THE QUESTION: SO110: I’m a 14-year-old gay teenager and would like any of the older gay men out there to please give me some advice about coming out, etc. POSTED DEC. 21, 1998 Gay, 14, <ham111@hotmail.com>, Ontario, Canada ANSWER 1: It is incredibly tough to give advice on this, especially at your age. First, you must be sure that you …

THE QUESTION: SO120: I really enjoy being with other women, but I find that this behavior is sometimes unacceptable to others. To people who are offended by this: What is it, specifically, that offends you about a woman loving another woman, or makes you feel uncomfortable? POSTED JAN. 21, 1999 Female, 24 <aogden@hotmail.com>, San Antonio, TX To respond BACK TO …

THE QUESTION: SO130: How common is it for people who haven’t yet accepted their homosexuality to become involved in sex industry work or promiscuity with the opposite sex as a manifestation of their discomfort? POSTED MARCH 26, 1999 Curious woman ANSWER 1: The more repressed someone is about their sexuality, it seems the more likely they are to move to …

THE QUESTION: SO135: My wife and I made a surprise visit on my baby daughter, who lives in New York. We noticed this woman there who appears to be lesbian and also noticed things that suggested my daughter and this woman might be sexual partners. How do I ask my baby girl, Are you gay? POSTED APRIL 21, 1999 W.J.F., …

THE QUESTION: SE10: As a straight 22-year-old female, I am in the mind frame that all people should practice safe sex. Because I am heterosexual, I am fully aware of how this is done. How do lesbians practice safe sex? Because it is two females, it must be done in a different way, and I am curious about how this …

THE QUESTION: SE20: My girlfriend(s) have experienced what may be referred to as “flooding” orgasms; they seemed to have discharged in excess of a cup of fluid. It didn’t seem to be urine (no odor). Could someone please tell me what the discharge is and its cause, and is it common? POSTED MAY 6, 1998 J. H., 31, male, Starkville, …