Monthly Archives: May 2016

Gender Questions 61-70

THE QUESTION: GE70: I’d like to know from men: Why do you not like overweight women? I am 22, educated and have a job, and all of my friends say I am really nice to have around. But since I am somewhat overweight, no guy wants me. Why? POSTED SEPT. 7, 1998 Sheri L., Madison, WI ANSWER 1: It’s probably …

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Why am I always the ‘cool black guy’?

I’ve noticed when I’ve gone to almost all-white college bars that I am THE MAN. It’s almost like I’m a celebrity, as in, “Hey! It’s THE Black Guy!” What’s that about? Tola24659, Gender : M, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Catholic, Age : 23, City : Silver Spring, State : MD, Country : United States, Education level : 4 …

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Gender Questions 81-90

THE QUESTION: GE90: A female told me she just wanted to be friends, but one day when our school took a field trip, she thought I was supposed to spend the whole day with her. Why did she assume I would spend the day with her? POSTED NOV. 9, 1998 Matthew L., 25, Asian <mlee@curry.edu>, Quincy, MA ANSWER 1: Are …

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Gender Questions 91-100

THE QUESTION: GE100: My 32-year-old fiance would be satisfied to make love once every two months. After seven years together, I don’t expect it to be as frequent as at first, but is this average for a man of his age? POSTED NOV. 30, 1998 Nikki, 29, white female, Chicago , IL ANSWER 1: While I can’t speak for your …

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Gender Questions 101-110

THE QUESTION: GE110: Why do guys act differently toward girls once they reach around age 19? Is it because they are scared of commitment? POSTED JAN. 19, 1999 Laura R., 21, female <laja32778@aol>, Indianapolis , IN ANSWER 1: I think it must be the individuals you’re meeting, because I’ve had the opposite experience. In my opinion, guys reach a certain …

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