[Catharine]

First, only about the outer half-inch to inch of a woman's vagina is sensitive. If the whole thing were sensitive, I don't imagine childbirth would be terribly popular. And like an earlier poster said, some women have sensitive cervixes, and it can be unpleasant to have one's cervix repeatedly bumped during sex. Just as some men are attracted to or repelled by large breasts, some women are attracted to or repelled by large penises. It's a personal kink.

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[Catharine]

If you mean 'aroused' as in lubricating, I don't think so. However, gay and straight men alike enjoy anal penetration. They've got a prostate gland, which helps it feel good.

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[Catharine]

How is your agility with your scooter? A non-disabled person who is walking through the mall can easily avoid a child who darts in front of him or her. If you cannot stop easily, or tend to almost mow people down, maybe that's what people have problems with. As far as people looking at you as though you're from outer space when they're in line with you, why not just look right back at them?

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[Catharine]

I come from an area that is heavily military. We civilians in such a situation see only the bad part of the military. Every week there is a drunk-driving accident featuring a soldier. Every month some military guy kills a prostitute. For those of us who work in social services, it seems as though familial abuse is endemic among the military, especially in U.S. Marine families. Bars, tattoo joints and pawn shops spring up around military bases. It's probably just the effect of having such a high proportion of young, juiced-up males in one particular place, but I'm not fond of the military. In fact, when I was in high school, my dad (Korea vet) told me that he would skin me alive if I dated a military guy. In later life, I have worked with a lot of retired military non-coms and officers, and while there are some nice guys, I have found them to be more bigoted and small-minded than other people. I hope that other people have had different experiences, though.

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[Catharine]

Some guys just don't want to learn, and they interpret the fact that the woman hasn't come yet as 'I must keep going and going and going...' In this case, women fake to get the guy to QUIT.

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[Catharine]

Jews have historically placed an emphasis on education, even at times when the Gentiles around them were largely illiterate. But there are plenty of poor Jewish people, don't worry! (I'm one of them. I lost my ZOG I.D. card.)

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[Catharine]

Thank you for this stunning observation. I'll be sure to tell my oncologist about it. He has the odd idea that I'm fat because of my chemo drugs and the steroids I take to avoid anaphylactic shock from said chemo drugs. After all, fourteen saltine crackers and two glasses of apple juice a day are SUCH a fattening diet.

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[Catharine]

Look at an Asian person. He or she probably does not have slanted eyes. They do not have the fold that gives Europeans the crease in their eyelids. As a result, their eyes do not open as far. As far as why, a biology instructor many years ago told me that Asian people evolved on the steppes of Asia, which are very cold and dry, and their eyes developed in this way so that they would stay warm and moist. Of course, he also told me (a small-nosed Hawaiian Jew) that Jews have big noses because we evolved in the desert and need all that nose space to warm and moisturize the air we breathe, so go figure.

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[Catharine]

I don't have any brilliant ideas, but in Hawaii, great stress is laid on speaking Pidgin and sounding 'local.' Grow up with a brown skin, get educated, and talk like a haole, and you're labeled as a 'coconut' -- brown on the outside, white on the inside. White kids, too, emphasize their 'local' status by speaking Pidgin or with a Pidgin or with a Pidgin accent. Could white kids want to talk like they're black to fit in? I also notice that a lot of 'black' talk is stylish, witty and cool-sounding.

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[Catharine]

I think some of what you're smelling is the very strong spices that a lot of East Indian immigrants cook with. The smell permeates their housing, so their clothes smell like it, too. There are also some hygiene differences at work. I don't have a lot of experience with East Indians; by an odd set of circumstances, mine is with Sri Lankans, but the Sri Lankans I have known like to oil their hair instead of washing it, and they think using toilet paper is filthy. Instead of toilet paper, they keep a jar of water next to the toilet with which to splash and cleanse themselves.

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[Catharine]

Oh, honey, I'm sorry. I am 99% sure that he is lying and the material is his, for all the reasons that have already been expressed. This is a very difficult time for you. If you decide you want to stay with him, you could begin by looking through the yellow pages for sexual therapists. Call each office up and ask if they offer therapy to adults who enjoy child porn. If they don't, they may be able to refer you to someone who does.

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