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I’ve been there. I was 20 when I had my son. When I was pregnant, I was huge. I felt the same way you did. I didn’t want to eat afterwards, I felt so ugly and huge. I don’t care what anyone says, the whole ‘get over it’ comment – yeah right! It’s hard to get over. You will lose the weight, though, don’t worry. It took me just about 4 months to get back to normal. And still, even if you hit your previous weight, your body isn’t going to look the same. I’m back down to 120 and my hips are a little bigger, my breasts are just a little lower and I just don’t have the body of a girl … it’s a woman’s body now and it does look different. My point: don’t worry about your weight too much; it will go away if you do normal routine crunches or run. Keep in mind, your skin won’t return to its original elasticity for over a year, so you will have what seems like excess skin.
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Name : Victoria, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 21, City : Novi, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Federal Agent, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,‘Road Head’ is the best kind to give! I hate doing it otherwise, but in the car… it’s great. If you’ve never tried it, just do it once… you’ll love it.
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Name : Victoria, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 21, City : Novi, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Federal Agent, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I say, if you met someone and fall in love… GO FOR IT! But do it naturally. If God wants you to have a baby, he will give you one. My mother had me when she was 36 and she doesn’t regret it at all. I don’t mind having an older mother what so ever. The last person said ‘don’t do it for the childs sake’ Yeah, and if you don’t do it, there won’t even be a child! Is she saying she would rather not create another human life, something that will fill your heart with so much joy… just because you will pass away when their in their 40’s? At least you gave them the chance to be in their 40’s! Parents of a lot younger children die everyday, it’s a part of life. I say have one, have two! You’ll never know how much you can love one human being until you have a child.
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Name : Victoria, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 21, City : Novi, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Federal Agent, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Yeah, I feel your pain. Try working in Detroit. I said ‘Hey girl, what’s up’ to a black women, she just about killed me. She said she felt that me calling her ‘girl’ was racist. Maybe next time I’ll just call her bitch. I think it’s reverse discrimination. SOME black people (of course, not all) think they should be treated better and get more respect just because of what their great great great great great grandpa that they didn’t even know went through. I’m sorry, but no matter who you are or what race you are, you don’t just get respect, you earn it. Yes, some blacks do have it hard because there are still those racist, narrow minded whites… but for heavens sake, get over it-for both sides. Obviously African Americans aren’t going to go away, and whites aren’t either, so just get along.
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Name : Victoria, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 21, City : Novi, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Federal Agent, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Now since you mention it, the more middle-upper class black men/women always do smell good. I guess white men just don’t care as much, and black men are more ‘all about women’ and want to look and smell good for them. Black women in that class are just all together more ‘cosmotology inclined’. Their hair and makeup and stuff always looks good.
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Name : Victoria, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 21, City : Novi, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Federal Agent, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Nope, I never have during sex. I felt close, but never all the way. Wonder why…
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Name : Victoria, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 21, City : Novi, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Federal Agent, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,
