ShirleyAvery

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  • in reply to: Well-heeled #20872

    ShirleyAvery
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    they make us look and feel sexier. Not all high heels are torture to wear and now that I’m older, I’d only wear them if I was going to the theatre or some place where I wouldn’t be walking or dancing much. According to the very funny movie (based on a true story) “Kinky Boots”, high heels elevate a woman’s behind so that she looks (from behind) like she’s primed for sexual penetration. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Others like me #20873

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    I’ve met others like you, generally straight married men who like to “dress up” on occasion. These are not drag queens. For a single female like me, there is no fun with a married guy like this (or any married guy). It seems harmless enough so long as it isn’t an obsession and isn’t always a requirement prior to sex. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Fashion Freedom #20874

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    If you’re a drag queen, it’s perfectly OK. Most people would shy away from a male banker, doctor or attorney who dress this way at work. What you do in your spare time and your day off is your own business. Who cares? I know some straight men who compromise by wearing women’s panties and/or pantyhose under their trousers. It’s their delicious secret. If it floats your boat, … hey why not? Not all girlfriends would accept this, but some would, I believe as long as it wasn’t an obsession and necessary fetish. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Blow Thyself… #20875

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    Did you swallow? How did that experience compare to having someone else do the job on you? Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: testicle transplants possible? #20876

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    I assume you’re infertile. I’ve never heard of a testicular transplant. Like kidneys, each man has two, so it may be difficult, but not impossible to find a live donor. I don’t know if there would be a problem with organ rejection or “rewiring”, but I’ve never heard of the possiblity. Sounds like the basis of an interesting medical-legal thriller, though. Have you asked a doctor about this? Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Why American? #21468

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    Sadly, we U.S. Americans don’t get much education in geography, though, you’re right, we’ve certainly learned of South America as distinct from North America. Too many of us are ethnocentric, but also, I belive we think of South America, not as one united whole like the U.S., but as a group of separate countries, each ruled separately, e.g., – Peru, Brazil, Colombia, etc. Am I correct that each is governed separately? Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: check writing #21469

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    I use both. I use checks to pay bills because I don’t want my financial info floating out there in cyber space. Since my income is limited and I have to be careful with my budget, I think twice about a store purchase before going through the effort of writing a check. That’s not a bad thing. Some stores process checks quickly. You just sign them and their computers print out the date, amount and other information. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Why do Americans not keep a copy of the receipt #21470

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    Most reputable businesses keep copies of receipts. They’re required to for tax purposes. Some “cash only” businesses like some nail salons don’t give receipts. As a customer, I always save sales receipts, at least until my monthly bank statement comes and I reconcile it. I keep receipts for large ticket items for years or until the warranty runs out. I know lots of Americans are careless about this and get mad when they can’t return an item to a store without the receipt. It’s a bit of a hassle to keep reciepts in good order, but worth it. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: girls:whats your sexual tips. #21563

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    There’s no “one size fits all” answer. Each woman is different in regard to physical preferences. You really need to ask her to communicate what she likes. Tell her you want to please her and ask her to show you what she likes and how. Some women are shy about this, but encourage her to guide your hand or ask you nicely to be more gentle or more rough, faster or slower, etc. I find it easier to communicate through sighs and moans of pleasure or to simply change my position. Remember, sex is not all about techniquem, it’s about attitude. If you’re affection, unselfish and wish to please, that’s the important thing. If you just want to “get her off”, that’s not always the most important thing for a woman. We enjoy the journey as much as the destination. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Reply To: Why are Christians obsessed with converting others #20786

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    Just curious. Where in the New Testament does it refer to pproselytizing? Is it something Jesus preached or was it his followers? I agree that others should mind their own business and wonder why they won’t (in their belief) just let me go to hell. Remember an early conversation in “Huckleberry Finn” where he’s warned by his self-righteous guardian Miss Watson that he’ll go to hell if he doesn’t change his ways. He asks if she will be in Heaven, she says yes. He responds by saying he’d rather be in Hell with his friend Tom Sawyer Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Who smoked pot – way back when? #20787

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    I’m about your age. Discovered it in high school in St. Louis, then it was rampant in the college dorms here. It was OK, but I’ve outgrown the urge. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: SHOOT! i know the answer to that one #20788

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    Having a friendly relaxed smile helps. My best suggestion is to get involved in hobbies you really enjoy and you’ll meet others with the same enthusiasm. You’ll have a common interest and things to talk about. Also, there’s a old classic book by Andrew Carnegie called, “How to Win Friends and Influence People”. Check the library or ebay. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Does looks measure age maturity? #20789

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    I’m 58 and believe me, there are immature people of all ages, even over 70! Immature behavior is usually selfish, marked by impulsive actions that may harm or offend others. Example – teenagers riding around in the handicapped motorized carts in Walmart just for kicks. A disabled person may need that cart! Acting silly, on the other hand, is a wonderful youthful thing in the right context, e.g., when playing with kids or joking around with friends. In work situations, there may be a time and place for silliness, during breaks or lunch, but some employers want more serious behavior, depending on your profession. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Heart Attack #20791

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    Rare, but possible. I think there was a famous basketball player who died of one. If there’s a history of heart attack in your family, be sure to tell your doctor. They recommend you take one baby aspirin (with food) each day to prevent a heart attack. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Refusal to Pass Bonds #20792

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    When I was younger, I wondered the same thing. Many older people do vote in favor of these bonds, but most elderly people are on a fixed income and can’t afford additional taxes. Just Curious

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    Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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