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I am a White female and I’ve always believed that rules are rules no matter who you are. No one I know feels any differently. However, there is a tendency among snobbish rich people – invariably Whites, other races, for the most part don’t do this that I’ve seen – to expect everyone to drop what they are doing to kiss their @$$es. My husband and I own our own business and so very often, we’ve had wealthy people come into our shop and expect, in a few cases DEMAND, that they absolutely must be tended to immediately. My husband has a stock answer. ‘Yes, Ma’am/Sir, we will get to your problem immediately… after we help the people who were here before you.’ After the sputtering and blustering and the ‘Do you know who I am?’, my husband very coolly offers the snob the choice of waiting their turn or ‘Get the hell out of my shop and don’t come back.’ So I’ll agree with you to an extent. SOME whites need to step down off of their imaginary pedestals and get real. Perhaps a kindergarten refresher course on kindness, sharing and taking turns is in order, ne?
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,I am not Black. I am a White female who talks to herself constantly! And yeah, I often answer myself or carry on an entire conversation alone. I don’t carry a cell phone in public. (Unless there is an emergency, it seems rather rude to me.) I suspect the reason I talk to myself so much is because I am a stay at home mom who also works from home. Sometimes I just want to hear another adult’s voice even if it is my own. LOL Or to talk to someone who won’t ignore me or ‘talk back.’ I’ve seen plenty of people – not just Black people – who talk to themselves. So, it’s not cultural. I’m very intelligent and my husband and I, while not rich, are rather well off, so I can’t believe it’s socio-economic either. Perhaps you just notice it when someone who is ‘different’ from yourself does it?
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,Last I heard,the age of consent in TX was 17. She may be a minor, but she’s not ‘jail bait.’ So that is hardly a valid argument.
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,I’ve always enjoyed anal sex. I may not always be in the mood for it, but when I am, I love it.
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,I like bisexual guys, I always have. My first boyfriend considered himself bi even though he only ever fantasized about his best friend. My husband used to be uncomfortable about my kink, but once I reassured him that I didn’t expect him to have sex with another guy, he was/is okay with it. He now indulges me by occasionally watching bisexual adult videos with me and will even talk about my fantasies with me because he knows what a big turn on it is for me. Now if I could just persuade him to try a m/m/f threeway with me… But really, lots of men get off on the thought of two women being together, why can’t women be allowed to like seeing or thinking about two guys together? And while it may not be the norm, there are many, many women who do like it. Do an internet search for ‘slash’ of ‘yaoi’ fiction or fanfiction. There are tons of erotic stories online about m/m sex (written by both women and men.) You’ll see that there is nothing wrong with you and that you have plenty of company. ; )
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,Does the term only apply to women who actively seek out gay men or does it also apply to someone like me? I don’t go looking for gay men to be friends with, I just sort of find them. A lot of men that I find attractive, too, turn out to be gay or at least bisexual. And because I don’t actively try to make gay friends, I can’t really say what it is that draws me to them.
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,Most people probably have NOT heard of the Cain brothers or the Zebra Murders. Only Wayne Williams, of the killers you mentioned, received any amount of notoriety, and even so most people probably wouldn’t recognize his name. But if you said the ‘Atlanta Child Murders,’ more people would at least be familiar with that case. The original question stated that ‘Most, if not all, of the most notorious serial killers of the past years are white…’ This is true. Serial murder is a predominately white crime. The only really notorious or well-known non-white serial killer that many people would recognize would, IMO, be Richard Ramirez. But again he’d more likely be remembered as The Night Stalker. While there have been serial murderers of other ethnicities, as well as a few female killers, by and large, statistics show that white males make up the largest percentage by far of serial murderers.
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,It’s not a stupid theory, it is a statistical fact that *almost* all serial killers are white males. And theories and statistics aside, the most notorious, infamous or well-known serial killers have been almost exclusively white males.
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,I’m not sure that the snipers even fall into the category of serial murderers. I’d have to check some reference materials to be certain, but from what I recall it seems like they would fall into the category of spree killers. And while serial murder is a predominately white crime, I don’t know the stats on spree killers – just that they are not the same thing.
