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- The g-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, and feels a little bumpy; it gets hard when pushed. She might feel like she needs to pee. In my experience, g-spot orgasms are much less intense than clitoral ones, which I prefer. The g-spot may also be more likely to make her ejaculate, when fluid comes out. Nothing to worry about.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I was on the pill for 10 years and recently went off it. My experience: going on it, gained about 10 pounds. Regular periods, less PMS, less bleeding, great skin. Going off it: ovulated my first cycle; I have acne again (wierd, at age 30); and my emotions are back. On the pill, I had no emotional range. I feel great now! It worked great for the time I was on it, but my life changed or something and it was time to get off and back to being natural. I had to try a couple of different pills before I found one that was right. My sex drive also decreased, but that may be due to my attraction to women making itself known more than anything else.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I don't think S&M necessarily requires all that much expense. It's not that much more expensive than standard 'clubbing', and when attending S/M parties often the major equipment can be provided. Some smaller toys can be purchased for a reasonable price, or made yourself. I don't see a correlation between religion (or lack thereof) and S/M. Most people may be from a christian background, but that's only because most people in the U.S. are from a christian background. I myself am a pagan. It's like saying that in a society made up mostly of blond people, that 'blond' people are more into it than others. People love S/M for varying reasons: a search for sensation, the feeling of being naughty, re-enacting childhood scripts the way you'd like them to turn out, loving to show off.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I can only speak to my own experience. I am married to a man, but consider myself lesbian. I met him before I knew I loved women. When I told him of my new attraction, we talked about it. We had an experience with a woman, and it was wonderful. She was not interested in a relationship, so that was the end of it for her. It may be something you can do once, and be happy having done. It may be something you wish to continue. For me, I need to find that special gal to complete my life. I want a long-term relationship. I am looking for a three-part marriage, and I realize it will take a very large amount of work, but I think it's worth it.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,There is NOTHING like the scent of a woman.... We all smell fairly similar, so there's nothing to worry about. Another poster said if he's been there before, he knows what he's getting and likes it. I agree! So relax! There's also nothing else like having the love of your life go down on you.... it's fabulous!!!! Let him show how much he loves you. :)User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Personally, I like the lower parts to be shaved or waxed or generally bare, because I can see what I'm doing, and also I get less hairs in my teeth. I don't like to stop, but I have a really hard time enjoying it when that happens.... Shaving gets prickly pretty fast, but Nair or other removers do an ok job. I prefer waxed, but I realize what that entails and therefore can't actually 'ask' anybody to do it. If she chooses to, that's awesome, but I won't ask for it. Hair on the upper portion is good, in part to avoid the 'adolescent' look.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Just because a person is the 'right' gender does not mean they are a potential lover. A straight girl doesn't fall all over herself just because it's a guy she's friends with, and lesbians are no different. Sure they look good, sure you like them, but you just don't want sex with them. I think this is a problem with any minority group, because it is so hard to find someone of that group that when you do, you *have* to find out if you can date them. On meeting a lesbian, or a bisexual woman, I feel a pull to date them, because they *might* be 'the one'. Not because she's cute, or a good person, or I like her, but simply because she's another lesbian. I think that's a pretty dumb reason for me to ask them out.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Personally, I hate those contests. What better way to tell young girls that appearances are all that matter? To say the 'cute' thing in order to win? I pointedly refused to watch the sexiest bachelor in america show, and not just because I am not attracted to men. I think they are stupid and pointless and promote a lessening of our dignity. Parade on stage, with your bathing suit glued to your backside, and your teeth coated with vaseline, your breasts taped to look firmer. It's not any better for it being men on display; women slobbering over men, vs men slobbering over women. Gross either way, and not a good model for anybody. Even worse is the pageants for younger girls, babies. What 7-year old kid needs that kind of pressure? However many enter, and only one gets to win. The rest get to go home thinking themselves losers when in fact they are just as wonderful as the one who won. And people wonder why we have self-image problems in this country.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Sometimes it's easier to just fake it, and they'll get it over with. She might be tired and not want to invest all the energy that it takes to make sex good. Yes, it would be better if she would teach him how to do it right, but sometimes it just takes so much effort....User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I didn't know I loved women until age 21 or so; by this time, I had formed a very loving relationship with a man. Maybe I should have realized it earlier, I don't know, but I didn't. He was the first one I told, once I had learned this about myself. Had he reacted badly, I probably wouldn't have stayed. However, he loved me and this was just another facet of me. I have never been faced with 'having' to make a choice. Our decision was to look for a woman to make our marriage into a three-part instead of a two-part. I haven't found her yet, but I believe she is out there. You would be surprised how many happily married lesbians there are. Some have female relationships, some do not. Some have divorced their husbands, others are planning to, others have no intentions of ever doing so.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I choose not to be disturbed by sound effects. I'm never going to see this person in the next stall, they're not going to remember me or this time, and it's unhealthy to stifle eliminations for fear of making noise.I don't understand about putting your purse on the dirty floor, either - that's really gross. Please give me a hanger or a pulldown shelf, any day. As for conversation, I have conversed in a stall- it depends on who I'm with. A couple of my friends and I were reading the graffiti to each other... :)
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Having children or not having them should definitely be talked about at some point in a relationship. A lot of men and women do not want children, and it makes for less stress if you agree. I think it's a problem that women are not encouraged to think about whether they want children or not. It's assumed you do and that something is wrong with you if you don't. And many of us have children but don't actually want them - or have them way too young.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,It's because heterosexuality is so much more common. We are what, 10 percent of the population? That leaves 90 percent heterosexual, and when making generalities, you go with the most common. If a child answers the phone, a telemarketer would ask for the daddy, never mind that it could be a divorced home, or one where dad ran off, or died tragically (last week), etc.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Thank you, Christina! I know I'm not alone. While I do feel, I just don't get overwhelmed by it, and I feel no need to "broadcast" it.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Could it be that the effeminate, hair-dressing men are not more common, just the most identifiable? The truck driver, steer-roper, body builder, businessman, etc., may be gay, even if it's not stamped on their forehead. The fact remains: You cannot identify a gay person by looking at them. I don't "look" queer, but I am. Which, by the way, is hell for getting dates.User Detail :
Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 29, City : Ventura, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,
