Why is oral sex fun for guys?

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    Anna
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    Why is it fun for a guy to give a girl oral sex? What do guys wish girls knew about this?

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    Name : Anna, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 24, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : International Business, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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    Shifity
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    Fun? I am not sure it is fun for guys. I enjoy giving my fiancee' oral because I like the response I get from it - and in general, if I give, I receive.

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    Name : Shifity, Gender : M, Age : 20, City : mobile, State : AL Country : United States, Social class : Lower middle class, 
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    Graeme21535
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    It's fun because it's enjoyable to play with a woman's genitals, and because it's really nice to bring her pleasure.

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    Rick29800
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    It's pleasurable for several reasons: there is no bigger turn-on than a woman's arousal; men are visual and love to be up close and personal with their beloved's vulva; the act is one of intimacy, making the two people feel closer.

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    Name : Rick29800, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, City : Springfield, State : OH Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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    Denny
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    For me, oral sex with a woman is one of the most pleasurable things to do sexually. I get turned on by bringing a woman to orgasm with my tongue, especially if she is vocal. It makes me feel as though I'm able to drive her crazy, and also the sensual feel of her sex in my mouth is a turn on.

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    Name : Denny, City : SF, State : CA Country : United States, 
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    Chaz
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    Anna, It's important to me to satisfy my partner. I like giving her oral sex because it gives her extremely powerful orgasms ... especially if I'm able to take my time (20-30 minutes). Since she's not stimulating me at the same time, I'm free to enjoy seeing, hearing and tasting her arousal. Giving her a great orgasm makes me feel very aroused and very tender at the same time. She used to think everything between her legs was 'ugly' and 'disgusting.' She couldn't believe I would want to look, much less put my face down there. She tried to stop me the first few times. But I think she's beautiful above and below. Giving oral sex is also about control, in a way. I can make her orgasm quickly or keep her near the crest for a loooooong time. She's completely at my mercy. And oral sex is a way I can focus on my partner's pleasure and reward her for all the wonderful things she does for me ... in and out of bed. Chaz

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    Name : Chaz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 50, City : Kansas City, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : Internet/computer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
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    Isaac
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    It's a bit of an ego boost, for one. To know that someone's reactions, and they can be quite dramatic at times, are solely due to what you are doing is definitely an ego boost. There's a lot of intimacy involved, as well. It involves a lot of your senses at once, not to mention anticipation, which is a highly underrated thing indeed. Mostly, though, I think it's the intimacy...it is a step up in intimacy from any other act, at least to me, the same degree that seeing someone naked is from being fully clothed. Also, bear in mind not everyone does like it, many guys I know bitch about it...losers. :)

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    Name : Isaac, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : mostly straight, Age : 23, City : Dallas, State : TX Country : United States, Occupation : difficult to explain, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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    Demetrius Harper
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    I'm a well endowned blk man who loves sex, so if I know that intercourse right away is going to result in premature ejeculation, forplay is my key! besides, I love to prefrom oral on woman, them getting aroused by my tongue turns my on more that any nudy mag or porn could do. it makes my orgasms far and apart! when I she her grabing for life or orgasmick, it turns my hard up

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    Name : Demetrius Harper, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 30, City : Buffalo, State : NY Country : United States, Occupation : nursing, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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    Michael20731
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    Anna, men enjoy giving oral sex because women have all those mysterious and fascinating folds and crevices to explore.

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    Name : Michael20731, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Unitarian, Age : 58, City : Portland, State : OR Country : United States, Occupation : Technical, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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    Charles32256
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    For me at least, and I think for a lot of guys, the fun of oral sex is that it's a real bonding experience. You get the chance to play with the sex equipment you don't have access to alone, and you get to focus on your partner's enjoyment. And in terms of sensitivity - of getting tactile information - fingers and tongues are infinitely more sensitive than a penis, if not directly as arousing. Penetrative sex is about release; oral-digital sex is about exploration. In some ways, it's the most intimate thing you can do. As to what we wish women knew? Well, from my humble experiences, there are two big things. First - there is a wide variety in the shape, arrangement, and sensitivities of women's vaginas. We guys know this. (At least, I hope we all do.) It's not like riding a bicycle; every woman responds in different ways to different techniques. Second, bearing this in mind - while exploring all the possibilities down there is half the fun, if you want or need something specific you shouldn't hesitate to tell us. Because the other half of the fun is bringing you pleasure - go ahead and give us a hand.

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    Name : Charles32256, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Albuquerque, State : NM Country : United States, Occupation : Architect, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
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    John Eeyo
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    It is a matter of doing whatever it takes to please your partner. The biggest thrill is providing pleasure to your partner. That is what you need to understand.

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    Name : John Eeyo, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 50, City : Philadelphia, State : PA Country : United States, Occupation : Management, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper class, 
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    Nate
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    Well put, brother!

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    Brad23145
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    It is the girl's reaction that really makes it fun (or boring, as the case may be) to give her oral sex. I am talking about the way she moves and the sounds she makes, not what she might do for you later. (That would be a bonus.) Also, hair in the throat is no fun. If you want your guy to go down on you, just ask him, but you will probably have better luck if you shave first.

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    Name : Brad23145, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, City : Chicago, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
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    Mark22072
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    Much of what was previously said is true. It is exciting to give your significant other pleasure. As for the 'what do I wish women knew' aspect, it's simple. Many women are too busy saying 'eww, it's a disgusting penis, i don't want it anywhere near my mouth' but they have no problem when the man puts half of his face into their vagina. The focus should be on the love and affection. I personally don't find my girlfriend's crotch a pleasurable place, but I enjoy giving her pleasure. She considers my genitals disgusting and rarely ventures down there. It's very off-putting, to be honest.

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    larry
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    I FEELthat it is pleasureable because the woman can relax and enjoy the experience

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    Name : larry, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 63, City : casa grande, State : AZ Country : United States, Occupation : retired, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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