If you were adopted, ask your adoptive parents what agency they got you from. Go there and see what there policy is on finding biological parents. Some don't want to be found because they feel guilty Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I'm a straight female and enjoy both hetero porn and gay male porn. Don't care for lesbian porn. Why? Who cares? Do what you enjoy and don't worry about it. As I've told a few close friends, some of the porn and fantasies that turn me on are NOT necessarily things I would want to participate in myself, but for whatever reason, they get me hot. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I'm Jewish. Although Catholics were also persecuted & killed by the Nazis, due to thousands of years of anti-semitism, many Jews don't trust that gentiles really understand the feelings involved. Maybe you can do something online where it doesn't matter what your religion or background is. Here in St. Louis, more of the Reform temples are involved in interfaith outreaches. Perhaps you can get involved in something like that where you live to make the right kind of contacts within the Jewish community. When people get to know you better, they may be more inclined to help you get what you want. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, My priorities are: 1. Pleasant face with a pleasant expression. 2. Nice head of hair 3. Small tight butt 4. WEdding ring finger bare Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I can't speak for others, but I often fantasize about a guy I'm attracted to. I have to like his personality. If he's a handsome jerk, it doesn't work for m. Also, it has to be somebody I know, not a movie star. I also have some sexual fantasies about sexual activities that turn me on, but I wouldn't necessarily want to do them in real life. Sometimes I use internet porn, but not that often. Sometimes even gay male porn! Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I live in a racially diverse community. There does seem to be a less racial tension. The election of Obama is highly symbolic. I'm white and I voted on issues, not color, as did a vast number of Americans. Isn't that indicative of a "color-blind" society? There's a public radio show called "News & Notes" which deals with issues concerning blacks and other people of color. Although I find it a pretty intelligent show, I was taken aback to hear one of the recent broadcasts cautioning listeners not to assume that the election of Obama means we are in a post-racial era. I'm not naive, but let's not stir things up. There will always be racists and other bigots, but I get tired of hearing blacks scream, "it's racial" to explain or justify any disagreement or problem between a b
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, If you're serious, ask your doctor. If you're not experiencing pain or urinary symptoms, you're probably OK. Listen to your body. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, they make us look and feel sexier. Not all high heels are torture to wear and now that I'm older, I'd only wear them if I was going to the theatre or some place where I wouldn't be walking or dancing much. According to the very funny movie (based on a true story) "Kinky Boots", high heels elevate a woman's behind so that she looks (from behind) like she's primed for sexual penetration. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I'd say that 6 inches erect is well within the average range, meaning that most men fall into that category. Concentrate more on being a kind, unselfish person who wants to please your partner. Men are more hung up on size than most women. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, Unfortunately, what you describe is all too common. I grew up in a home where problems were either denied or minimized. When I was young and expressed certain emotions, I was told either "It's not that bad" or "You shouldn't feel that way." It's called a dysfunctional family - one that doesn't honestly deal with reality and often leads to alcoholism, gambling, bulimia and other addictions. As an adult I learned that that kind of suppression is very unhealthy. Get counseling! It's taken me years of counseling to counteract and unlearn those unhealthy denials and bad coping devices. There are also free self-help groups: AA for alcoholics, OA for Overeaters, Al-Anon for people who are friends or family of alcoholics, GA for gamblers who want to quit. Good luck! Just Curiou
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, Even though it seems to make no sense, a lot of women (and men) come from homes where there were neglected, mistreated, criticized, ignored or abused verbally, sexually or physically. Consequently, they have low self-esteem and believe they don't deserve someone nice. Plus, they think that mean men are "normal" since that's what they grew up with. If they're smart enough to get counseling and start to like & respect themselves, they may develop more self esteem. However, most people - men and women - are superficial and guys (and women) with good looks can get away with murder sometimes. I've learned that prettiness in men or women lasts only thru the first few dates. If there's no personality, forget it! Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I've read that blacks in America, even poor blacks live much better than most Africans, where dirt poverty and famine are common. Yes, slavery was a horrible thing, but I agree that it was a long time ago and it's time for blacks to stop blaming slavery for their every problem. Life is hard and unfair for everyone. Success takes hard work. There are not shortcuts. Look at Obama! Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, There are books on self-pleasuring and probably a slew of stuff on the internet, though it would be hard to separate it from porn. book stores & public libraries in larger cities have these books. It's natural, but most women are too embarassed to seek this info. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I can't speak for all buxom women, but I have larger breasts since I'm heavier and proud of 'em! I'm not sure what a "plush vagina" is. If it's one surrounded by more fat, it might enclose the penis more in certain positions. Don't know for sure. Since heavier women are looked down on by society (mostly other women), we appreciate men who appreciate us and that adds to our enthusiasm and performance for men like you. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I assume you're infertile. I've never heard of a testicular transplant. Like kidneys, each man has two, so it may be difficult, but not impossible to find a live donor. I don't know if there would be a problem with organ rejection or "rewiring", but I've never heard of the possiblity. Sounds like the basis of an interesting medical-legal thriller, though. Have you asked a doctor about this? Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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