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- I would venture to guess that if he's watching porn perhaps there's something he's not getting in bed. Has he asked for something and you dismiss it because you think it perverted/disgusting ? You say your sex life is great but maybe that's just you're opinion - have you asked him ? Another thing to be aware of and I notice this about women is that my girlfreind tells me I never ask for sex - I tell her that I do but that she's always tired or doing something else. What you have here is a person who thinks they're listening but not really. Tap into what he's asking you - try it for a week - a month and write it down on a 3x5 card and look at it after a month. I think you'll be surprised.
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Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I think the only reason they get treated better would be based on circumstances. My friend who's black and a musician hated dealing with other blacks because they didn't have any money and he got tired of the talk and no money when he played. Whenever he saw white people coming he of course was generally happier because they didn't b*llshit but put their money where their mouth is. I treat people with money with disdain because they usually act as if their sh*t doesn't stink. I worked with people who were born with a silver spoon in their mouth and I basically stay away from them because they think everyone whould stop what they're doing and kiss their ass. I stay away from these people - they are repulsive.User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I've never a had a woman who swallowed my ejaculate. It's too bad because I've gone above and beyond in pleasing a woman orally. I think most women whom I've known are sexually lazy this way.Too me love is making sacrifices/concessions in bed for your partner. It might be painful or uncomfortable but believe me that's what a relationship entails. I appreciate the response from the woman who listened to her man tell her that it was an absolute turn on to have her be that submissive. She's a smart woman to do it. It's not like it was life threatening and believe me don't think for one moment that she's reaping the rewards for such submission !!! He probably worships her out of bed and inside it also.User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,My kids nver swore at me when they were young. My teenage daughter flips me off now but I have a long memory. Next time she wants something I'll bring this up. I will make her suffer the ramifications one way or another. If this is happening it's because the parents have no chin or backbone. A lot of them are afraid of confrontation but I enjoy the tests my teenagers present to me. It's all a test to see what parents are made of and sadly, a lot of them are failing it.User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,They are looking for something better because before we hit 30 we're rabid sex fiends. At 25 years old I met a woman - 48 who had it all but didn't realize it until I was 30. Date until you're 30 then get married but here's a good tip - make sure he's your freind and lover. If either one does not exist move on.User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,As far I'm concerend the kids are an extension of the parents. If the kids are fat it's the parents that are at fault. Hello !! quit buying soda pop, cookies, micro wave meals - Hello !!! Get some back bone and stop the madness. Buy only what you want them to eat for dinner and snacking - save some money to boot. Sure they're going to be hungry at the outset but at least you won't raise a gourmand down the road. Furthermore why are you blaming McDonalds ? Don't give any money out so they can go. Hello ! no money no McDonalds.User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I've always wanted to discuss this. I never have heard so much crap about men and directions. My issues we're the women who got the directions f'upped !! If I do get lost I will call or get directions if I'm in the vicinity. This is a fallacy that I think should be attributed to women - or is just the women I've been known to pick ????User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,This girl is only saying this because she's only 15. She probably goes to a predominately black school where all her black freinds have noticeably large Butts than white girls. I'm 47 and I've seen a lot women of all races with Big Butts and no Butt. It don't matter what color a woman is - it's all in the genetics.User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Here's what I think - I'm originally from California and moved to Castle Rock Co in 1995. I think most mid-westerners are close minded, insular in their thinking, slow witted and sometimes I wonder is it because of the elevation and the fact that they need to take a deep breath of oxgen and thus let it travel to their brains !!! I had my own business in Castle Rock and believe me I got a good taste of pig farming mentality, that's why I moved to Parker (Upper Middle Class). The impression I get from people here is that they'll write you off on a dime and wouldn't hesitate to shit down your neck if they got the chance. Another thing that gets me is everything's a secret here. After living here for 9 years I've learned to become distrustful of others and I pretty much keep to myself.User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Many women grow up believing sex is dirty or shameful - this is what I have a problem with. Who are girls/women listening too ? Do you allow yourself to listen to this from your girlfreinds, your mother ? This gullibility although unconscious can be attributed to women measuring their looks by what the media portrays what a woman should like. Are you a thinking person or do you let others do it for you ? Just like an interview I once had - the interviewer asked me what came to mind when they say this and I said this and the interviewer said: That isn't what I was looking for - I said, guess what you asked me and I told you, if you don't like the answer and want a different one ask someone else. I will not be manipulated into what's so called best for me. Believe me, as I get older I disagree a lot and then I expand on the why. I've always enjoyed sex and believe me men have no reservations with regards to sex and their bodies. It seems like all the dirtiness and shamefulness are coming from the women.User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I like all the comments that preceded mine - I was 25 and dated a women who was 48. Yes the sex was great because she had a sex drive that was as strong if not stronger than mine. But what made this relationship go and damm I wish I met her at 30 (Would have married her) was that she had a great personality which made her outside looks jump from a 7 to a 20. I loved being with her and going places with her. The sex was the icing on the cake. Another reason young guys hit older women up is 1. They don't have mental hangups about sex 2. They want sex and don 't play stupid little head games. The war of the sexes has always had issues with younger men/women dating because we're looking for completely different things at the time.User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,If atheists believe there is no God or the Bible then why would they in a state of anger or frustration 'Jesus Christ' or my fiing God !! Do any of them name their children Judas ?! Just a thought.User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,A woman of age would know that men have fixations, some being 'breast' men or 'butt' men or 'leg' men. It's par for the course as pertains to a man's visual preferences. Some women might say this is sexist, but right or wrong, it's there staring you in the eye. I am white and am a 'butt' man all the way. I don't think it comes down to race. I know a lot of guys - white, black, Hispanic - who are fanatic 'butt' men. A guy at work always checks out my girlfriend's butt - but the first thing that comes to mind isn't "Is he black?" I know it could be any crazed butt man - we're all the same. We all have likes and dislikes.Elaborating on the fixation part: men are visual, and when we see a woman's butt, it literally drives us up the wall. It's the size, the curves and it sticks out - it's all meant to attract. To give you an analogy - remember Star Trek? Remember when Spock had to go back to Vulcan, his home planet, and mate? He went crazy and lost control of his otherwise normal senses - that's what happens when we see a woman's butt.
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Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,You're not the same person anymore. You made your mistakes. Accentuate the postive and move forward. No sense in dredging up old history that serves to promote bad feelings and mistrust and most of all beating yourself up that absolutely makes no sense at all because the world will take care of that for you. (School of hard Knocks)User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Very good question - your young so I will fill you in. Getting another job is your first priority where you will be accepted. I would venture a company where it has females of any color in management so you can garner their support. Secondly, remember this - life is about expectations and people have them - get used to it. You can either cry or step up to the plate and beat the odds. Analogy - expectations are like dating which I did a lot of when I was in my 20 to 30's. Everytime I went out on a date the woman had all these expectations (The so called Pygmallion effect) If people perceive you a certain way and it seems they have done so to you it's hard to break them out of that mold. I especially find this hard living in Colorado in a mid-western atmosphere where people are generally mistrusting and some if not most have only High School educations (Just my opinion - there are exceptions)- which to me indicates a closed mind and perceived expectations because it's the easy if not lazy thinker's way to order their world. Put another way people have a tendency to label you and put in a neat little box called the new black girl and she can't be all that smart but the white boy is because that's what we're perceived to be. THE BALL'S IN YOUR COURT - WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ?User Detail :
Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,
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