ShirleyAvery

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  • in reply to: Too old for her? #21348

    ShirleyAvery
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    Who cares what others think. Are you really worried about that or just afraid of rejection. Hey, we’re all afraid of rejection. Whether you’re interested in the possibility of a long term relationship or just a fling, be honest with yourself & with her. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Aging and bladder control #21349

    ShirleyAvery
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    The most common problem is urinary stress incontenance – leaking a bit when exercising, coughing, laughing. But there is surgery for that. I’ve had it. It’s called TVT – trans vaginal taping. I had it 5 yrs ago & may need a tune-up, but it’s not very invasive, though there is a short recovery period. There are pills for this condition too, but I’d rather do the surgery and be done with it for a long time. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Is It Racist #21350

    ShirleyAvery
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    No, honey, it’s fine. Now with Barak Obama as president elect, I hope everyone will ease up on the political correctness issue. It would be racist if you called someone of another race a dirty name, but you have a right to your preferences in dolls. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: girls #21351

    ShirleyAvery
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    This is just a guess, but since girls are the ones who get pregnant (and girls are getting their periods sooner than they used to), they have to become more responsible about the consequeneces of their actions. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: help me #21352

    ShirleyAvery
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    YOunger people are more idealistic and that’s good. They have more energy and drive to change the world. That’s good. Some older folks who’ve experienced a lot of disappointments – loss of jobs, death of friends or relatives, health problems, consider themselves more “realistic” about life. When I was in college, I understood the world intellectually. AS an English major, I read world literature and could analyze it brilliantly. Now that I’m 55, I look back and really understand those characters on an emotional level. Also, lots of kids your age seem very superficial and they’re always on the damned cell phone shutting out the rest of the world in our eyes. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Teenagers #21353

    ShirleyAvery
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    Probably because we all did stupid things as teenagers and realize that teens tend to do lots of things without considering the consequences, like having unprotected sex or using drugs (not that some older people are immune from that). Also jealousy. We wish we were your age, but knowing all that we know now. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: older men to younger women #21354

    ShirleyAvery
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    Because they probably have more money than younger men and unfortunately, too many women, young & older, are more impressed with money than personality in a man. If you’re not interested, just say no thanks. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Teen sex? #21450

    ShirleyAvery
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    I’m glad you asked. With so many STDs it’s important to give the teens accurate information in a non-judgmental way. At the same time, you are perfectly within bounds by telling them (not in a preachy way) your feelings about teen sexual behavior. They’ll respect you more if you are honest and not preachy. They’ll do what they want anyway, so it’s better to give them enough info to be as safe as possible. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: How you see yourself #21451

    ShirleyAvery
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    It’s a matter of more education, not money. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: english #21452

    ShirleyAvery
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    As a former English teacher, I’m wondering if you have a learning disability – trouble reading or perhaps have a vision or hearing problem you’re unaware of. If none of the above applies, get off your lazy ass and study. School is not all about fun and games. Do you think Barak Obama, Colin Powell and Bill Gates succeeded by luck? They all had a good education. That takes hard work. Sorry about that. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Shaved pubic hair #21278

    ShirleyAvery
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    Like other respondents, I assumed that men prefer oral or vaginal sex. Also, since men masturbate so much, I guess we assume that they get more than enough hand jobs. You guys need to tell us it’s something you want and show us how. SEriously. I asked a former boyfriend to put his hand around my hand which was around his cock and demonstrate the speed, grip,etc. We just don’t know. I suspect that many women would be relieved to give a hand job rather than a blow job. To some of us, it seems the lazy option.

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Men’s sexual attitudes #21279

    ShirleyAvery
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    Honey, you’re hanging out with the wrong guys. Sure, there are guys like that, but if they’re selfish in that area, they’re usually selfish in other areas. There are many guys who enjoy foreplay (or pretend to). Also, many men learn about sex from porn (which lacks foreplay) and they think this reflects real sex. If you take the time & effort to teach them about foreplay, you’ll be rewarded Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Men’s sexual attitudes #21280

    ShirleyAvery
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    Since every woman is different erotically, you need to teach a man what you like in foreplay. Men hate to look foolish and it may be easier for them to do nothing than risk a mistake. As I’ve grown more experienced, I’ve learned that my enthusiastic responses (“That felt good” or “I liked that” or just a happy sigh or moan) spurs them on to more foreplay. They need feedback. A rewarding response from you is their doggie biscuit. Conversely, if he’s doing something you don’t like, move his hand or his … whatever to where you want it or tell him. If your attitude is helpful rather than critical, most men appreciate it. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Reply To: Do Jews hate black people? #21290

    ShirleyAvery
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    Taking credit for someone else’s accomplishments happens to people of all races, religions, cultures, & genders so your response doesn’t answer the question. Recognition has been given to prominent Blacks in history like George Washington Carver, Booker T. Washington & others. I live in St. Louis, which is very racially divided and everything is a “racial matter”. Why do qualified blacks lose jobs to some whites? Listen, I’ve been more than qualified for many jobs that went to somebody else. Is it because I’m female or not Protestant? Who knows? I just have to keep trying. Life is unfair to everyone and it takes a lot of hard work and perseverence to accomplish your goals. For sure, life was much harder for slaves, but today’s blacks are so many generations removed fr

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Reply To: The US is not " a Christian country" #21345

    ShirleyAvery
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    Whoa! I posted the original question and I did not say I hated God. I’m Jewish and get upset when some describe the U.S. as a “Christian country” as opposed to a country which includes atheists, agnostics and all religions. It’s absurd that a few yrs. ago when Walmart & other large chains posted signs that said “Happy Holidays” (instead of Merry Christmas) to be more inclusive, some extremist Chistian groups found that offensive. Walmart is not a church. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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