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This is weird, we are in the same town, almost same age, we may even go to the same church! What are the odds of running into each other( so to speak) on this internet site? In answer to your question: I am a borderline diabetic, first diagnosed over 10 years ago. I had noticed a decline in my libido over about a two-year period prior to the diabetes being diagnosed (Type2) I was always very sexually active and was basically ready any time, anywhere. I initially attributed my lowered libedo to a growing lack of desire for my wife who was steadily gaining weight to the point of become a turnoff for me. I had my testosterone level checked and it was fine and I could, on occasion, perform well when properly motivated. At any rate when the diagnosis of diabetes came in I theorized that it was due to small blood vessel damage due to the diabetes. My diabetes is controlled by diet and exercise and although I guess I am technically impotent, through the use of the new wonder drugs Viagra and Cialis, I am able to perform almost at the pre-diabetic level. So to answer you question, a man can certainly continue, to some degree, to have sexual desire and arousal and release. Remember the desire part is genetically hard wired, unless something is really wrong psychologically a man desires sex, virtually all the time. The arousal part comes from a potential partner sending out the right signals. Unless the diabetes has destroyed the plumbing mechanism (blood supply system) entirely, with Viagra or one of the other new drugs, he should be able to achieve erection and have orgasms. If too much damage has been done then the desire would remain (unless he just gives up) but he would not be able to achieve an erection, and orgasm without erection is difficult if not impossible.
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Name : Jerry, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 58, City : Jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : Retired Business Exec, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Your hubby is pretty weird, all right. However, if you are really bi, then he is no more weird than you, since both seem a little off-kilter to me. But I could be wrong.
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Name : Jerry, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 58, City : Jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : Retired Business Exec, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,It is spontaneous, it is a little wicked, a little dangerous, forbidden fruit if you will. If you have a lady who offers don’t be a dork…try it you’ll like it!
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Name : Jerry, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 58, City : Jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : Retired Business Exec, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,A very complex subject young lady. Some thoughts from an old guy who, believe it or not, went through the same thing you are going through now, only many years ago. With age comes experience and wisdom. A few thoughts: Teens today do not cherish virginity because our popular culture bombards you with the message that sex is everything. I believe this is an unconcious reaction to our puritanical background which always told us that sex was dirty. The pendulum swings back and forth and right now it is swinging to the permissive side from the former prudish side. People are finding that the prudes were not necessarily correct in their strictures. So our current culture puts too much emphasis on sex at much to early an age. So, by the time a girl reaches your age, it is cool for her to be able to say she is not a virgin (whether she actually is or not.) Having sex is as normal as sleeping or eating…at the appropriate time. It is a rite of passage that all of us experience at some moment. While you say now that you will remain a virgin until you marry, I hate to burst your bubble but this will probably not happen. At the right time, with the right circumstances, with the right person, your normal human urges will lead you to want to give yourself to your partner. The secret to making this the wonderful experience it should be is to prepare yourself for the moment before it arrives by knowing what to do…and what not to do. Discuss what is going to happen with an adult you trust. First and foremost avoid an unplanned pregnancy! Secondly protect yourself from STDs. Finally never let yourself be pressured into doing anything you do not want to do. When the time is right you’ll know it…whenever it comes.
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Name : Jerry, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 58, City : Jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : Retired Business Exec, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I am no expert on this but it would seem that you as a 16 year old would normally associate with girls a couple of years younger than yourself. However as you get older, you should probably find yourself continuing to be attracted to girls a couple of years younger than you are at any given time. Once you reach age 18 you fall into a legal thing which makes you liable to become a statutory rapist if you have sex with a female under the age of consent in your state. If, by the time you reach the age of majority in your state, you still find yourself attracted to 13 year old girls rather than 16 or 17 year old girls, you may have a problem! Remember there are plenty of women close to your age who have small breasts. Find someone your own age group who meets your criteria.
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Name : Jerry, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 58, City : Jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : Retired Business Exec, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I am no expert on this but from what I read it appears that most of this is urban legend. From what I have gathered this is usually to a temporary loss of bladder control (either voluntary on involuntary) releasing a small amount of urine. I could be wrong.
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Name : Jerry, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 58, City : Jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : Retired Business Exec, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,
