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Well, since you would be a foot and five inches taller than me, I’d say that would be a little too high for me to crane my neck. But you see, I’m rather short. It’s a comparison thing. I’m naturally attracted to guys who are about 5’10’-6 feet. Mostly because that means they’re chins are about level with the top of my head. But it’s also a person-to-person thing. And there’s always the fact that you can’t always help who you fall for, preferences are just that.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I think three things are very important when you’re looking at this situation. First, what kind of pornography is he looking at? Both the media and the content. Second, how much and how often. The last thing is perhaps the most important: why don’t you want him to see it? I admit you posed this question to men, but this is a subject that I have discussed often with my boyfriend. Women are turned on and aroused by very different things than men. But we wouldn’t expect our men to tell us to lay off the intelligent men in suits pictures that we respond to. I think men who are serious about a relationship shouldn’t be as heavily into porn as they might have been before, and that it is important that their favorite ‘kinks’ don’t offend their partner. But if they give it up entirely, or say they will, it might lead to more problems than there were before. This is a situation where compromise is a much better option.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I read on the toilet all the time. What else is there to do? Sure, you might not make it through War and Peace, but I tend to flip through catalogues. Actually, I go through my mail a lot. I get the mail, walk in the door and go to the bathroom. Seems perfectly logical to me. It’s not a male or female thing. I think it’s an attention span thing.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Women actually are known to have different types of orgasms. There are ‘outer’ or clitoral, ‘inner’ or G-spot, and then there is female ejaculation, which is what you describe. While I haven’t experienced it myself I’ve heard that it is a fluid that comes from the urethra, much like male ejaculate, and not the vagina.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Personally, I hate body hair. On either gender. I would be happy to have it all permanently removed. However, there’s one thing I’ve been telling people with insecurities for years. A long time ago I found a dictionary of sexual terms. One of them was a term for being sexually attracted by armpit hair. I think that proves that there is someone out there that likes every type of person, you just have to find your match. As for other people, I rarely notice their body hair unless I’m attracted to them. So I think companies are playing up to what people don’t like about themselves for whatever reason. As I said, I’d get all my arm hair removed in a second if I could afford it.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,All I can say in response is that I completly agree. Both genders have just as many problems, and just as many benefits and flaws. It’s just a matter of people liking to complain about whatever is bothering them and make generalizations. Not to mention the idea of the pot calling the kettle black.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,While he might not stand when I enter a room, my boyfriend does have a very classic and respectful attitude. I think that the problem is that the type of mate anyone is looking for is hard to find. Especially for women who tend to have very specific things they’re looking for. I lucked out with a friend of a friend situation. The only advice that can ever be given is to just keep an eye out. And don’t waste yourself looking, live your life.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Women can only be so short. You get under about 5’4′ and they start getting teased just as much. Heaven help women who don’t make it to 5 feet, they’ll never hear the end of it. (If you can’t tell I’m 5’3′ tall and constantly hear about how short I am)
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’m not entirely sure to be honest, but I blame popular media. If you picked up enough issues of Cosmo or even things like Seventeen you would find that girls are just groomed to assume that boys are playing mind games (and they do) and that they have to be a certain way. When girls are insecure, as they almost always are at the impressionable age that they start really paying attention to these hints the media portrays, then they take them in. They might not mean to but subconsiouly they just fall right into the line. It sounds ridiculous, but it is very true that people think that if they’re honest, the guy will leave. I was lucky that one day in high school it occurred to me that I was trying to change my boyfriend into what I wanted, and that it would be a disservice to a girl that might like him exactly how he is. Most girls don’t get that realization for a long time.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Honestly, it’s just fidgeting. I don’t know about all women, but when I cross my legs, no matter how polite and proper it might be, it also puts my foot to sleep. So keeping my circulation going, a subconcious need to move around, and being basically a big fidget in the first place means I tend to do what you describe. There’s no sexual stimulation involved, that type of movement doesn’t really involve the muscles that it would take to do that.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,It sounds like both of you need to be focusing on what you enjoy about her figure, not what you like better about other women. When she asks you about the size, concentrate on something else like the shape, if they’re firm or soft, what you love about them. Then hopefully that will convince her to stop thinking on one thing. There’s no use changing your body for someone until you’ve made a very serious very long term committment. Especially not with something that is surgical and can be extremly painful and distressing physically and emotionally. You’re not with those larger chested women. You’re with HER and there are a lot of reasons for that. I’m sure breasts are the number one reason you use to pick who you’re going to date, so don’t let it come between you. You also need to think about this, because if you’re thinking ‘Well, I would like her better a little bigger’ then it can shine through and hurt her, and you feel like you’re hiding something. People are made the way they’re made. Even a flippant comment can really hurt her for a very long time. Take this from a girl who was told three years ago that her boyfriend might like her better if she lost weight. It still stings, no matter how true it was.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,There are a lot of warnings to go with ‘meeting someone online’ but I’ll let someone else give them to you. I’ll just tell you my story. I had never met my boyfriend when I decided I wanted to go out with him. I had never spoken to him, online, on the phone, or otherwise. I had only heard about him from a friend who knew him. I had never even seen his picture. What I did was take it slowly and make sure that my feelings were true, and not some kind of desperation. I asked to see pictures of him, and he was good looking. I conned my way into meeting him and talking to him. And slowly but surely we figured out we were falling in love. We’ve been together five years now. Feelings and emotions can start from nothing. The trick is not letting them rule you or confuse you too much.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,There are a lot of ways to find out about sex without having it. I was actually rather full of random knowledge before I had any sexual encounters. The thing you have to ask yourself and think about is WHY you want to wait. I realized that I didn’t want to share something that personal with a person I didn’t think I was going to be with for the rest of my life. In the end, I found myself perfectly happy with someone and talking about marraige. While you might call it ‘giving in’ I think of it as finding the right time. I’ve not had a single regret, because I knew my reasons and my emotions. As for your questions. It can hurt the first time, a lot from what I’ve heard. There are a lot of ways to minimize the pain though. Women don’t just like foreplay for the emotion, it’s neccesary for them. The vagina is made up of muscles, and they have to be stretched out over a period of time. You wouldn’t just launch into a split from sitting down all day. The other issue is lubrication. Women produce natural lubricants, but that again takes time. If you have a guy that’s willing to take his time and make sure you’re feeling alright, the first time can be just as great as the fifth or fiftieth. The key to the whole thing is saying what you’re feeling. If it hurts, say so and then he can stop. As for pubic hair, that’s every guy to himself. Men have vastly different opinions on the subject, so it’s best to just know what you’re partner likes.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Unfortunatly this seems to be the case of a few bad apples spoiling the bunch. I would say that some women are probably too materialistic and concerned with money. But the added thought is that as you get older, the more your mind is concerned with money in general. I know that every day I start thinking about the bills and how they’ll get paid. Some women are likely just worried about their finances, esp. when a long term committment enters the equation. However, women who expect excessive presents are just expecting too much.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I read/saw somewhere that ancient egyptians discovered that removing underarm hair helped cut down on body odor. I don’t know who came up with it, but it works. The sweat doesn’t get caught in the hair, and anti-persperant works better. I’d blame the ancient egyptians for the leg shaving too.
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Name : Meiran, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
