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Rare, but possible. I think there was a famous basketball player who died of one. If there’s a history of heart attack in your family, be sure to tell your doctor. They recommend you take one baby aspirin (with food) each day to prevent a heart attack. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,As a middle age person who asked the same question when I was your age, here’s my answer: Of course, it’s not right for anyone to act superior and condescending, but… when I was in college, I knew I was smart, made good grades, studied hard, etc. What I learned in school was mostly theoretical. In the real world is where I learned most about what life is really about and how to handle difficult situations and difficult people, as well as work-related issues. It’s good to be young and idealistic. Older people do have more real life experience, though not all of them learn from their mistakes. I still, however, try to be innovative and try new things, while some older people have the attitude of “we’ve always done it this way.” that drives me nuts Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Yes. Even though I’m not married with a family of my own, I do have a busy life. My 86 year old mother lives on her own and feels frail, though she gets around pretty well. She’s losing her short-term memory and we’re getting medical help, testing, etc. for that, but other relatives make her feel like an invalid. I try to point out all the things she’s still able to do – read fiction and comprehend, play cards with her friends, function in daily life (except for driving) and I encourage her to do as much as she can for herself. I remind her that she’s not totally incapacitated. I think it makes her feel better & more in control of her life. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I don’t think there’s such a thing as “too much experience”. If you need a life-saving operation, would you rather have a young doctor just out of residency or an experienced surgeon who’d performed hundreds if not thousands of these operations? No brainer. The answer to your question – it’s usually cheaper – in terms of salary an health insurance – to hire someone just out of college. In high-tech fields, younger managers may feel (justifiably or not) that older people are not as techno-savvy. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,My mom is 86 and we’ve discouraged her to drive. REcently 2 doctors advised the same and one offered to sign legal papers if necessary to forbid her to drive. Frankly, I think all drivers should have to re-take the driving test every 10 years. I believe AARP feels that IF OLDER DRIVERS PROVE CAPABLE, able to pass vision and driving tests, they should not be forbidden to drive based solely on age. AFter all the highest insurance premiums are for teenage male drivers. They’re the ones who tend to take stupid risks and drive too fast. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’ve noticed that young guys tend to drive too fast, esp. in public parking lots. They’re often on cell phones too, which doubles the unsafety factor. They don’t seem to be concerned about possible accidents, like little kids running into the parking lot before parents can catch them. Why is that? Sometimes they pass me, speeding up greatly, only to be right next to me at the red light up ahead. What’s the point? Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Younger students who make fun of older students are immature. When older students go back to school, they are usually more motivated and focused on their goals, rather than going to college to party or because they doen’t know what else to do or want to postpone working full-time. Maybe some of the younger students are jealous. Maybe they feel awkward because they think of the older adults as parent figures and don’t know how to relate as peers. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Older people, esp. females, need to feel safe. Some communities have higher crime rates. Whether it’s high violent crime or non-violent crime rate, I wouldn’t want to live there. Women of all ages feel vulnerable. We know that most men could overpower us physically and beat us up or rape us. The older you get, the more vulnerable you feel. Better safe than sorry. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If she’s under 18, she’s jailbait. If she’s over 18 and consensual, it depends. Are you her boss? Her teacher? Someone else in authority over her? Then the answer is no. If she’s over 18 and it’s consenual, it may be OK, but make clear your intentions. Is it just for sex or for a possible long-term relationship. I’m not being judgmental. Just be honest with yourself and with her. Women tend to interpret sexual interest as love, whereas men do not always think this way. Be fair to her. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Be very careful and selective. First, choose a website carefully. There are more reputable ones, although any creep could sign on to any site. Married men sometimes pose as single men looking for some action. They lie a lot. Here’s what I’ve done to protect myself: Never give your full name, address or phone number to anyone. After many internet conversations, ask him for his phone number. If he refuses to give it – for any reason – or asks for yours, forget it. If he gives you his number, chat a few times by phone and if you’re comfortable, arrange to meet in a public place for coffee. NEVER invite him to your house! Some women are stupid enough to do this. Don’t! If your first public meeting goes well, continue to meet in public until you feel confident enough that he’
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,In Asian cultures, elders are treated with more respect, I believe. America has a youth cult attitude which makes elders feel unwanted. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If they are driving within the speed limits, they’re just being extra careful. Older people are usually not in such a hurry as younger people. Older people have different priorities. Sometimes they want to enjoy the scenery more than get some place quickly. If they’re retired, they have more leisure time and don’t need to rush. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Most internet service providers have screening devices that you can set so that adult content (porn, etc) will be blocked. YOu might sit with her while she uses the net and supervise for awhile. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I think you can notify your internet service provider to report it. If you’re being seriously threatened, call the police. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,When I was younger, I wondered the same thing. Many older people do vote in favor of these bonds, but most elderly people are on a fixed income and can’t afford additional taxes. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
