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Ah yes, guys and porn. My future husband loves to surf porn, and when we first got together I would look at it with him although I didn’t get ‘turned on’ by it. We too have a great sex life, and he never compares me to the girls in the videos. So I don’t have a problem with it. I no longer watch it with him – but when he comes to bed after surfing for a while I know it is me that he wants, not these imaginary women, so no one is being harmed. In fact it enhances our lovemaking. I have seen research that shows that men really respond to visual stimulation – ie, magazines, videos and strip shows – but it certainly doesn’t mean that they want to sleep with those women. If you are secure in your relationship with your partner, I would let it go – otherwise he may feel obligated to hide it, which would create a bigger rift in your relationship than an understanding that he can look but not touch (and that you don’t even want to look). Believe me, he will love you all the more for it!
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Name : Samantha, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 36, City : Woodstock, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Secretary, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Anal sex is an acquired skill – and an acquired pleasure. As a very experienced straight female, I can tell you that a lot of guys don’t have the faintest idea of how to go about making it pleasurable – or even tolerable – for the woman! There are two parts to this: absurd amounts of water based lube, both on his tool and in your bum, and patience. It may take as long as 15 minutes just to get the head in if you are new to this. It helps a lot if the woman is aroused, relaxed, and confident that her partner is concerned about her comfort. Some men seem to think that they can just plunge in there like they do with the vagina, but that is very painful and likely to turn the woman off anal for good. I know that I really enjoy anal sex now, but my first few experiences were painful, embarrassing, and pretty much unsuccessful. I frequently ask for it now because I have amazingly intense orgasms during anal sex, especially if I masturbate at the same time. I’m glad I took the time how to ‘do Greek’ the right way, as my partner and I both like it as a change of pace. And it does get easier with practice. To answer your question, I’ve never had any problems like soreness, looseness of the anus, or sore buttocks even after long nights of exclusively anal or DP. Maybe that’s just me but I think it’s normal.
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Name : Samantha, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 36, City : Woodstock, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Secretary, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Hi Laura! I too was a wild child – alcohol, drugs, lots of partners, worked as a stripper and so on. When I quit all of that and found a ‘straight’ guy, it was about six months before I felt comfortable enough to tell him about my past. Even then I didn’t sit down and give him all of it at once! He already knew that I didn’t drink or drug because I am an alcoholic/addict. Much to my surprise he found this side of me very exciting and respected me a great deal for turning my life around, and for coming clean about it. Turns out he had a few ‘horror stories’ of his own, too! Now we laugh about our past activities and try to offer advice to people who are tired of the wild life. We’re getting married this year, and there are no secrets between us. And occasionally, I table dance for him!
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Name : Samantha, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 36, City : Woodstock, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Secretary, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If you ever come across a term you don’t understand, try looking it up on urbandictionary.com. It’s a site dedicated to providing current, accurate, and often humourous definitions for words that have crept into the English language in recent years. There are many entries for Skeet, plus plenty of cross references.
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Name : Samantha, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 36, City : Woodstock, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Secretary, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,At 16, it is natural to be attracted to girls within a couple of years of your age due to common interests and the fact that you probably interact with them at school and during other activities. This does not mean you are a pedophile. And the fact that you like small breasts (good for you!) does not mean you can’t date girls your own age, either. There are plenty of young women with small, shapely breasts that will never develop into huge cleavage. I know – I’m one of them! I was 14 when I started dating and my boyfriend was 18, and we were together for seven years. But don’t limit yourself to only dating girls whose physical attributes match your ‘preferences’ – you could miss out on some wonderful girlfriends that way. Also, Rafael, make sure you know the laws in Washington. You can get in a lot of trouble if you have sex with a girl who is underage according to the laws of your state. Look it up.
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Name : Samantha, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 36, City : Woodstock, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Secretary, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I admire them a great deal for being survivors. I think male rape victims have an even harder time than female ones because of the implied homosexuality, the deep shame from participating – albeit unwillingly – in a homosexual act, and the fact that they were unable to prevent the rape because their rapist was either physically stronger or had a weapon. I must admit when I hear about male rape my first thought is often, ‘which prison were you in?’, which is not a very admirable thought but, of the two male rape victims I know, both were incarcerated when the attacks occurred. I would like to stress that a man’s having been raped in no way makes me think he is homosexual. Your sexual orientation is totally unrelated to this crime of violence.
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Name : Samantha, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 36, City : Woodstock, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Secretary, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
