ShirleyAvery

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  • in reply to: Opinions #20834

    ShirleyAvery
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    Tolerance means respecting someone as an equal or at least worthy of equal treatment. Do you just “disagree with their lifestyle” or do you condemn it and consider gays inferior or immoral? (I’m straight BTW) Jesus taught love and acceptance. There is no reason to “tolerate” somebody who considers you inferior or immoral as long as they are not harming you or anyone else. Do you think blacks should tolerate or respect whites who think their race is inferior? Would you tolerate men who think women are all inferior to men? If you are asking gays to respect your idea that they are not worthy of respect and equal treatment, you are not asking for tolerance, you are asking them to accept bigotry. What would Jesus do? Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Why can’t gays show public affection? #20835

    ShirleyAvery
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    In gay disctricts of larger cities, esp. NYC and San Francisco, it would be acceptable. Most straight people, esp men are repelled by the sight of 2 men kissing. So, don’t look! Remember the outcry when the movie BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN came out? Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: science #20751

    ShirleyAvery
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    Are you referring to the use of in vitro fertilization or surrogate mothers for couples who are infertile? Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: blood type difference from one another ? #20752

    ShirleyAvery
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    There are different categories of blood types: A AB B & O is one category. Rh+ and Rh- is another category. I’m not a biologist, but you may want to check some reliable websites (those that end with .edu instead of .com) that will explain the differences. I can’t tell from your question what your concern is. Are you a blood donor? Do you need a blood transfusion? Please specify. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: families #20753

    ShirleyAvery
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    Wow! In movies, books and TV shows, families are generally portrayed as a warm fuzzy unit that provides love, safety & protection. For those of us raised in alcoholic, abusive or otherwise dysfunctional families, the term “family” connotes a scary, unhappy group of people we must protect ourselves from. Counseling may help the above, but if alcoholics, abusers and other dysfunctional family members don’t participate in recovery, it may be impossible to reconcile with them. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: What makes someone lower, middle or upper class? #20754

    ShirleyAvery
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    Great question! Most people regard lower, middle and upper class in terms of income. However, education and professional status may not correlate to income levels. I suggested that YForum add EDUCATION as a separate category. I am an Honors college grad, but very low income due to a long history of depression. There are others, e.g., teachers & social workers, who may have graduate education, but are relatively low income. Great question! Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: ‘Would have went’: The way people talk #20755

    ShirleyAvery
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    As a former English teacher, I lament the decline of proper English. In some cases, it’s just laziness. I’m not referring to fancy shmancy literary speech, just good grammar. It’s true that spoken language is more casual than written language. On the internet, anything goes and speed seems more important than precision. My English skills have come from a good secondary education and from avid reading. With the TV, internet and DVDs, few Americans read for pleasure any more. Apparently, some folks think that “keeping it real” is incompatible with taking the time and effort to speak correctly. It’s sad. If you look at those who have succeeded – Bill Gates, Obama, Colin Powell – they all speak correctly. It’s no coincidence. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: ‘Rocket people’ at work #20756

    ShirleyAvery
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    I agree. What’s worse and more dangerous are drivers who do the same. I’ve observed that in public parking lots and my own apartment parking lot, there are young drivers who zoom by (often talking on cell phones), not considering that small children may wander into the lots and that other safety issues are at stake. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Pornography and religion #20757

    ShirleyAvery
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    As a Jew, there’s no prohibition i know of regarding porn. I think it’s a legitimate outlet, esp. for males, sometimes a good substitute for cheating. However, if it becomes an obsession that replaces or harms a healthy loving relationship, it’s a problem. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Fish and cheese and Jewish diet #20758

    ShirleyAvery
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    Most kosher Jews consider chicken to be meat, but you are correct since chickens are not mammals. Apparently, there was a famous Rabbi centuries ago who agreed that since chickens do not nurse their young, they are technically not “meat”. The issue boils down to the spirit of the law rather than the letter of the law. Few would argue that chicken flesh isn’t “meat”. That brings up another question I’ve had. Why are Jews forbidden to hunt, but allowed to fish? I do believe Jews commit less violent crimes because most of us are repulsed by the idea of killing animals and causing their bloody suffering. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Geesh, get on with it! #20759

    ShirleyAvery
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    You guessed right as far as I’m concerned. I’m afraid to carry cash because I was mugged many years ago. I had only $3 in my purse at the time. Also, women tend to have lower incomes than men so they can’t take the chance of losing even a little bit. I use a checkbook & debit card a lot so I can keep track of my expenses, too. Also, if I have cash, I’ll spend more easily. I think twice about writing a check or using a credit or debit card. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Doesn’t anyone use maps? #20760

    ShirleyAvery
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    Although I consider myself creative and primarily R brained, I rely on Mapquest and similar online mapping services to make sure I get to an unfamiliar place easily. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Why brag about bad grades? #20761

    ShirleyAvery
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    Why are some H.S. students proud of low grades? They’re probably overcompensating for their lack of achievement and/or rationalizing their laziness or perhaps unaware of an undiagnosed learning disability. It may be immaturity. A few years of flipping burgers may change their minds or they may cry racisim or consider themselves hapless victims, blaming others instead of looking at their own choices Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Hasidic Jewish tradition #20762

    ShirleyAvery
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    I am a Reform Jew. Some of the Chassidic practices, like keeping kosher are Jewish laws from the Torah. Although men are also required to keep their heads covered, the types of hats you describe, plus long black clothing is just a custom. It is not prescribed by Jewish law. Chassidic and other Orthodox Jews are far removed from the REform. Orthodox Jews believe that the Torah is the divine word of God as dictated to Moses. Reform Jews and most Conservative Jews believe the Torah is a sacred document written by scholarly men over time, but inspired by God. Still there are few fundamentalist Jews since Hebrew text is often open to interpretation. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Circumcision and God #20763

    ShirleyAvery
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    I can tell by your other questions that you are not meaning to be offensive. By your logic, however, Catholicism, which seems to dwell on the evils of masturbation, premarital sex and even impure thoughts would imply a God that’s obsessed with sex. Though Catholics tend to elevate celibacy as the ultimate sacrifice, look at all the pediphile priests. You can’t suppress sexuality and remain healthy. Jews, in fact, have a much healthier attitude toward sex in general. We don’t separate the spirit from the flesh as Christians do. We believe God created us as physical beings and sex for pleasure as well as procreation. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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