I'm light skinned, and when I was young, it was not so great. My light mother referred to me as a light skin heffa. I am offended when these music videos show nothing but light-skinned women with long hair, even though that's what I am. My friends laugh when they find out I am offended at this. But damn, I'm a black woman, and I know these videos are equating white-looking black women with white beauty. And that p***ses me off. I accept no privileges for light skin. When white folks try to act like that's where they are coming from, I check them. It's not right.
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Name : JAMARA, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 32, City : hampton, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : exec asst, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, I can understand where you are coming from. As a Black woman, I am attracted to Black men. The characteristics that black men have is what does it for me. I do see that there are some white men who have appealing features i.e. Brad, Eminem, Joey Lawrence, but for me, there is absolutely no physical attraction there. I would be more attracted to your average black man than to the 'finest' white boy. So your tastes are fine, and thank you for explaining it in a non-derogatory manner. Can you say WHY you prefer slimmer bodies and features? I've never understood that.
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Name : JAMARA, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 32, City : hampton, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : exec asst, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, I've always wondered why white folks get so weirded-out when it comes to discussing race issues or differences. Why the nervousness? Break it down for me.
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Name : JAMARA, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 32, City : hampton, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : exec asst, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, Bottom line: the majority of us feel surfing is a white people sport, lots of us don't like water, and for most of us, living life as a black person is adventure enough!
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Name : JAMARA, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 32, City : hampton, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : exec asst, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
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