[Oscar]

Tough life! It's good to hear you're still standing. It's gonna be harder to find someone who's willing and able to sail on the same boat. That someone will more than likely have had a similuar life. For that guy too must be willing to shed baggage. 21 is an awful young age to be a veteran of the life. I grew up with a lot Life Vets. Some have rebounded, most don't. The ones that have it the hardest are the women. Most guys that I know wouldn't even take a second thought regardless of how attractive one may be. There comes a point when dicisions are made because of one's history. Can't turn back the clock, can't start over, can't go back to be the 'Good Girl' or 'Good Boy' that one was before. That's a bucketfull of B.S.! What you can do is continue moving in the positive direction and not succumb to the past. Fix yourself up,set yourself with a career that will take you in a positive direction. Stay away from the Life and disassociate with those people at all costs! You're the Captain of the Laura. She knows she's got a tough voyage ahead because her history created it. Good sailing!

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Name : Oscar, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Humanist, Age : 49, City : Pima, State : AZ Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Oscar]

Do everything possible to rid yourself of this creep now! NOW!! It is monsters like this maggot who make the headlines at the victim's expense. You are a victim! Go to the Police! That's what these creeps expect their victims not to do. This is their ticket to continue to torment. It makes sense to THEM because it will suit THEIR needs in lengthening the 'relationship' at YOUR expense! He will know that he's under scrutiny of the law and that will put him under the eyes of everyone involved. The more your people know the better! Your biggest allies are what I call the Three C'c in dealing with Abusive Relationships. COMUNICATION, COPS & COUNSELING. Tell your people, get it to the Cops and get Counseling. Leave nothing to chance! Dispose of this pukebag who may look like a man, think he's a man but in reality does the biggest discredit to what a REAL MAN is about, respectfull of the spieces that gives life. The WOMAN. Remember it is YOU we are talking about. It is YOU that has to do the 3 C's. It is YOU that is in control because you have the courage to do something about it, not this social excrement of an entity. Don't become a statistic, this is YOUR life, not his.

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Name : Oscar, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Humanist, Age : 49, City : Pima, State : AZ Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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A true hero you are! I am 49, should be a grandfather by today's standards. I have yet to give it up. Go ahead and laugh, as God knows it to be true. While in the Military I met and courted a true princess. In time I got to know her eyes, her voice, her touch, her fragrance, her being. I came to know her artform. She has a command of Grace, Spirit and Mind. She skates on ice just as well as she lives. I grew up in an environment where losing virginity was as common as a repeat visit to the Juvenile Detention Center! What you possess is the greatest gift god bestowed that you could call yours. It is yours until you give it to someone of your choosing. It can never be taken away forcibly, it can't be stolen. Only your heart can promise it to that special man. That special man will cherish it to be of true spirit because he too should be willing to offer his virginity. Virginity is a one-time use. It had better be consentual by both hearts. For only time together, experiences together can create the bonding of mind and body that creates love for each other. Your senses will be taken over by your hearts, Time will enrich the mix of your souls as you'll get to know the inside of what is to be the merging of two into one for life. It is called Marriage. Without any one of the described ingridients it will fail. Due to her illness we were not able to have enough of the ingredient Time. Our hearts had made the commitment unto marriage, ring and all. She was recieved into the great beyond, I lost my mate but had there been more time I would have been a Father at the least. I still have that Great gift and it is still mine until my heart says it is not. Down the road of life, who knows? You are what others would like to be. If you don't believe it, just read the posted responses!

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Name : Oscar, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Humanist, Age : 49, City : Pima, State : AZ Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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