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There is a hidden secret in our society; men actually desire virgin women for wives. This may sound barbarian, but it is still true even today. Men will play with ‘slutty’ women, but when it comes down to settling down, they want the untouched woman. The problem though is you may not realize that you are actually a prize among men until you leave college. Why? Because college men are not thinking about marriage; they want to have fun and party. A woman who is a virgin may be considered to hard to get for his sexual tastes. So he may go over to a sluttier girl and ask her out. He does not really want this type of girl; after he has sex with her, he will toss her like a piece of garbage and go to the next girl. But when it comes time after college to settle down guess who he will prefer? You, a virgin. In conclusion, the wrong type of man may be intimidated by your virginity, but the right man will love it, and will WANT to wait for you. It is indeed not wrong to be a virgin, no matter what others say. Not only are you eliminating your risk for STDs and pregnancy, but you are also ensuring your first time will be more special. As a gal with sexual experience, nothing will compare to the first time. One more thing to keep in mind the next time you feel ‘guilty’ about being a virgin. How many porn stars, Playboy models, etc. have husbands? Very few. How many average-looking more ‘virtuous’ church women have husbands? Quite a few.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Women that are larger will probably desire a larger penis. Women whose vaginas are not tight will probably want a larger penis. But there are plenty exceptions to the rule believe me. I myself am short (5’2), but weight-wise I am heavy (at least to white standards). I have the ‘big booty’ and everything else. I have also had a few sex partners, so I don’t think my ‘parts’ are as tight as they once where. But, my boyfriend (who is Asian) has a penis that is about 5 or 6 inches when it’s erect, and sometimes that feels too big. Most of the time it feels fine though. The only problem I have is if I’m not aroused enough — I can’t get the pleasurable contractions that I normally get. I had this same problem with a previous boyfriend who was 8 or 9 inches long!!! With me, at least, foreplay and oral sex matters more. The size is the least of my worries.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Yes, that particular stereotype is true. Black men do have larger penises than other races, with whites being the next largest and Asians being the smallest. I have sexually been with both extremes; a black man (who I already stated as being the largest), and Asian men (who were the smallest). My experiences were better with the Asian men, because their techinques were better –they were more interested in doing oral, etc. I am also a very short woman standing at 5’2, so ‘smaller’ actually feels better for me — too big hurts, and I can’t feel the ‘motion’ as well. I have heard though that size does matter to some women, which is why many black men (particularly lower-class ones) think they are the hottest men for having larger penis sizes. I myself though could care less about how endowed a man is; I care more about how he makes love and what not.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Good question, but with an obvious and historical answer. In the days of Thomas Jefferson (who had 12 biracial children with Sally Hemmings his half-black slave), the 3/4 rule was made. Basically if you had 3/4s of black blood in you you were considered black. 3/4 is not that much; it is possible to look VERY white and still have this amount of black blood in you. So thus, this is why lighter skinned blacks and ‘tommish’ blacks (blacks who act white) are still considered black. To not be considered black, you have to show absolutely NO black features. Behavior and skin color have nothing to do with what is black and what isn’t.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Well, I think anybody that’s been in the sun too long is going to smell, becuase of sweat. Racewise, though, some groups may have more sweat glands than others. For instance I have definitely noticed black and whites have more of a ‘sweaty’ smell then Asians, who seem to have more of a ‘foody’ smell. It is easier for an outsider to detect the smell of another race. For instance as a black person, I feel white people have a very unique smell. Obviously other minorites seem to agree with me, with the starting caption on this forum being ‘Why do White People Smell Like Wet Dogs When they Come out of the Rain?’ This may be another reason why you feel blacks have such a strong odor.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,How would you like to be made fun of because you’re a female? Or because you’re white? Or because you’re middle class and not rich? You wouldn’t like it at all, and a disabled person doesn’t like to be made fun of, either. It is wrong and insensitive to make fun of differences that people cannot help. And anyone who would do such a thing is showing cowardly behavior, because they know the disabled person is weak and unable to verbally or physically fight back. My brother (who has mental retardation and cerebral palsy) has had to deal with bullies like that; people who would pick fights with him or push him down on the floor because he’s disabled. When we go out, people are always staring – some may even comment, calling him ‘dumb’ or whatever. And what did my brother do to them? Absolutely nothing. The bottom line is a person should treat another person with respect. A person with disabilities should have the same opportunities as a person without, and they shouldn’t have to undergo harrassment because nature made them different. Doing anything otherwise would be barbaric and uncivilized.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,The world does not think like Americans; other cultures may have different perceptions of when a person is an adult. In some countries, a 13-year-old girl could be considered a grown woman – or at least grown enough to marry and have kids. In these kinds of societies, adulthood is determined by biology, whether a person can produce offspring or not. In some ways I wish American culture was like this, becuase teen girls who have sex (such as the example you gave) are not being taught responsibility for their own doings. A 15-year-old girl or even a 13-year-old girl knows what they are doing when they are having sex. Of course there are situations of statutory rape, but many situations are not like that, even if the guy was older. Most men, even older ones, are not rapists, and always assuming it’s the guy’s fault when a young girl gives away her virginity continually releases the responsibility from her own hands.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,It is possible to be racist against a group but still be sexually attracted to them, because of how strong the sex drive is (especially in men). I mean, in a man’s mind, if you have the right womanly parts, and you meet his image of what he considers attractive, then he’s going to be turned on bottom line. Racial stereotypes can make this type of sexual attraction and curiosity worse. Asian women for instance are perceived as being docile, exotic, and submissive. This is why white men lust after them, and they are so common in porn. The Asian women (as any woman) take advantage of this lust for money and fame. And since Asian culture appears to be more obsessed with being accepted by whites than other groups, this may further encourage them to denigrate themselves and their race. And lastly to address why Asian men are not with their own women in the porn. The reason is simple — Asian men are not viewed as being sexual in this society. And porn (like any other form of media) is regulated by stereotypes. If the porn creators think that white and black men fit the bill for what is considered sexy and masculine, then that’s what they’re going to have.