Because they probably have more money than younger men and unfortunately, too many women, young & older, are more impressed with money than personality in a man. If you're not interested, just say no thanks. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  I can't speak for every woman, but I believe many women have more of a romantic component to their sexual fantasies. Not just "the main event". I enjoy sex and fantasize. Have you noticed that in movies, women characters who really enjoy sex seem to die or get punished for their urges? Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  This is just a guess, but since girls are the ones who get pregnant (and girls are getting their periods sooner than they used to), they have to become more responsible about the consequeneces of their actions. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  No, honey, it's fine. Now with Barak Obama as president elect, I hope everyone will ease up on the political correctness issue. It would be racist if you called someone of another race a dirty name, but you have a right to your preferences in dolls. Just Curious
User Detail :
Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  The most common problem is urinary stress incontenance - leaking a bit when exercising, coughing, laughing. But there is surgery for that. I've had it. It's called TVT - trans vaginal taping. I had it 5 yrs ago & may need a tune-up, but it's not very invasive, though there is a short recovery period. There are pills for this condition too, but I'd rather do the surgery and be done with it for a long time. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  Probably because we all did stupid things as teenagers and realize that teens tend to do lots of things without considering the consequences, like having unprotected sex or using drugs (not that some older people are immune from that). Also jealousy. We wish we were your age, but knowing all that we know now. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  Who cares what others think. Are you really worried about that or just afraid of rejection. Hey, we're all afraid of rejection. Whether you're interested in the possibility of a long term relationship or just a fling, be honest with yourself & with her. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  when older folks - men and women - go back to college, it's usually because they want to learn something new. Sometimes it's because they need to learn a new skill to work even part time. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  Old people are not the only ones who do this, but you can learn to set boundaries. When you arrive, tell her you can only stay 20 minutes. If they ask why, just say, "I have other obligations." Try not to lie. After 15 minutes, look at your watch and say, "It's nice talking to you, but I need to leave soon." Then do it at 20 minutes or so - not rudely, just assertively. She may not like it at first, but if you make a habit of doing this, she'll get used to it. Be sure to say, "I love you" whether you mean it or not and hopefully she won't be too upset. If you train yourself to do this (it takes practice to work up the nerve), you won't resent her so much and can have pleasanter visits. Also, you may come prepared to tell her something about your life, bring photos, tell h
User Detail :
Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  It is a problem. My mom (86) and my aunt (89) still have their licenses. It represents their freedom. Neither drives at night and both have cut down on their driving, still ... Older drivers have slower reaction times, and generally have poorer vision and hearing loss. With the increased use of cell phones by drivers and pedestrians not looking where they're going, driving has become even more of a challenge. Personally, I think all drivers should have to take not only the vision test but the driving test every 10 years. If more cities had good, safe public transportation, it might be easier to convince older drivers to give up their keys. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  Whoa! I posted the original question and I did not say I hated God. I'm Jewish and get upset when some describe the U.S. as a "Christian country" as opposed to a country which includes atheists, agnostics and all religions. It's absurd that a few yrs. ago when Walmart & other large chains posted signs that said "Happy Holidays" (instead of Merry Christmas) to be more inclusive, some extremist Chistian groups found that offensive. Walmart is not a church. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  Remember the Crusades & the Spanish Inquisition? Political leaders have fought wars over religion for millenia - one of the greatest ironies of history. I'm a Jew and Jews do not seek converts like other religions. I honestly cannot comprehend why we can't just live and let live as long as the other person isn't bothering us. Some American politicians have capitalized on religious intolerance & fears to win elections because it often works How sad is that? Just Curious
User Detail :
Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  Like other respondents, I assumed that men prefer oral or vaginal sex. Also, since men masturbate so much, I guess we assume that they get more than enough hand jobs. You guys need to tell us it's something you want and show us how. SEriously. I asked a former boyfriend to put his hand around my hand which was around his cock and demonstrate the speed, grip,etc. We just don't know. I suspect that many women would be relieved to give a hand job rather than a blow job. To some of us, it seems the lazy option.
User Detail :
Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  Honey, you're hanging out with the wrong guys. Sure, there are guys like that, but if they're selfish in that area, they're usually selfish in other areas. There are many guys who enjoy foreplay (or pretend to). Also, many men learn about sex from porn (which lacks foreplay) and they think this reflects real sex. If you take the time & effort to teach them about foreplay, you'll be rewarded Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,  Since every woman is different erotically, you need to teach a man what you like in foreplay. Men hate to look foolish and it may be easier for them to do nothing than risk a mistake. As I've grown more experienced, I've learned that my enthusiastic responses ("That felt good" or "I liked that" or just a happy sigh or moan) spurs them on to more foreplay. They need feedback. A rewarding response from you is their doggie biscuit. Conversely, if he's doing something you don't like, move his hand or his ... whatever to where you want it or tell him. If your attitude is helpful rather than critical, most men appreciate it. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,