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  • in reply to: Should I kiss and not tell? #13782

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    Why should you be ashamed of your past? You learned from it, didn't you? It made you who you are today.

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    Name : Bas, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : Amsterdam, State : NA Country : The Netherlands, Occupation : Designer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Would you stop with the porn, please? #23693

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    I second Brad.

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    Name : Bas, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : Amsterdam, State : NA Country : The Netherlands, Occupation : Designer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Circumcised isn’t a cut above! #25472

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    Yep, it's a cultural thing. In Europe, it's actually pretty uncommon for men to be circumcised. Most girls I know find circumcised penises quite odd...

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    Name : Bas, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : Amsterdam, State : NA Country : The Netherlands, Occupation : Designer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Why don’t teens cherish virginity? #28695

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    Interesting choice of words, Anna from Memphis. 'Cherish'? 'Anymore'? What's to cherish? What's so special about NOT having sex? The bigger a point you make of it, the less you'll like it later on... It's just a biological function that happens to feel good. But with all the morality involved, it just makes it an issue, something scary or filthy. Why is that? As for the 'Anymore' part... I gather you mean in the United States in your grandparent's time, right? There used to be times - and there still are places - where virginity has not much meaning. The way it should be. Therefore I have a question of my own. Why don't teens cherish sex anymore? Why would they want to abstain from it so long and wait for someone they may or may not be with twenty years from now? If sex had been less of an issue when I was a teen, I wouldn't have had such a horrible high school period...

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    Name : Bas, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : Amsterdam, State : NA Country : The Netherlands, Occupation : Designer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Virginity and all that #44859

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    Sex is nice - when you do it because you want to, with someone you like and trust. It *can* hurt the first time, but if the guy is careful and considerate that should be minimal. I've never understood the 'waiting' thing, though. Sex is fun, but more so when you can relax and enjoy it; and that's something I had to learn myself. In hindsight, I think I only really got the hang of it when I was about 24; that's six years (and 8 girls) after my first time! I must say that I, myself, have always been glad if the woman I went to bed with was NOT a virgin; as I said, it helps when both feel confident and relaxed, and I have never met anyone who was really confident and relaxed the first time they did _anything_. Furthermore, I have been in a steady relationship for almost six years now, and I'm glad we both had extensive experience before we met. It's good to know who you are, what you like, and what you want - both in a relationship and in bed.

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    Name : Bas, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : Amsterdam, State : NA Country : The Netherlands, Occupation : Designer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Hers are a little too small #44939

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    Would you like to be told by your girlfriend that your penis is too small? Would you believe her when, directly after she said that, she continued 'but you don't need to enlarge it, honey, I love you just the way you are'? And would you undergo surgery to have your penis enlarged when she told you that she actually likes 10' dicks? Think, man! She has small boobs, and she is a little insecure about that. Maybe some earlier boyfriend or a brother teased her about it. Don't make it worse!

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    Name : Bas, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : Amsterdam, State : NA Country : The Netherlands, Occupation : Designer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: See-thru tops in public? #46479

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    Why shouldn't she? Does it disturb you? A few decennia ago it used to be quite obscene to show your ankles, as a woman. Does that disturb you now? You seem to think she degrades herself by wearing a see-through tank top. However, she obviously doesn't think so herself. Therefore, it's a matter of opinion. Only thing that matters, really, is: can she get away with it? Does it look nice? Some people can wear purple and green cardigans and look nice, but look horrible in a white see-through mesh tank top...

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    Name : Bas, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : Amsterdam, State : NA Country : The Netherlands, Occupation : Designer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
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