Do things that are of interest to you - hiking groups, reading groups, something where people gather for a purpose. That said, congrats to you for looking for a woman who respects herself.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, I'm sure there are black Wiccans. We welcome diversity of all kinds. You can find many web sites on the Internet; there are even listings for covens in your area. Check out metaphysical stores. Also, you don't have to join a group. I have been practicing as a solitary for several years. I am looking to join a group, but doing so is a personal preference. I would like to find a teacher, and so I am looking for a group. Many people never feel that need. Good luck and may the goddess bless you.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, I think you'd be better classed as agnostic - someone who is questioning but hasn't made any decisions.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, It's possible that he may not have known. Some people may not realize 'what was wrong' until they are 40 or beyond. It's not so much a matter of 'admitting' it at this point - they truly did not know. Then when they compare what they had, well, the 'right' choice outstrips the 'wrong' one by so much that it doesn't count for anything, and they have to leave their marriage.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, As a gay woman, I love the taste, smell, texture, feel ... everything about them. On the other hand, I dislike the male organs. Not my ball of wax, thank you. So even if you don't find yourself appealing, rest assured there are those who do. The vagina is the defining bit, sexually, of being a woman. As far as getting over your hang-ups about it, just relax. You don't need to understand the attaction to recognize it's there. I don't understand how people can eat certain things, but it doesn't change the fact that they enjoy them.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, I believe a lot of the issue has to do with consent. Sadism/masochism is a consensual practice, as are homosexuality, where bestiality and pedophilia are unverifiable as to consent. A child does not have the judgment to determine if he or she consents, and of course an animal cannot tell us if they consent. It really puts these people in a bind - they literally cannot get their needs met in a societally accepted way. The needs remain ... fantasy seems to be the only real way they could use this.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, My husband considers himself an atheist, by which he means he does not believe in a god or an afterlife. I know people who do not 'practice' a religion, but do not consider themselves atheists because they do believe in deitie(s). So belief seems to be the main component, rather than actions.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, I think people of different religions can get along nicely in a marriage. My husband is an atheist, and I'm a Wiccan. We simply agree to disagree, and believe me, religion is the least of our differences! If we had decided to raise children, we would offer both points of view and let the child decide which was appropriate for her to follow.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, An orgasm is the climax of sexual arousal. Some women do not orgasm due to conditioning (they're not supposed to enjoy sex), physical immaturity, inappropriate tecnique, insecurity or a host of other things. As a woman, I know my arousal definitely has to do with my emotions - if I don't feel good before sex, I'm not going to enjoy it. So relax and realize it may come with age ... and experiment. On your own if you like, and give yourself permission.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, I know a lot of people in the S & M scene, and one very prominent dynamic is exhibitionism. We LIKE to be seen and admired, and nudity is not a big issue. Just think: the audience not only admires your beauty, but we pay cash for the privilege!
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, I think it has to do with the high population of lesbians in the feminist movement of the '70s. Lesbians are unavailable to men, so the reaction is to say, 'I wouldn't want her, anyway.' That way, he doesn't have to admit she wouldn't want him.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, I'm not sure, but my husband has the same issue with my girlfriend. I love her for her compassion, her energy, her eyes, etc. She is not what the society sees as attractive, so he doesn't want anythign to do with her. I think she wouldn't mind him. He likes her friend tho, who is what is generally deemed attractive, even though she has no maturity. Thus, even though she's cute, I can't be with her.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, The g-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, and feels a little bumpy; it gets hard when pushed. She might feel like she needs to pee. In my experience, g-spot orgasms are much less intense than clitoral ones, which I prefer. The g-spot may also be more likely to make her ejaculate, when fluid comes out. Nothing to worry about.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, Personally, I feel disgust during them. Being pretty (within a very specified set of numbers), and giving the 'right' answers wins you the pageant, whereas being yourself and saying what you really want at the microphone will certainly lose you the show. Pretending you want with all your heart to want 'world peace' when all you really want is the cash from winning to pay your rent with is stupid. The answers are so pat, you'd think they were given a set of acceptable answers by the judges. I have never participated, nor will I. Also, you get 50 girls competing, and only one gets to win. You get 49 tagged with 'loser' in a society that hates women anyway. We don't need that kind of self-esteem problems.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, I use queer because otherwise I have to use 'married lesbian' and that just gives people the willies.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
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