DanielPfalmer

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  • in reply to: Masturbation perverted? #20489

    DanielPfalmer
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    Guys are not perverted for masturbating. Neither are girls. Most everyone I know does it or is to embarrassed to admit that they do it. Some people actually don't but they are the exception, and are usually female. On the flip side I know a few women who do it on average 5+ times a day. Most people I know do it 0-3 times a day, depending on the day. I see nothing disgusting about it.

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Abusive Boyfriend #20525

    DanielPfalmer
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    All I can say is to talk to counseling services on campus. They will know what to do. They deal with this kind of thing a lot, unfortunately. If someone I knew was having the same problem that shit would not stand. He is absolutely out of line and you need to do something even if that means calling the police. Good luck.

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Lip-smackin’ good? #20524

    DanielPfalmer
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    Why does it matter so much? I sometime chew with my mouth open, but usually only at my house of with people that I am not worried about being judgmental. I know some people think it is disgusting, but Americans find so many things distasteful that if was to try to avoid them all I would go crazy. I do have problems with my nose being plugged a lot too. You ask "What ever happened to manners?" I respond "What ever happened to 'Thou shalt not judge'?"

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Like gay porn; am I gay? #20492

    DanielPfalmer
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    Nobody, or at least very very few people, are actually completely gay or completely straight. Everyone is somewhere in between. You may be really attracted to girls and only a little attracted to guys. Don't listen to people who try to shove you into one category or another. Most people that are violently completely straight are just trying to cover up for having homosexual tendencies. The people I know who are the closest to completely straight are comfortable in their sexuality and don't need to go around proving it all the time.

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Non-vegetarian vegetarians #20486

    DanielPfalmer
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    You seems really angry, you should have steak and calm down. I'm just kidding. Seriously though: 1)If you are a Vegetarian for health reasons, you would not necessarily see a problem with eating fish or poultry because it is healthy. 2)If you are a vegetarian for moral reasons than do you only refrain from eating smart animals? Would it be ethical to eat carnivores? Why is it ethical to eat plants? 3)Why does it matter so much what people call themselves?

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Counting the partners #20483

    DanielPfalmer
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    Sex- 2 Women Foreplay only - 1 Women I have some friends that have less than me but most are higher, some a lot higher. I find that guys have a smaller standard deviation from average than girls. I know more female virgins than males, but I also know more females that have had 10+ partners. One of my female friends just turned 19 and she has had sex with about 35 guys, and I know at least 2 girls. And yes I know these number to be true. I would say that average for my guy friends would be about 3-4 sexual partners and maybe 1-2 that they just had foreplay with. I know very few guys that have more than double that. Girls I would say have the same average but of course more variability. Average age of losing your virginity is probably 16 for girls and 18-19 for guys. I was 14

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Why don’t more care about Katrina? #20482

    DanielPfalmer
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    People care about whatever the news tells them they should. Why do you think that there was such a huge deal about Terri Schiavo and so little about the hundred of thousands of dead in Darfur? I think the cause and effect are the opposite of what most people think they are. The news doesn't report what people care about the most, people care about what the news reports the most.

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Why is adoption still shameful? #20480

    DanielPfalmer
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    I have never thought of adoption as anything but wonderful. I can't answer your question but I just wanted to say that I don't think that way.

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Foreign cars with American flag stickers #20479

    DanielPfalmer
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    I would do that because I don't care where the corporate executives live. I don't care if it's American or Japanese or German people getting disgustingly rich. Their job is to maximize profits. If they do something that intentionally makes the company lose money, like give to charity, they can be sued. Why do you care so much about the top 1%? They don't care about you. And since nearly every car company is a corporation (with a few small exception like Aston Martin) the profits go wherever the shareholders live, which is the whole world. It's not like Ford only lets Americans buy stock. Thinking that American companies keep all their money in America and Japanese companies keep all their money in Japan etc. is an antiquated way of thinking that doesn't apply to corporations. I

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Why don’t the airlines change? #20487

    DanielPfalmer
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    With the cost of airline tickets most people are not willing to pay the extra price. I'm not. I will complain if the service is blatantly bad but I don't want to pay more than I absolutely have to. I am a poor college student though and that is biasing me. After college when I have more money I probably wont mind as much. If you want more comfort why don't you go to first class? I would fly in the cargo section if they would let me and it would save me some money.

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Parenting a cultural thing? #20485

    DanielPfalmer
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    It's instinctive. Some cultures can try to suppress it but it rarely works. It comes on at different times for different people though. Some people get the urge as while they are still children themselves and some people don't get it until in their 40's or not at all in some cases, although that's rare.

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Removing shoes (newspaper column) #20481

    DanielPfalmer
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    We do it in Alaska. It never occurred to me until I was about 12 that some people wore their shoes in the house. Why would you want to track all the dirt and stuff into the house? In the winter here everyone takes their shoes off when the go into a house. If you don't then it gets your floors wet from the snow on your shoes. It gets rather funny at parties when there are 40 pairs of shoes next to the front door. Nobody even thinks twice about taking them off, though. When you get into someone's car in the winter you don't take off your shoes, but it is very rude if you don't tap them on the side of the car to get the snow off before you get in.

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Why is America so anti-tourist? #20488

    DanielPfalmer
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    Many Americans are arrogant and xenophobic. It comes from all the nationalism that is passed off as normal. All the "America is the greatest country on earth" and "God Bless America". Many people see other cultures as inferior and weird rather than just different. Also they are so isolated that they never aver realize that there are people that are different then them. And no the don't care if the world likes America. The world hates America and no one cares.

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Why stick with one sexual partner? #20484

    DanielPfalmer
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    It used to be really stigmatized for a woman to cheat but not for a man. That seems really sexist, and probably is, but there is at least some reasoning behind it besides sexism. If a woman cheated there used to be no way to know if the child was yours or not. While most people would agree that you should care for the child just the same because it was not it's fault, biologically and evolutionally it makes sense. As for why it still exists, it is probably a mix between religious tradition and biology/psychology. Casual sex is one thing but cheating on someone is completely another. Your boyfriend/girlfriend is supposed to be the most important person to you. If you chose someone else over them you are saying that they are less important. How would you feel if your best friend kept

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Back-door play=Gay? #20491

    DanielPfalmer
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    My friends and I have come to the consensus that nothing a guy does with a girl is gay. Just because it's your butt doesn't make it gay. It's only gay if you are thinking about a guy while you do it. In the same way that if you are getting oral from a girl it is not gay, but it would be if you were wishing she was a guy the whole time.

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    Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
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