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It’s a toss up really. Do I choose to be truthful to myself and lead a gay Lifestyle. Or, Lie to everyone I know, Probably get married to a woman, have children , who knows maybe 6 kids since I’m already repressed sexually , I’ll try to compensate by making babies , then lie to my children and tell my sons that to be a man you have to be with women only, never mind the lieing to them about your real needs and sexual preferences. Go to Church on Sundays Repent for my Lieing ways to lead a week of Mundane jokes about sports and cheerleaders with my coworkers. Till it all comes to a Point of me wanting to have some kind of realness to my life, have sex anonymously with God knows who and probably get HIV then Passing it to my wife. This is what happens to many who choose to live a Life Of lieing to themselves. At least as an Openly Gay Man, I can live a TRUTHFULL LIFE! After a FEW years of Living with anybody you call a spouse. It all boils to the same thing anyway. You get Nagged at For not doing what they want to do Till You do it. Then get nagged for doing it the wrong way ANYWAY ! Bottom Line , I get to be Nagged by someone of myown choice!
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If Your going at it to impress and disguise from public eyes, the more feminine looking ones are catching your eye for a reason. but when it comes down to it; when it comes to intimate contact, some TS’s are going to want the same thing you want in bed. If you reply to then is going to be that of a Fag Bashing nature, I’d have to inform you to stick to women, as Your going to hurt the feelings of a person who has gone through to many growing pains as it is. These people have a PENIS my friend. But since already aware of this I’m sure your already aware of there needs sexually as well. Being Gay is a whole lot more involved than most make it out to be these days. Would you be willing to marry this type of person, fight for the right in the case of your death, your spouse inherits all your possessions. do you feel your sexual exploits are of no concern to anyone but you and your partner? Looks go along way when it comes to finding someone, are you willing to wait the time it takes for your love to get ready to go out? And Most Important of all, are you willing to introduce your new friend for whom they are to your family, Your church, Your friends. If you LOve a Person enough to go through all of this. It doesn’t matter what society Labels You. Your In Love. Fight to keep it, and Treat Your Woman Like The Goddess She IS!
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,It’s in No Poorer taste as MnM singing Rap music, Or white anglo teens speaking as if they where afro americans. Or Micheal Jackson Bleaching himself to be white. ‘ Oh wait, Phopa ; Slang is Slang, It makes Americans unique. we know our peers by the slang we speak. Tho a white person saying to a negro, ‘ Yo, My Niga ! whould seem odd if that black person was a stranger, remember to leave the Ebonics for friends and home, and when in a work environment, speak with every ounce of education you can muster in order to get that raise.
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,As a Professional, Keeping a professional distance is the best defense. Children are more apt. to come out and ask of our being Gay. Only then should this topic be addressed. If for a child who identifies as Gay, and a Minor, Remember, anything sexual needs a parents permission, as in the case of sexual education. as for Parents who do not want the topic being discussed with there minors? there’s not much that can be done if a Parent says , stay away from my child. If a Parent approaches you with the topic of your sexuality? Your defense will be your job title and the reason of why there child is at your facility. The only times sexuality should come into play is if your working for a Gay organization designed to help children with there sexuality. when working with children or in an environment which includes children, it is a Must that you maintain your professional distance. Other than that, it comes down to trying to tell a muslem woman to not wear her cloak or Burka to work. ‘same lines of approach’
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I Played with my friend from 16 to 18 , then my friend went off and got a girlfriend and I stayed with the same sex. Your son is experimenting is all. This is not set in stone. But you should talk to him by opening with. ‘ I’V DONE THIS MYSELF’ This would stop any fears or thoughts of avoiding the topic from you. What else is a Father for If Not to speak openly with your own flesh and blood! Talk more on the lines of Using a CONDOM ! Gay or NOT AIDS is REAL. you will feel horrible if your son tells you he has HIV. If this is his first friend be sure there will be others, and nobody knows how many friends that friend has had! Experimenting with sex is like waiting out in the open for a mosquito with west nile virus to come and Bite! Having the Talk is just the book of context. He’s 16 not a scholar on sex and the terrors of deseases.
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Being Flamboyant is different to each gay person. some like myself tend to get Flamboyant just because we’re happy with the company we’re with and don’t notice we’re being Flamboyant at all. It’s Like telling a Person with a Cajun accent to stop talking like a Black person ?!#*? Only a person from a different persuasion can see or hear the difference . If I’m with my Gay friends and we’re all excited and having a blast, I’d say yes, The campyness is off the chart. Yet, I wouldn’t advise waving a Rainbow flag at a Smackdown wrestling match, theirs a time and a place for everything. next time, let your buddy know he’s a little to excited and is standing out in a crowd, I know I would appreciate it if I where a Little to excited.
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,You are contradicting yourself here! You say your bothered, But then you play like that ?? usually people who talk like this are really either close friends. or people trying to keep the open lines of conversation going for the sake of public eye. If It’s all said in fun. No harm. But if you have questions of whether he’s saying these things in spit? ask him about it. Yet since he is still speaking with you. he’s OK with you. Unless he goes to other people and inform them of his calling you names to make him sound like a macho gay basher. Many adults use this form of communication to quietly vent there frustrations to the other. well, OK, Mostly on T.V. there will come a time when You get tired of it, and then his insults will take a Derogatory tone. this walks the same line as racism. For proper society, It’s not polite to call a black person Niger, or a Chinese person a gook. technically a Puerto Rican can cal another a Spick, yet if a Caucasian where to say this; all hell would break loose. Good Luck, and Give a Big Hug to your Folks. They must be awesome Parents to accept your sexual preference.
