Yearly Archives: 2016

Gender Questions 41-50

THE QUESTION: GE50: Why do women seem to react negatively when being approached for sex? I am a bisexual male and there is a noticeable difference between the genders. Almost all the men I have approached for sex did not mind being propositioned, but women seem to be offended or turned off. Are women just not as interested as men …

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Gender Questions 51-60

THE QUESTION: GE60: I was a topless dancer for a year and quit nearly a year ago. How and when, in a relationship, is it appropriate to reveal this? How do men feel about dating former topless dancers? POSTED AUG. 4, 1998 J.P., 20, white college girl, San Antonio, TX ANSWER 1: You don’t ever have to reveal this detail …

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Gender Questions 61-70

THE QUESTION: GE70: I’d like to know from men: Why do you not like overweight women? I am 22, educated and have a job, and all of my friends say I am really nice to have around. But since I am somewhat overweight, no guy wants me. Why? POSTED SEPT. 7, 1998 Sheri L., Madison, WI ANSWER 1: It’s probably …

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Why am I always the ‘cool black guy’?

I’ve noticed when I’ve gone to almost all-white college bars that I am THE MAN. It’s almost like I’m a celebrity, as in, “Hey! It’s THE Black Guy!” What’s that about? Tola24659, Gender : M, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Catholic, Age : 23, City : Silver Spring, State : MD, Country : United States, Education level : 4 …

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Gender Questions 81-90

THE QUESTION: GE90: A female told me she just wanted to be friends, but one day when our school took a field trip, she thought I was supposed to spend the whole day with her. Why did she assume I would spend the day with her? POSTED NOV. 9, 1998 Matthew L., 25, Asian <mlee@curry.edu>, Quincy, MA ANSWER 1: Are …

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