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If this man is not interesting in any way — even as a friend — then just say no thanks. You’re not obligated to spend time with someone just because he asks. But if you wouldn’t mind spending time with him, you could ensure that it’s not a date by inviting other people along, or avoiding date-type places like movies, dinner, long walks on the beach, etc.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,The law doesn’t intend for non-contract workers to be fair game for abuse. Verbal harassment and grabbing are crimes. Some states define that behavior as assault, which is a felony. I’d consider filling out a police report, just so there is a record of these people’s behavior in case you have further problems. And be careful.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,As with people, there’s a lot of variety in suburbs. In many, you’d be right to fear rampant conformity, materialism and narrow-mindedness of all stripes. Many people move to suburbs to get away from the messy city, where there are too many different kinds of people for these poor dears to cope with. But many suburbs are quite nice. The one I live in has a major gay pride parade every year. The school district is about 40 percent minority. There is a foreign film theater. A big independent book store. Several organic groceries. Lots of nice restaurants. So, there’s hope. And if you happen to have picked the ‘wrong’ suburb, I guess you can start to make it a ‘right’ one.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Day care is just what the name says it is: Care during the day. It’s not a substitute for parenting, and I don’t feel guilty that my kids spend some time there – particularly when it enables us to feed and house them. Far from guilt, I’m quite happy they’re in a place where they make friends and where they’re safe while we work. I don’t know of any parents who think day care workers are “raising” their children, and it’s presumptuous if that’s what day care workers think they’re doing.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If you have questions about what you see and hear, I’d feel free to ask them. I imagine his family would appreciate your interest. There’s nothing special you need to say or do, other than be willing to learn about your boyfriend’s family and religion.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Sometimes different rights conflict with each other. It may not be so clear-cut that your teacher is punishing you for exercising your free speech rights. Is your “bad language” restricting other students’ rights to an education? Is your free speech disrupting other people’s rights to not be harassed?
Rights come with responsibilities, and if your exercise of your rights hurts other people, it very may well be appropriate to discipline you. Sometimes it’s not easy to know where to draw the line.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Catholics and Jews can and do marry, with both spouses retaining their own religions. It’s not always easy, obviously. Some things to consider if one of you doesn’t convert: Judaism says religion passes through the mother’s side of the family, so if you have children, they’ll be considered Catholic (although it might be nice if they had an appreciation of their father’s beliefs, too). The belief that women are ‘unclean’ during their menstrual cycle is still held by some Orthodox Jews; more mainstream Jews don’t necessarily think that. How you work things out ultimately is up to the two of you. You both have to decide how important your own religions are to you and how each of you would feel living with someone who doesn’t share the other’s beliefs.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,In a city, an immigrant is more likely to find a job, people who speak the same language, a greater degree of tolerance by the majority and the ability to get an education or training. Even if an immigrant came from a rural area, there’s little, if any, support for immigrants in rural America – no ethnic neighborhoods, no multilingual schools or communities, no jobs for people with little formal education or ability to speak English.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If there’s a man you’re interested, don’t wait for him to notice you. Take the initiative. Many men are relieved to be asked out, and it’s no harder for a woman to make the first move than it is for a man. Waiting for someone to notice you can take a long time, no matter what your gender is.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Obviously, some people, like you, manage to be articulate all by yourself. My mother, whose post-secondary education is just two years of secretarial school, is routinely mistaken for a much more educated person. She speaks well, reasons well and is a voracious reader. Actually, she is educated – but self-educated instead of formally educated.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If the framers of the Constitution had wanted this to be a Christian country, they could – and would – have done so. However, they deliberately preserved our right to practice any religion, not merely our right to practice any brand of Christianity. You make a good point that the separation of church and state was in response to the British state-sanctioned religion. How is posting Christian symbols in government buildings different from the British practice the framers of the Constitutition found objectionable?
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If the mother’s Jewish, the children are. If the mother’s not Jewish, the children are not (but could convert, I suppose). I don’t know how other religions make this determination.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Speak out, but first make sure you know what you’re talking about. Do the research and know the historical facts – and if they’re unclear, as they sometimes are, don’t make the same mistake as the teacher and insist only one version is true. Also make sure the teacher is misrepresenting facts – don’t rely on someone else’s version of what this teacher is doing; find out for yourself. Then, when you’re on solid ground, speak out – to other teachers, the administration, the school board, newspapers, students.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Just because he’s elected president doesn’t mean he has to give up or disavow his religion. He’s not saying you or I have to believe in his brand of Christianity. He’s not saying his religion is the nation’s religion, or the government’s religion. Arguing that the president should be allowed to pray in public could be seen as a violation of his own First Amendment rights. Indeed, the purpose of the religion clause of the First Amendment is to guarantee anyone — even the president, who is a citizen like the rest of us — the right to practice his or her own religion. The First Amendment can’t be used to prevent people from praying as they wish.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If you have a problem with homosexuals, that’s your sad business. But to equate homosexuality, which harms no one, with incest and pederastry, which leave deep, permanent scars on victims, is simplistic, intellectually dishonest and without basis in fact. Such analogies are done with the sole purpose of inflaming others, and have no intent of educating anyone or engaging anyone in meaningful dialogue.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