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,Not only does it seem that white girls are more aggressive, but it seems like they have become very competitive. They seem to think that being sexually aggressive, provocative and outrageous will get them the most popular guys, the ‘bad boys’, or something. A perfect example would be these ‘Spring Break’ or ‘Girls Gone Wild’ videos that seem to be so popular. It’s almost always white college-age girls degrading themselves in these videos. I’ll admit I’ve only ever seen the Tv ads, but even so, it’s always white girls flashing their breasts. Their parents must be so proud. A pretty girl with a pleasant, outgoing personality and some self-respect will find herself with just as much masculine attention, and from higher-quality guys.
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,I agree totally with the 15 year old girl who said in her post that ‘they’ll get out in the real world one day and fall flat on their asses.’ I graduated high school in the 80’s and I’ve seen exactly what she’s talking about play out again and again. Popular kids in high school who are now divorced and raising their kids alone, working pathetic dead-end jobs, scraping to make ends meet. Unfortunately for them, at least, popularity doesn’t mean crap on a resume. It kinda makes you feel sorry for some of them. Kinda. I was never part of the popular crowd. But now, I have a handsome husband and 3 wonderful kids. We have a nice house in a good area, we own two businesses, and have everything we want or need and then some. We are happy. And you know what? It was like poetic justice when one of those former popular girls found out her husband had been coming on to me! LOL
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,My husband and I discovered recently that our 12 year old son had managed to access some pornographic internet sites. I was not surprised that he was curious – it’s only natural at that age. What surprised me was that there are ‘preteen porn’ sites out there. (Someone should go to prison for this.) My husband and I discussed how to handle the situation before talking to our son. Then my husband sat him down and explained that while there is nothing wrong with being curious or with sex, pornography is not meant for young people. That the acts depicted and described are not typical and therefore a very bad way to learn about sex, love and relationships. He went on to explain how sex and love were not the same thing, how sex should be incorporated into a loving relationship, and how pornography gives the wrong impression of how men and women interact in real life. He also made sure to let our son know that sex itself is not bad, nor is curiosity. And he let our son know that he could come to either one of us if he ever had questions or wanted to talk. Later on I approached my son, and told him that I wanted him to know he could talk to me about anything too – without going into all of the details his father did. I wanted to avoid embarrassing him, but I felt that it was important for him to know that we were both available. Then we set up AOL Guardian, their new parental notification system. When your child logs on, you receive an email report about his or her online activities. Much more effective than the old parental controls now that porn sites are finding ways around these.
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,As a blonde myself, I think I can say that this kind of stereotyping goes hand-in-hand the idea that blondes are dumb or easy. I have dk blonde hair but prefer to keep it honey blonde like it was when I was a child; like my daughter’s hair is now. I also have green eyes and a year round tan that I do little to maintain — it’s genetic. I think I am attractive but no one will ever mistake me for a swimsuit model! Long hair, average build (no top-heavy Barbie doll build, not even close), a little above average in height. I rarely even wear make-up. Over the years, I’ve tried many different hair colors from brown to red to black, and various shades in between. Yet I have always come back to blonde. I feel more comfortable, more confident and, yes, more attractive. When I’m blonde, I have noticed that I get more attention from guys, not all of it flattering. But I believe the reason I get more attention as a blonde is because I’m more at ease with myself. And I’ve always believed that confidence is the most attractive trait you can possess. On the flip side of the coin, when I was younger, I was only attracted to tall, tanned, blonde guys. LOL I wonder how guys would feel about that!
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,I happen to think a lot of Asian guys, esp. Chinese and Japanese, are gorgeous. Unfortunately, there just doesn’t seem to be a very large Asian population around here. 😉 But I’ve always thought that Asians and Native Americans were some of the most beautiful people on earth. I certainly couldn’t tell you why exactly. Just a matter of opinion, I guess.
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,I think it is more acceptable now than it was in the past. And I don’t believe that women always choose ‘men with more resources.’ In fact, that is insulting. Many women, these days, are strong, independent, self reliant and do not believe they need a man to provide for them. I know several couples in which the woman is older and in a couple of cases there is a significant age difference. In about half of those couples the woman is the primary provider. In fact, these older woman/younger man couples have all been together longer than most of the other couples I’ve known (many of these couples have broken up or divorced.) BTW, my own 18 year marriage is more traditional. My husband is only a year older than I am. He is the sole provider and I am quite happy to be able to stay home with our kids. So I can’t say I’m biased.
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Name : Marie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Jeffersonville, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,
