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Alina: You have hit the nail right on the head. There IS no threat. Just a lot of fear-mongering by some powerful religious figures who want everyone to have to live according to their beliefs. Whether or not society ever recognizes gay marriages across the US, gays are nonetheless getting married in religious ceremonies, some of them are having children and raising those children to be productive members of society just like any straight parents. The threat does not exist. Love and Light
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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Who you have sex with has nothing to do with your orienation. That’s a “radical” notion to may people, but if you think about it, there are millions of gays (male and female) all over the world who are married to the “opposite” gender and have sex with their spouses. That doesn’t make them straight any more than a man having sex with another man makes him gay. I’m not saying that all men on the down low are straight– some of them very well may be gay and just too afraid to come out of the closet. But some of them may be straight and simply have a fetish for sex with another man, not much different than someone with a fetish for hairy men or women with large butts. Love and Light
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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Not just which country, but which part of that country. In the US, it’s much easier, for the most part, to be gay in NYC or SF than it is to be gay in Topeka or Little Rock. It’s much easier, for the most part, to be gay if you live in a city than if you live in the suburbs or the country. And it’s easier, in general, to be gay anywhere in the US than it was for those who were in the forefront of the “original” fight for gay rights at Stonewall in 1968 are now in their late 50s, 60s or 70s. Polls suggest that society is becoming more accepting of gays in general as time goes on, so hopefully, it will get even easier. The sad part is that it’s an issue at all. Love and Light
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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Do you have statistics to back up this allegation? However, let’s assume that what you say is true. It might have to do with the fact that many gays have/had no role models except the stereotypes that are shown on television and movies, particularly the older stereotypes of gays who were obsessed with having sex with as many people as they could. It might have to do with the fact that society is still denying gays the right to marry, thus subtly suggesting that gay relationships are only about sex and not “real” relationships. It may have to do with certain religions telling gays they’re worthless and damned for all eternity. If you already think you’re going to hell simply because you’re gay, what do you have to lose by cheating on your spouse? Love and Light
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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Most people believe that if someone has sex with someone of the same gender, it makes them gay. And since most child molestors are males, when the victims include males, people assume the pedophile is gay. But for pedophiles, gender is secondary. Age is the most important factor in chosing a victim. Love and Light
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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,If that were the case, then the population of gays should have skyrocketed after the pill was introduced given the number of women who used the pill. Also, it wouldn’t explain why there were gays before the pill was introduced or explain why there are gays like me who are children of good Catholic parents who didn’t use birth control pills. 😉 Love and Light
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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Gay men aren’t trying to get the woman in bed. They know the touch isn’t sexual because the gay man has no interest in the woman sexually. That said, there are women who DO mind, particulary those who are survivors of sexual abuse, rape or domestic violence. And those who simply don’t like their personal space invaded by unwelcome or unasked for touch. Love and Light
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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,The problem is that orientation is not solely determined by who arouses you sexually. IMHO, it has a lot more to do with who you can fall in love with. There are a lot of lesbians married to men, who have sex with their husbands and maybe even have children, but are still lesbians. They’re just too afraid to come out of the closet. There’s also the possibility that you may be bisexual, which doesn’t mean you have to have a partner of each gender at the same time. It simply means you can fall in love with both genders. Love and Light
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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,And lesbians don’t have penises. At least not natural ones– unless they happen to be a pre-op M2F transexual. Love and Light
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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,
