Dare To Ask Talk And News About Our Differences THE QUESTION: GD68: What do people feel is worse: Blatant racism, such as KKK rallies, or institutionalized racism, such as cops targeting/pulling over blacks, people thinking there will never be a black president, lack of jobs for minorities, worse schools for minorities, etc. POSTED APRIL 21, 1999 Skitherbud, San Diego, CA. To respond BACK TO TOP THE QUESTION: GD67: What …
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Gender Questions 11-20
THE QUESTION: GE20: I’d like to know how guys of all ages feel when a female is insecure about herself. Is a little insecurity good, or is it best if a girl can be 100 percent self-confident about herself? Also, how does it make you, as a male, feel when a female close to you talks about her appearance negatively? …
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THE QUESTION: GE30: My girlfriend always gets on my case for “checking out” other women. She told me recently that she thinks there are fewer good-looking guys than good-looking women. After paying closer attention, I almost agree. Does anyone else agree, or do males look more because we are hornier and/or just pay more attention? POSTED MAY 17, 1998 Jeremy, …
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THE QUESTION: GE40: What is the overall opinion of people sleeping together on the first date or the initial encounter? As a man, I would surely sleep with a woman given the chance, but I would have a real problem forming any kind of solid relationship with her. POSTED JUNE 15, 1998 Pasquale, 30, male <Pasquale@homedics.com>, Dearborn, MI ANSWER 1: …
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THE QUESTION: GE50: Why do women seem to react negatively when being approached for sex? I am a bisexual male and there is a noticeable difference between the genders. Almost all the men I have approached for sex did not mind being propositioned, but women seem to be offended or turned off. Are women just not as interested as men …
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THE QUESTION: GE60: I was a topless dancer for a year and quit nearly a year ago. How and when, in a relationship, is it appropriate to reveal this? How do men feel about dating former topless dancers? POSTED AUG. 4, 1998 J.P., 20, white college girl, San Antonio, TX ANSWER 1: You don’t ever have to reveal this detail …
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