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,You are obviously very confused on what I was asking. I was not insinuating that because Japanese are propserous and more academic that they are ‘acting white,’ for economic success and academia have nothing to do with that (although for some reason in the black world these elements are associated with ‘being white.’) What I was saying is that in their media they have their characters look white, EVEN if the characters are supposed to be Japanese. I mean, if Japanese people had blond hair, white skin, big breasts and round eyes of varying colors like Caucasians, there wouldn’t be an issue. They don’t naturally, so it looks as if they are ‘sellouts’ when almost all of their media portray these white images. In addition, although there are some Japanese who aren’t racist (I have met some), you can see from their media that when they do have a ‘black’ character, it usually takes the same stereotypical view that white media over here has of them. And I do not want to be perceived by foreigners (of any race or culture) that just because I’m black I’m automatically associated with the hip-hop culture, because I am not.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,In my opinion, no religion can guarantee you a place in heaven. Why? Because religion is more complex than just simply the worship of God. It is also a form of cultural expression that integrates society and history in its constructs; it is based more on opinion than facts. If you ask a Christian, for example, why he or she believes Christ is God (a belief that some religious groups cannot accept fully), he or she will tell you it’s because of ‘faith,’ or simply an overwhelming ‘feeling’ that tells them this is true. Buddhists, Jews, Muslims or those of other types of religions also have this same type of faith in believing their religion is the best one. And because faith has no factual or scientific basis, you really don’t know which one is right. With that being said, what religion should you choose? To me, it doesn’t matter. God has not really made it crystal clear what path is appropriate for salvation. Many would argue with me (especially Christians because that’s what I am) and use as an argument their ‘faith’, and reference to their holy books (which usually are archaic writings that reflect society in earlier days) to say their religion is a must for heaven. And, although some actual history can be found in these books, the other elements of religion contained in them can not be proven by today’s scientific logic, unless one has the ability to go back in time. One example of this is Jesus Christ. Historians accept him as a historical figure, but many (unless they are Christian) do not accept him as divine. Christians believe he is divinity because of ‘faith’ and also the miracles He did in the Bible, but can these miracles be scientifically or even historically proven? At the present moment, no. So where is there proof that Christianity is right? There is none. This example (with probably tons of others that can be found in various religions) is why I think God does not really care. Religion is just a method of worshipping Him; there is freedom to choose which one you want. In conclusion, choose the religion that is best suited for you, if you must have a religion. Some people worship God but don’t follow an organized religion. This means they don’t go to a church or do religious rituals, but they do strive to do good and worship God as they see fit. What matters is what is in your heart.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,When I am aroused, it feels very good going in; it causes a rush of sensations and contractions. If my clitoris is stimulated, the sensation is stronger. If I am not aroused, however, there is little if any feeling it causes — it just feels like a foreign object in there.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,It has been said that this type of nomenclature is based on African names, but there is little if any similiarity to their African counterparts. So I think it is more of a matter of black expression and American black culture. I mean which gets more attention, Rachel, or Latisha? The latter sounds more as you say exotic and ethnic. And black men also have ‘different’ names, it’s just that they are not quite as ‘exotic’ sounding as the black women’s names. Jabari, Jerome, Jamal, and others are names that are common to black men but rare to whites.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Your friend’s statement alone further purports the idea that blacks are not ‘culturally inclined’ and must be associated with some sort of athletic or physical background to truly show their prowess. Just because a person is black doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t go to plays. In fact, going to a play is not related to race at all. In my mind, plays are associated with a higher level of thinking, interpretation and cultural expression. More intellect is involved when watching a play than a movie or television show, where the setting is given to you and the plot is more straightforward. Middle- and upper-class whites and Asians are encouraged more by their cultures to attain this level of culture, because both groups are more obsessed with academia; this is why you see more of them go to plays. Most lower-, middle- and some upper-class blacks are not encouraged to be cultural in that way because it is viewed as ‘selling out’ or ‘acting’ white. However, some do see the value of going to plays (such as myself), and actually enjoy the art form. So don’t think – as he ignorantly insinuated – that most blacks don’t like plays, because some of us (like me) love seeing them.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,It is a practice that is done in most of Africa, India, and the Middle East. Why? It is because in those cultures, a woman must get a husband to survive. I mean, since she can’t work, she must have a husband to support her. And to them, a woman is undesirable if she is not a virgin before she’s married. So the female circumcision supposedly eliminates the woman’s desires thus keeping her a virgin until marriage. It also helps to ensure that she doesn’t have an affair with another man. And yes, the practice is still done today, unfortunately. However, the issue is starting to come to light to humanitarian groups, and thus trying to be stopped. Also, some areas of those countries that are more Westernized and urban do not encourage the practice.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I do not know for sure the answer to this, because the concept of the ‘geisha’ has changed over time, and also I am not Japanese. However, from what I’ve read on the subject, geishas were entertainers, equivalent to what an actress is today. I mean, although it was an expression of Japanese culture, I don’t think it was race-based at all. However, keeping in mind present racism that may be apparent in the Japanese culture (accepting whites fully but rejecting blacks), it is possible that a white woman that tries to be a geisha is accepted more than a black woman that does the same thing. But then again, it may be viewed as a form of mockery. But, as I said before I’m not Japanese, so this is all my opinion.
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Name : Kristina, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,
