[M.K.]

IMO these are different situations calling for different responses – do you act the same at a job interview and at a teaparty ? No, you don’t want to spoil the social setting by being too casual at the one, or too formal at the other. Don’t be intimidated by male group behaviour; all the aggression is usually in a spirit of competition and almost always really for the benefit of the other guys. By the way, which do you consider to be them ‘being themselves’ ?

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[M.K.]

There is something wrong with artificially assisted parenthood in the face of needy orphans. But you’re not doing that, you’re just (thinking of) cashing in on someone else’s lax morals. This is also wrong, but on a far lesser scale – we do something similar every time we buy, say, clothes made in a less-developed nation whose labor standards would be unnacceptable in the fortunate West. So yes, maybe it’s a bit wrong – but so is not grabbing every opportunity to better your life. Like most moral choices, there is no clear-cut answer.

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[M.K.]

I know how you feel – for me, Asian women are much more attractive than white women, to the extent that I get different physical responses to them. It can’t be wrong to feel like that (or like anything else) – it’s the response we make to our feelings that matters.

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[M.K.]

There is evidence that all animals display homosexual behavior at times (see http://www.newscientist.com/ns/19990807/queercreat.html). It is my belief that we are all ‘bisexual,’ at least potentially, and that culture makes us choose a ‘gay’ or ‘straight’ label. This will be controversial, but it seems that being gay allows a man to get close to women (which is what we want, ultimately) in a non-threatening manner.

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[M.K.]

I also have the desire to ejaculate on my girlfriend’s face (she is beautiful and has very erotic features). But she says she would find it ‘humiliating.’ I guess she’s right: it is a power thing… One advantage, though – semen is meant to be good for the skin.

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[M.K.]

Those holders, or ‘comfies,’ are more than just a fashion item. They contain a liquid that is super-frozen, so that the beer separates off into a high alcohol layer over a watery layer. The top layer is drunk, and the remainder (‘gobbacks’) thrown away … or passed onto an unsuspecting mate!

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[M.K.]

Why restrict the question to ‘bottoms’?. In fact, why only gay men ? Maybe all men have an emotional/hormonal cycle ?

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[M.K.]

A very difficult subject to tackle. In theory, pornography should not be seen by such a young boy, as it will encourage him to view women as sexual objects. In practice, you will never stop his burning curiosity, and if you try, it will only convince him that women think sex is ‘dirty.’ If you really have to, is it possible to find a man who will try and talk to him about it?

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[M.K.]

The smell is similar, but not identical, from woman to woman. It’s a heavy smell, usually erotic and only unpleasant if really overpowering… To refuse to let someone who loves you give you pleasure because of squeamishness is a crying shame – it will deepen your relationship.

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[M.K.]

I presume it does stop growing. Otherwise you would see old men with enormous schlongs.

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[M.K.]

That’s good advice. Artificial aids are a problem, though, being embarrassing, cumbersome and not always at hand. I have heard that if you clench every time you pee, intermittently stopping the flow, you can train your muscles to the extent of making orgasms voluntary.

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[M.K.]

I lived in Hong Kong for a year and found it to be the most impolite culture I have ever lived in (that includes the East End of London, notoriously rough). Having said that, it’s full of energy and life and surprises, so keep your chin up and remember the phrase is (something like) “dyoo lai lo mor!” (P.S. Be glad you’re not a gwailo.)
DIRECTOR’S NOTE: Y? would be interested in a translation to English of the expression above.

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[M.K.]

Men stare because they find female bodies extremely attractive. You know how the smell of new-baked bread can stop you in your tracks and make you turn and sniff involuntarily? It’s like that with a nice arse (excuse the directness), except that there is something much more pleasurable at the source of it than bread.

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[M.K.]

The respondent who said sex was the issue was right, in my opinion. The one who said go to loving places is all wrong, in my opinion. Here’s a suggestion: Decide on a man in your circle of friends who you fancy. Tell him you want him to ask you on a date. In those words. If he refuses, he’s a jerk. (P.S.: I did ‘date’ a woman in a wheelchair.)

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[M.K.]

Don’t stroke! Seriously, lie still for a while, chat to her (she won’t mind if she’s less excited than you – which seems likely). And !dont worry about it!

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