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,In Our Gay Relationship. We’re both Men, whoever gets the time or chance, fixes dinner, takes the trash out, takes the car to the mechanics if we can’t fix it ourselves, sweep, mop, and pay the bills. A relationship is what you make it. Nothing is Like Pancake mix , ‘ Just add water and it’s done ‘ If you have a Friend, you must realize, their is give and take as with everything. some women die there hair red, when they’re naturally Blond, Why, because they want to. Some Wive Look more rugged than there husbands! Why? Because they beat them. LOL, No, no, It’s all relevant. Not everyone Likes to wear sneakers. some of us wear construction boots even at afternoon tea. LOL , Ok, I’m feeling a lil campy.
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,At 7 yrs old I can specifically remember enjoying the feeling of being held by my male teacher, a Hug, a smile, ect.. I am now sure that I was seeking compensation for the lack of a fatherly influence since my own father distanced himself from me because he noticed I was, what you call fastidious. I never received a hug, a kiss, or a sensitive conversation from my father. So I sought it from sexual partners as I grew older. At elementary school my classmates called me names such as gay or fag, in the 70’s I didn’t know why i was being called these names. so I distanced myself from those kids who did call me names, also distancing myself from playing games and socializing in sports. since researching my Spanish heritage. I noticed there are men who just are more gentile than others. More sophisticated in nature and gesture. This does not make them Gay. Not all Boys are made to be a football star. some are built to be a scientist which calls for a fastidious nature. This doesn’t mean your son shouldn’t be explained how to play sports or fix a motor. But it would be nice of the Father who gave the son a choice and a chance. God Bless your Family
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Sunshine. Nothing is wrong with you! Gay Males are a Safety Zone! It’s all the rage these days. To have the companionship of a man, the conversations You Long for! The compliments on your latest outfit! Besides. everyone knows Us gay men take much better care of our skin. LOL, Just as Men are attracted to a Hot woman. There’s nothing wrong with a Woman who finds a Man who takes care of himself and his appearance, attractive. ‘ did I say that right? But Lets Face it, Are you willing to walk arm in arm with a Man who has a wandering eye for another man?
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,We are all different. I know for a fact that society deems me to be feminine because I enjoy cooking, or cry at a sad movie, or Flail my arms because I’m excited or happy. I can’t help it! I’m ME ! I Like Flowers and Talking about a good topic! I Like Pastel colors! I don’t Like getting greasy under a motor. I don’t understand why Americans can’t accept other Americans as we are. This is why Most young American Kids have adopted the rough sounding persona. Be tough and nobody wil mess with you , frame of mind. when You see an oriental cutting flowers , You set it aside as a matter of , oh thats what orientals do! But Let a 6’5′ 340 lb. Latin man with a Goatee do some gardening and all the sudden the Homo Patrol is on alert! Maybe that 6’5′ 340 Latin with a Goatee who’s doing gardening was raised by orientals ! Who knows. accept him as a person with differences. Did you know it was outlawed for women to be actors at 1 time, and the womens parts where played by men! when we take a good look at History we realize people today are just as normal, If Not moreso.
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Oh Boy, Here we Go! I can be genetically specific as to be one demographic or another as to culture, also when it comes to eye color and gender, and science can even find an illness before the birth of a child. there are things called chromosomes which inform to many distinct informatory preconditions. when a baby is born you can’t tell it has A.D.D. You can’t tell if that child is left or right handed. But, as we treat children and think we’re informing them correctly by telling them to write with there right hand instead of there left. we also have these preconceived notions of what a person is supposed to be. There are many variations as to what we think a good person is. yet our opinions are only made up from the opinions and thoughts of those we surround ourselves with. So If You tell You feminine boy that he’s a Fag because he likes flowers, then thats what he will think of himself. or maybe you’ll be the type of parent who will tell your child that everything he is doing is wrong. then you’ll succeed in creating a very ill adapted child who will keep the therapists in very good company.
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,This topic is very touchy for many. But, Many who delve or practice a very strict culture wind up having a very hard time copping with sexuality. Jehovah’s Witnesses have a very high rate of people who have committed suicide due to the strictness of there religion. when the Bible tells them to speak the truth. then the truth gets them expelled from there church, turned away by there families, rejected by there children, and loss of there jobs who are all a close net of Jehovah’s witnesses. The Other option is to Lie to your church and go to a Gay orgy with all the other Jehovah’s witnesses who aren’t telling the truth to there families. yet knocking on my door every weekend to tell me to stop sinning and handing me those little books!!. ops got carried away their , sorry.
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Your Fine! I Love My Man as white as a Glass of Milk! well ok, maybe thats too much. But my preference is anglo. I am Latin, and have always had an interest in anglo men. My other of 8 years is anglo.
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Name : Paul Sanz, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Akron, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
