THE QUESTION: SO135: My wife and I made a surprise visit on my baby daughter, who lives in New York. We noticed this woman there who appears to be lesbian and also noticed things that suggested my daughter and this woman might be sexual partners. How do I ask my baby girl, Are you gay? POSTED APRIL 21, 1999 W.J.F., …

THE QUESTION: SE10: As a straight 22-year-old female, I am in the mind frame that all people should practice safe sex. Because I am heterosexual, I am fully aware of how this is done. How do lesbians practice safe sex? Because it is two females, it must be done in a different way, and I am curious about how this …

THE QUESTION: SE20: My girlfriend(s) have experienced what may be referred to as “flooding” orgasms; they seemed to have discharged in excess of a cup of fluid. It didn’t seem to be urine (no odor). Could someone please tell me what the discharge is and its cause, and is it common? POSTED MAY 6, 1998 J. H., 31, male, Starkville, …

THE QUESTION: SE30: I had a girlfriend one time in the shower take my hand and place it on her crotch. She then urinated on my hand, and asked me to play with her at that time. Why would anyone do this? And do some women find this exciting? This ended our two-year relationship because I was not understanding. This …

THE QUESTION: SE40: I have been with my current boyfriend about five years. We have experimented with different sexual practices, including anal sex. He seems to enjoy me using my finger in his anus when I perform oral sex on him. Is it possible that this could mean he is gay or bisexual? POSTED AUG. 13, 1998 Kris ANSWER 1: …

THE QUESTION: SE50: I would like to know if it is normal, or common, for females to have a bad odor from their genital area. If so, is this a problem of bad hygiene? POSTED NOV. 17, 1998 Darrin O., male, Detroit, MI ANSWER 1: I have rarely encountered a woman with a “bad” genital odor. In cases where I …