Because you know they aren't being sexually turned on by it. You don't have to worry about them raping you, because it's just not going to happen. That said, I haven't had that experience with gay men (not that I know many of them) and I don't think I would appreciate being touched inappropriately by anyone, even if they were gay, but I would be able to brush it off more easily than being touched by a straight man. It's like being touched by another girl, basically.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, If you talk to an upper-class lady, she will think you are hitting on her (which you probably are). If she is friendly to you, then you will continue talking to her every time you see her, which is annoying. It will also embarrass her in front of her friends if you are lower-class. Upper-class women don't think much of lower-class men, and for good reason - they don't have money because they are lacking in education, skills or potential, all of which a woman wants in a man. An upper-class woman knows she can get that in a man, so why would she bother wasting time on someone who obviously doesn't have that potential? She wouldn't. Therefore, she doesn't want to talk to you if you are obviously lower-class.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, This fad apparently started in prisons. If you are a man on the 'receiving' end of homosexual activity in prison, or you are basically willing to give up the booty, you wear your pants down low to give access to the other men and show that you are submissive that way. So if you know any men or boys in your life who are dressing that way, mention this to them and it might persuade them to stop doing it.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, Yes, it's possible. I have done it myself and did not get emotionally attached, but remained friends with the woman I was intimate with. (It kinda grossed me out a little though.)
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, Because the Bible tells them to spread the Gospel and they get a bigger mansion in heaven if they get more people saved. Try doing what I do - When I see them coming down the street, I draw a big pentacle (a circle with a star in it) on a piece of paper with a note like 'GO AWAY' on it, and tape it to the door. It worked last time. They never bothered to knock. They just left their tracts there for me to read.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, There is also a LOT of Asian porn on the Internet with Asian women doing some very submissive and sexual acts. Of course, there is American porn like that as well, but the idea of bukkake apparently is Asian which makes many people think that you all are a pretty kinky bunch and it certainly makes American men fantasize about you a lot.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, Since mostly only black females answered your question, and they didn't actually answer it, they just defended themselves, I want to post and let you know that you are NOT imagining things. Black people are loud, and it's not just females for that matter. And I'm sure it's not EVERY single black person, but certainly as a group, they are louder than other groups you will run across. They can deny it all they want, but they know it's true. Or maybe they are just so used to it that they don't notice anymore. Black people seem to love to holler at each other in public and generally make a spectacle of themselves. I think they may be doing that to challenge people to say something to them about it, so they can then get defensive and yell some more. I came to this site today because I was doing a Google search for 'Why are black people so loud?' I think they may be trying to intimidate white people by being obnoxious and loud. I think they also want to make sure everyone knows they are there, 'LOOK AT ME! I'M LOUD AND EVERYONE CAN HEAR ME! I'M BLACK AND I'M IN THIS MALL WITH WHITE PEOPLE AND THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT' type of thing. I recently moved out of an apartment because the black lady next door was so freaking loud. She was always yelling and screaming and her regular talking voice was actually more yelling than anything. She would get in fights with people and then get on the phone with her friends and yell all the details to them. I could hear everything through the walls. You aren't imagining this. They are loud.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, Unapproachable would mean that you are giving off a vibe that makes men think you are not interested. You might want to read some books or articles on body language to see if you are using unfriendly body language. To be approachable, you'll want to smile a lot, laugh, make eye-contact with men you are interested in, don't fold your arms across your chest or use other negative body language. Generally speaking, smiling at a man and making good eye-contact is usually enough to signal that you are friendly and interested. If he is interested too, he should come over and talk to you. Keep smiling while you talk to him and laugh as much as you can, but not so much that you look like an idiot. Be aware - there are many rapists out there (many more than you probably think.) You are at the perfect age where they will be staking you out. Good luck finding a man.