Heather

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  • in reply to: Going bald before I’m 20, do girls care? #25777

    Heather
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    Some guys look OK going bald, and others I think should just shave their entire head. A lot of women think shaved bald heads are sexy, and most I know can't resist touching them. (They just want to feel what it's like... and it's good luck) Think of the actor 'Vin Deisel' (not sure if I spelled his name correctly.) Please don't ever get a toupee. That just cries 'I'm old' and nobody really likes the 'comb over' look.

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Nagging #34742

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    I nag at my fiance. I keep telling him that if he would actually do what I ask when I ask I wouldn't have a 'honey-do' list. Not big things. But after six months I finally hooked the rail in the closet back up. He kept saying he would do it but never did; same with moving the table downstairs to the basement. My nagging is for simple things around the house that only take a few minutes to do, but that I sometimes feel I am incapable of doing - or at least doing alone. Also, he forgets almost everything (and I know he has a lot on his mind), but sometimes I will keep asking or telling him things because I think he will forget.

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: How the word nigger has evolved #42489

    Heather
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    I don't know how it was started. I do think that it only can hurt your feelings if you let it. Like any other curse word. I've heard some black people say that any variation of nigger is bad. I've also heard that it's okay if you say nigga but not niggER. The sound of it. 'What's up nigga? What's up nigger' It does sound different. I still don't feel comfortable saying it around black people without discussing it with them first - and even then I still don't say it unless I feel very close to them and nobody else is around.

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Youth and bad credit #37671

    Heather
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    I received my first credit card when I was 16. It was for Fashion Bug and had a limit of 250. (I was working) Then I got Sears at 18. From then on I didn't get another until I was 24. I was lucky enough to have a teacher tell me one time that you should NEVER buy anything on credit that you wouldn't buy if you had the cash in your hand. Also, I learned about interest rates and how to 'play' the credit card game from a guy at work. Basically I wait until one comes in with 0Apr and no transfer rate.... keep switching them around. But I have never been in debt with them until now.... just bought a 4000 vinyl fence. Fortunately I already had bought my house. Really, though, I think there should be some kind of mandatory class before getting credit cards because I don't think that many young people really understand it all.

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: White people’s feet on the dashboard #25806

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    I've done it. Going out on the town and dancing all night. The brand new high heeled shoe straps are digging into my ankles. My toes are crunched up trying to fit into the 7 1/2 shoe because I couldn't find a size 8 that went with my dress. By the end of the night my legs and feet hurt so much and are begging for freedom. I kick my shoes off and prop my legs up (oh, and if I'm in my fiance's truck I sometimes prop my feet up to avoid the tools he keeps in it from his job) This isn't a race thing, though. As a matter of fact I was rear ended one time and got out of my jeep to find a distressed white girl getting out of her car and there was a black guy in the passenger seat with just about his whole Leg hanging out the window while he was casually smoking a cigarette acting as if nothing had happened. It's a matter of comfort. (not safety)

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Strong odor of black women during sex #15960

    Heather
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    Oh come on! I've smelled lots of bad people. Some fully clothed people still smell. I don't think it has to do with race. Sometimes I don't think it's a hygene thing, either. Some people have specific odors.... (think of perfume... it doesn't smell the same on everybody because of the enzymes in the individual's body). Perhaps the cause could be something different?? Perhaps lots of unprotected sex even. Regardless, don't think it has anything to do with race.

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Atheist views on Christians #22599

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    I don't consider myself any religion because I believe a bit of everything. I don't view Christians any different than any other religion. I just don't like people to try to push me to believe something that I don't. Now, if I enter a religious house, sure I'll clasp my hands together and bow my head at the table. I'll be quiet and smile politely - just don't ask me to say the prayer. I really don't like the 'door-to-door' preachers, though. For instance, an old grade school acquaintance of my brother's saw me out one day and stopped and gave me his card (church). He was a preacher down the street from where we lived. After about 6 months I saw him again and he gave me his card again. I had told him both times that I wasn't really interested. Then about 4 months later he showed up at my door and told me how Jesus must be trying to tell me something. I didn't say anything bad but I was thinking 'Dude, this isn't an out of the ordinary thing that just happened. You weren't led to me by God. You have knocked on every door on this street - that's not coincidence' But that's the kind of thing that I don't like. Still I smiled and said 'No thanks'

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Why does gay affection bother straights? #19634

    Heather
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    I think it depends on how much affection is shown in public. A simple kiss, hug, holding hands, even grabbing ass is okay with me. But I don't think I'd like to see either gay or straight people really sucking face or grabing the front area. (Especially in a restaurant)

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Infections and odor with white women #18924

    Heather
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    I'm 26 and have never had a yeast infection. As far as smell I think it could be a couple of things. Speaking as a woman I can only share my experiences with you. I've had friends who smell and some who don't. I think it depends on your body's natural enzymes. Recently, my fiance and I are trying to have children. I noticed that I smell more (not worse - just more and only during sex) since having a lot of unprotected sex. So that maybe plays a part in it also. I've heard that black women smell worse, white women smell worse, etc.... It doesn't have to do with race - just the individual.

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Do we men all have to hit the weights? #18601

    Heather
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    My personal opinion is to lean towards guys with a little of meat on them. My best friend claims I'm a 'chubby chaser'. Muscle is okay but mostly just glorified on TV (so what do women have to do run out and get breast implants??) It's all body image and to some it turns them on. But - when you are happy with yourself everyone else can sense that. That's the important thing. Nothing is worse that trying to be in a relationship with someone who is always unhappy (or complaining) about their body.

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Fearful whites #42917

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    I don't just grab my purse every time a black guy walks by. If I am alone and there aren't a lot of people around I grab my purse any time a guy walks by.. especially if they look suspicious (just hanging around watching things) It doesn't matter what color they are... but I admit that usually I don't do the same around women. As far as locking my car.... it only depends on where I am parked and if there is anything visible that might be stolen.

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    Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : believe in a few different things, Age : 26, City : Turner, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
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