[Suzanne Root]

Why don't men like the foreplay and cuddling that leads to sex? Why don't they like 'warming up'?

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Name : Suzanne Root, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 41, City : Vista, State : CA Country : United States, Occupation : stay at home mom, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Brittany]

When you say "men" its becomes a generalization and a stereotype that all men do not like foreplay or like to cuddle..For one what type of men are you having sexual relations with? 2. how serious are you...a man will not cuddle with a woman if he is not emotionally attached to her...cuddling is a form of intimacy...although sex is too..some men do not believe that....so if he doesn't plan on being intimate with you...he will hit and quit it or start with no hesitation...he wants to get in, get up, get out

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Name : Brittany, Gender : Female, Race : Black/African American, Age : 20, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, 

[ShirleyAvery]

Honey, you're hanging out with the wrong guys. Sure, there are guys like that, but if they're selfish in that area, they're usually selfish in other areas. There are many guys who enjoy foreplay (or pretend to). Also, many men learn about sex from porn (which lacks foreplay) and they think this reflects real sex. If you take the time & effort to teach them about foreplay, you'll be rewarded Just Curious

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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[ShirleyAvery]

Since every woman is different erotically, you need to teach a man what you like in foreplay. Men hate to look foolish and it may be easier for them to do nothing than risk a mistake. As I've grown more experienced, I've learned that my enthusiastic responses ("That felt good" or "I liked that" or just a happy sigh or moan) spurs them on to more foreplay. They need feedback. A rewarding response from you is their doggie biscuit. Conversely, if he's doing something you don't like, move his hand or his ... whatever to where you want it or tell him. If your attitude is helpful rather than critical, most men appreciate it. Just Curious

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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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