Dare To Ask Talk And News About Our Differences THE QUESTION: SE40: I have been with my current boyfriend about five years. We have experimented with different sexual practices, including anal sex. He seems to enjoy me using my finger in his anus when I perform oral sex on him. Is it possible that this could mean he is gay or bisexual? POSTED AUG. 13, 1998 Kris ANSWER 1: ...
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THE QUESTION: SE50: I would like to know if it is normal, or common, for females to have a bad odor from their genital area. If so, is this a problem of bad hygiene? POSTED NOV. 17, 1998 Darrin O., male, Detroit, MI ANSWER 1: I have rarely encountered a woman with a “bad” genital odor. In cases where I ...
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THE QUESTION: SE60: To men: Why do so many of you desire to have a woman “deep-throat” you? This is difficult for a lot of women to do. Why isn’t normal oral sex enough? POSTED FEB. 4, 1999 Sandra, white female, 23, Columbus , Oh ANSWER 1: Men like being deep-throated because they enjoy the feeling of the mouth over ...
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THE QUESTION: SE68: I was watching some gay porn the other day and a lot of the anal sex just looked so uncomfortable. Are there any gay men who find anal sex uncomfortable and not really a turn-on? POSTED APRIL 19, 1999 Lisa, straight, 19, female, Santa Monica, CA To respond BACK TO TOP THE QUESTION: SE67: What do heterosexual ...
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THE QUESTION: RE10: In light of Matthew 6:6, in which Christians are admonished not to pray in public view, how can ”vociferous” Christians justify the demand for open prayer in schools and in other public facilities? POSTED MARCH 16, 1998 Scottie, Pensacola, FL ANSWER 1: This was in reference to the sudducees and pharisees. They prayed loudly and in public ...
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THE QUESTION: RE20: Director’s Paraphrase: Tim, 20, of Ypsilanti, Mich., has asked why some Christians are “fearful of different religions.” He says he was a Christian for a good portion of his life, but then read about the ancient Celtic religion and found there was “nothing evil about it.” He wonders if people are fearful of this religion because it ...
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