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Since every woman is different erotically, you need to teach a man what you like in foreplay. Men hate to look foolish and it may be easier for them to do nothing than risk a mistake. As I’ve grown more experienced, I’ve learned that my enthusiastic responses (“That felt good” or “I liked that” or just a happy sigh or moan) spurs them on to more foreplay. They need feedback. A rewarding response from you is their doggie biscuit. Conversely, if he’s doing something you don’t like, move his hand or his … whatever to where you want it or tell him. If your attitude is helpful rather than critical, most men appreciate it. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,YOu are wrong to assume that women “in shape” always make better lovers & that fat women can’t perform well in bed. Aside from the physical aspect of “performing,” what makes a a good lover in and out of bed is someone who is unselfish, loving, affectionate and wants to please his/her partner. All the gymnastic screwing in the world can’t compensate for lack of that. I am a white woman, attractive and have been overweight most of my adult life. I stay well-proportioned (smaller waist) with exercise. My boyfriend, 25 years younger, pursued me! He is very thin. He loves my ample, rounded breasts and behind. Though I can’t do aerobics like Jane Fonda, I am just as frisky, active and full of stamina as I was when thinner and younger. Not quite as agile, but compensate with great gus
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I keep a pack of baby wipes near my toilet. After each BM, I fold wipe inhalf around one finger & clean outside & inside as far as my finger will reach. Fresh & No more skid marks, either.
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,You’ll find out what’s so wonderful about it when you have an affectionate, caring partner who takes time with foreplay and wants to please you. there has to be some level of commitment to the relationship, though you don’t have to be madly in love. Love makes it much better. It’s the physical conversation between two people who each want to please their partner and in the process, everyone’s a winner. With guys who skip foreplay, want only a one-night stand and are totally into themselves, forget it. It’s not worth it.
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’ve studied the bible for decades with professors who can read the Old Testament in the original Hebrew and Aramaic. premarital sex is NOT PROHIBITED in the Old Testament. Adultery AND VARIOUS FORMS OF incest ARE PROHIBITED, but not premarital sex. If you want to convince me I’m wrong, give me the exact book, chapter & verse that supports your claim, as well as the translation of your bible. Where is that exact quotation? There are a lot of incorrect translations and distorted interpretations preached by those with their own private agenda.
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If it’s true that whenever we step outside of God’s will we get into trouble with unwanted pregnancies, STDs, etc., by that reasoning, God must love lesbians best because they never have unwanted pregnancies and they also have the lowest percentage of AIDS and other STDS. (I am not a lesbian, myself.) Furthermore, there are plenty of married, God-fearing women who have unwanted pregnancies and some of the other problems you describe. Some of what you say is valid; the rest sounds like preaching without facts to support it.
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’m a middle-age female & wondered exactly the same thing. I was shocked to learn that more than one guy considered me a tease because we petted, etc. and didn’t go all the way. My male counselor suggested that if a woman explicity tells a man upfront that there’s to be no intercourse or ***job, it’s OK. I’d like to get men’s reaction to that?
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’m a middle aged female & often read on the toilet. I keep a stash of magazines, catalogs, Dilbert books, etc. there. My dad often read on the toilet for long periods of time because, I suspect, it was the only place where he was undisturbed or hassled by my mother.
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’m Jewish and Jews have always placed a great emphasis on education, including higher education. The Asians I know say the same is true of their background. More education often leads to more opportunities, hence greater success.
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I am a female with many gay friends (I’m in theatre). The gay men who enjoy the friendship of women aren’t out to impress us or prove anything, so they can be more comfortable around us. My theory is that a lot of straight guys are so hung up on their hetero-sex drive, they can’t feel completely comfortable and hang loose around any women whom they find attractive – just my theory. Whadda ya think guys?
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Totally depends on who the guy is. If it’s someone I’m in an established relationship, it can be flattering. If it’s someone who’s hit on me that I have no interest in – shut up!
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Depends on how I feel about the guy. The best way for a guy to broach the subject with a woman is by saying something like, “I think about you a lot” or “I dream of you sometimes”. Both are romantic, potentially. If she picks up on it and says, “What exactly do you think about?” take it slow until her responses indicated that she wants to hear about sexual details; otherwise the response is probabaly “Ewww!”
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,My own opinion: it’s because literacy and education have always been stressed. In order to be a good Jew, one must be educated in Jewish law. The stress on religious education and literacy has spilled over into secular education and literacy. More literacy and education equals more smarts.
Another explanation: Because of anti-Semitism, Jews around the world were banned from certain occupations, land ownership, etc. Therefore, Jews were forced into service occupations, such as medicine, law and teaching, all of which require extensive education.
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Several answers:
1) Like other whites in America, Jews fear blacks because of the violent crime statistics. I live in St. Louis, which has lots of black crime in the city.
2) I think there’s also the feeling that while both groups have been oppressed, the Jews have managed to make incredible accomplishments, especially in medicine, science & literature and the arts – way out of proportion to their percentages in the population. In other words, the Jewish response to oppression is overachievement. By contrast, some blacks seem to use their history of oppression as an excuse for lack of accomplishment. There have been notable blacks like George Washington Carver, but the most famous blacks seem to be those who’ve achieved in sports, which seems to accrue more benefit to the individual than to society.User Detail :
Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I don’t recall Adam & Eve being married before procreating. None of the commandments prohibits premarital sex. Where does the bible forbid premarital sex? It’s not in the Old Testament.
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