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I agree that women are much more particular about what sort of man they will date or marry. I'm personally not as picky as what you mentioned above, but I do want a man who is funny, decent-looking (doesn't have to be great-looking), and has a good income. He has to be white too. Most women think this way. Men, on the other hand, really don't care what characteristics a woman has as long as she is breathing and has all the normal parts, like a vagina and breasts. Women don't realize this though. They think men are picking them apart the same way we pick men apart. They ask dumb questions like, 'What do you think he thought about my outfit' or other details like that. They just don't understand how men think. As long as you are okay-looking, pleasant to be around, and don't have any glaring faults, a man will like you and will marry you. They don't put that much thought into it. They basically feel like all women are the same with minor differences and once they have a woman they are happy with that. I try to tell other women this and make them understand how simple a man's mind really is when it comes to love, but they can't comprehend it usually. Men don't have to fall completely in love with you to want to be with you. As long as you are cool to be around, they figure that's probably as good as it gets and they go ahead and marry you.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I'm not sure about covering their faces, but the Bible tells women to cover their heads (hair) because in the Old Testament angels were so turned on by the sight of women's hair that they couldn't control themselves and had sex with the women and created a race of giants. So to prevent angels from screwing the women and having giant babies, women must cover their hair so it won't be seen. I really can't believe there are still people in this world that accept the Bible as fact. Why can't they see that it is made up by men? I don't get it.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, It's not just in Florida. I'm in Tennessee and it's the same here (and everywhere that I've been.) I actually did a search in Google just now for 'Why are black people so loud?' and I found this page. lol. Clearly, I was wondering the same thing. I have no answer for you, sorry. In my opinion, people are usually loud because they were raised around a lot of other kids and people and they had to scream to be heard over all the noise. I'm guessing it's the same with black people, and it just becomes habit. Plus, they often like to play their music quite loud, so they have to be heard over top of that too. I lived in an apartment and had a black female neighbor with two kids and she screamed and yelled practically all the time, and so did the people who visited her. Her friends would pull up outside in their boat car and thump their music for like 45 minutes at a time. I would like to know why people play their music so loud like that? They must not care that it's rude and obnoxious and not everyone likes their music. My ex-husband used to do that too, so it's definitely not just a black thing, but it's certainly an annoying thing.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, The first time for me was painful and over with very quickly. It was actually painful for about the first seven times I did it. I think that was because my boyfriend's penis was so small it didn't actually break my hymen the first few times, even though I DID bleed, so maybe it did, but for whatever reason, it continued being painful for several times afterwards. First time sex generally sucks for women, in my opinion. 'Overwhelming' can mean a lot of things, like 'overwhelmingly painful' or 'overwhelmingly nervewracking', so I wouldn't automatically assume that 'overwhelming' is a positive term, although they probably did mean it that way, but they were most likely lying unless you were asking only guys. I think women also have a tendency to lie and say it was great because they don't want to admit to anyone (or themselves) that the moment they waited for and anticipated for so long actually sucked. There is usually no orgasm for girls when they are that young and inexperienced, so the only pleasure they get is the pleasure of knowing they are pleasing their man (if that is a good feeling for them.)
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, These companies have outsourced their customer service departments to foreign countries, mostly India, in order to save money. It's a huge controversy because they are taking jobs away from Americans and contributing to the unemployment rate here. If you want to show your opposition to this practice, try not to use the services of the companies that do this. You can find a huge list of these companies at CNN.com on Lou Dobbs' 'Outsourcing America' page.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I personally am appalled when I see a couple who has more than 4 children. I can't imagine what they were thinking (Were they thinking at all?). This world is so heavily OVER-populated that for people to keep popping out more and more kids just seems stupid and selfish. Our world is filled with violence, crime, drugs, and more, yet you wish to keep bringing MORE people into this mess. If you have 3 girls, then at least one of them will be sexually assualted by the age of 18. Catholics really need to get over their aversion to birth control. It infuriates me that ANY religion would tell their members to NOT use birth control when our world is in a crisis due to overpopulation.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I am not a Christian and I do not believe what the Bible says. But I do KNOW what the Bible says and I know that many Christians are ignorant or in denial about the fact that the Bible does indeed place women below men. Many Christians don't believe this applies to them, even though in the same breath they will tell you that the Bible is the 'infallible Word of God'. I cannot quote the complete scriptures here due to the limit on the number of words we can post, but here are the verses. You can look them up online if you wish. From the New Testament: I Timothy (2:11-13) Ephesians (5:22-24) Colossians (3:18) I Corinthians (14: 34-35)
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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