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When I watch porn, I don’t get off on lesbian scenes, but in hetero sex scenes, I definitely enjoy watching pretty girl with nice rounded boobs. It’s not that I want her. I imagine that I AM her when I watch her screw. I also want to see a handsome man, not an ugly guy with a big cock. Do you feel the same way? I am straight, have experimented with another woman many years ago. It was OK, but I really missed the penis. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Most book stores have a section on sexuality or it’s under psychology or relationships. Anyway, there are a variety of books. The Kama Sutra is an ancient Indian book with many positions and good advice for pleasing your lady. You can even find it online with photos – not porn. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,When I was younger, none of the above appealed to me, though I loved sex. As I got older & more experienced, I was willing to experiment, BUT… I was not raised in a religion that considered sex dirty or only for marriage. Women who were raised in such homes may be less adventuresome. My advice to you – concentrate on how to be a good lover, good kisser, wanting to please your partner. If you focus on pleasing her (not just for selfish reasons or reciprocation), she’s likely to be more receptive, but some women simply do not like porn and/or oral sex and/or anal sex. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Sounds like he’s a selfish bastard, esp. if you have hemorrhoids. Nobody should be forced to have sex that is painful or otherwise objectionable. If lack of anal sex is “ruining his marriage,” your well rid of the guy. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,YOu obviously have limited experience or are hanging out with the wrong women. Some of us value personality – kindness, honesty, affection, sense of humor + a bit of physical attraction It’s true that women tend to prefer a modicum of security. Before effective birth control, women were stuck with a lot of kids and needed a man with money to support the family. NOt so true any more Why do men who flaunt their money with fancy cars, expensive gifts and restaurants complain that women are all “gold diggers”. If that’s all you have to offer, guys, that’s what you’ll get. If you offer affection and kindness and good listening skills, you’ll attract other kinds of women. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,IN my 40+ years of sex with a variety of men, I’ve never encountered anyone that has sex the way you describe. Since you wrote this question in 2005, I don’t know if you married this guy or not. If not, I hope you’ve had “normal sex”. Did you enjoy that more. Sex shouldn’t be painful. If it is, see a gynecologist ASAP. In any case, no guy should bully6 or intimidate you into doing something that gives him satisfaction and gives you physical pain Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I”m multi-orgasmic and feel the same way as your girlfriend. Besides, I’m too busy enjoying myself and my partner to start counting. Why does it matter? So you can brag that you “gave” your girlfriend 20 orgasms? As long as you’re both satisfied, who cares? Just enjoy it. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Unless you’re planning to go into the porn industry, why does it matter? You can’t change it. Some women claim to like big cocks, most don’t care that much about size. If been with guys of all sizes and it was the love and affection and attitude of the guy that mattered most — with this exception: there was one guy that was REALLY BIG. Seeing it was a turn on, but even with lots of lubrication, it hurt like hell to have sex, so that was the end of that relationship. Smart Girl Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Yes! Enjoy it. You must have a good sexual partner who takes the time to get you aroused. Don’t settle for less. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I agree with the tone of your question. Lots of people have screwed up priorities. Everything in Congress is political. The Republican congress wanted to make Clinton look bad to encourage voters to support Republican candidates, so they made a big issue out of the “sex scandal”. Unfortunately, these same Republicans still controlled congress when Bush made the big mistake of the Iraq war. They didn’t want to admit his mistake or theirs, so they didn’t want to punish him for it and make their party look bad to voters. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Since most STDs including AIDS are transmitted via semen, it would be insane for a woman to swallow unless she & the guy were in a long term monogamous relationship and both tested for all STDs. Otherwise, the risk isn’t worth it. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,The ideal situation: Both partners enjoying giving pleasure to the other one. That’s a win-win situation. Nothing turns me on more than knowing I”m giving him pleasure. If getting pleasure was preferable, wouldn’t people always prefer masturbation to sex? Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,According to comic Dennis Miller the answer is that it combines the 2 things men like best: sex and just lying around doing nothing. Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,This is a very belated response, but just tell her the truth. Duh! It may be embarassing, but a good relationship is based on honesty, combined with tactfulness and kindness. It’s OK to experiment sexually. How else will you know if you like something. Some things you’ll like, others you won’t. No biggie Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I hope you have moved out by now. If not, I would encourage you to find a way to remove yourself from that home. If money is a problem and you can’t get a job, there are shelters for battered women Get away! Still, the emotional scars will be there, so get counseling. There are counseling centers that charge patients on a sliding scale according to their ability to pay. And/or if you are religious, go to your minister for counseling. If you are in college, go to the school’s counseling service. Good luck! Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
