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Sadly, it is not only common for women not to orgasm during sex, it is also common for them not to find pleasure in sex as well. Problems can be mental or physical. Physical problems include the inability of the woman to generate vaginal fluid (aka ‘get wet’), which limits the pleasure of sex. Psychological issues include having sex while not ‘in the mood.’ Try talking to your partner about it. It may be as simple as that he does not know what can bring you to orgasm. Remember, men are not psychic – he may need direction, which can be in itself fun and romantic.
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Name : Chris, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : student/teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,What you’re talking about is the result of a variety of differnt properties of the vagina. Healthy women secrete fluid during sex which is to lubricate the sexual act, reducing tears to the vagina and thus making sex more pleasurable. Some women also form more fluids than others. The ‘shooting’ to which you are refering is actually due to the woman using the muscles of the vagina – the same muscles which are exercised in Kegel exercises – to propel the fluid. Like the quantity of the fluid, the strength of the muscles varies from female to female. If a woman has very strong muscles and copious vaginal fluid she can indeed ‘shoot.’ However, this may not occur during orgasm. Women can tense their muscles voluntarily as well.
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Name : Chris, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : student/teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,You’re lucky if you can control your erections to the point that they arrive when ‘appropriate.’ Many things – friction, seeing a beautiful body, a passing thought – can bring an erection. Don’t feel badly about it, just be discrete. If a girl complains that you have an erection at a time deemed ‘inappropriate,’ explain to her that this is part of being a man, and that erections are involuntary responses.
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Name : Chris, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : student/teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’m glad that people are becoming increasingly interested in etymology – the history of words – because words are a reflection of culture. ‘Denigrate’ does, in fact, literally mean ‘to blacken.’ While this word is far too old to represent American racism, it does reflect a Western notion of white as purity and black as impurity or destroyed. This is a very old cultural symbology, but it is not universal. For example, in many Asian societies white is the color of mourning and of funerals. However, the Western notion of white as good and black as bad reinforces and, in pre-modern minds, justifies racism against dark-colored peoples. The word itself is harmless, but awareness of its history can help us understand our Western cultural assumptions and help us understand that racism is backwards and arbeitrary. In other words, the etymology of ‘denigrate’ can help us understand how deeply ingrained cultural precepts are.
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Name : Chris, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : student/teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Giving birth does loosen the vagina – but only to a degree. During labor, the muscles of the vagina loosen to allow for the passage of the baby, but they tighten again afterwards. However, many women complain of ‘looseness’ afterwards. If you and your girlfriend have a problem with ‘looseness’ – if her vaginal walls have not recovered fully from her pregnancy – there are special excercises called Kegel exercises that can help your special lady get ‘back into shape.’
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Name : Chris, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : student/teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Ask yourself, what do you like about gay men? Is it because they are safe, or do you percieve them as sensitive and more ‘woman-like’? Friendships between gay men and women have the advantage of being strictly platonic, which attracts many women because of ‘forbidden fruit’ mentality – you want exactly what you can’t have. However, if the issue is sensitivity and empathy, many straight and bisexual men are just as caring as gay men. Try figuring out why you like gay men first.
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Name : Chris, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : student/teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Many people worry if their fetishes are ‘odd,’ but sexuality is one of the beautiful aspects of human diversity. So the real question is, does his farting bother you? If you enjoy it, whether it is because you enjoy doing it or enjoy giving him pleasure by doing it, then you’re both perfectly fine, if a little unconventional. However, no one should ever have sex that makes them feel ‘bad’ or ‘weird’ – so if you don’t like it, tell him. Also understand he may have a fetish called ‘scat’ in the colliquial – he may find excrement sexual exciting. If this fetish bothers you, you may want to have an honest conversation about it with your partner. Remember, the largest sexual organ of the human body is the brain.
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Name : Chris, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : student/teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Are you certain that your boy does not have a sexually transmited disease? Double-check this first. If it is simply coloration, then oral sex is an option, but don’t feel forced. When you perform sexual acts out of obligation rather than love and passion, it can hurt your relationship. Talk to your partner about why you feel uncomfortable. And even if he says it isn’t a sexual disease, get yourselves both tested to be sure.
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Name : Chris, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : student/teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
