this field, you need to be the best at it. Most black parents are proud when their child exhibits some form of ‘soul’ while most white parents praise a child for hard work and accomplishments.
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
