Celi W

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  • in reply to: Definition of pedophilia #27170

    Celi W
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    Time will tell. As you mature, your likes should mature too. If you actually 'date' these younger girls for the reason they have smaller breasts, then you may well have a problem. A healthy mind dates a person because of who they are, not because of their breast size. Children are defined as undeveloped adults. There are plenty of girls your own age with small breasts. Are you attracted to small breasted girls your own age? If not, then you are on the right track by seeking help before you find yourself in deep trouble.

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    Name : Celi W, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 62, City : Galax, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : Professional, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Hyphenated-Americans have GOT to go! #38545

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    You are not alone with this question. I just don't understand this hyphenated mania that is too common now. Minorities complain about not being treated equally and then they make it so obvious they want to be seen as different. Not just with the WhoCares-Americans, but pick up a newspaper and read the name of a person and you automatically know their race. If white people were to start using their race as White-American there would be an uproar for sure. And a few of us are mixed: White-Asian-African-American!!! We better call Bill Cosby on this one.

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    Name : Celi W, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 62, City : Galax, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : Professional, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Self-mutilator needs help #17796

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    Self injurious behaviors are a means to satisfy frustration, guilt and/or hurt. Most people don't like to see someone who self injures simply because they don't know how to help that person with their problems. Other people are afraid, since they don't understand and think this person might hurt them too. In most cases, self injurious behavior that occurs routinely is actually a behavior that has become a habit not unlike an addiction. The behavior begins as a way to do something about a situation and do it quietly without others noticing, then it continues on, gets a little attention from others and then escalates to a habitual way to get attention even when denying that this is why the self injury occurred. Just like with any other habit, cigarette smoking for one, it began for one reason then became an addiction that is not easy to give up and you can't remember why you started smoking in the first place. Many, many people self injure so this is not a unique behavior. Just try to be honest with yourself as to why you do this now, and why you did it the first time, then be inventive and come up with something else to do instead of ruining your beautiful body. Only you understands why you choose to do this to yourself, and only you can help yourself. You can get a mental health professional to listen to you and your excuses for injuring yourself but that person cannot go home with you and watch you every second of the day.

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    Name : Celi W, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 62, City : Galax, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : Professional, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Do deaf people scream when frustrated? #25233

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    I work with a young lady who is not actually deaf but has a brain processing disorder which means that words she hears are not processed by her brain until several hours later and then she will answer a question but when she is scared or frustrated she will scream out loudly at the moment of the scare or frustration. Screaming is a reaction, not a thought out or chosen behavior.

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    Name : Celi W, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 62, City : Galax, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : Professional, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Minimum Wage = Low Intelligence? #28364

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    Since our IQs are not tattooed on our foreheads, no one knows if a person is intelligent or not no matter where a person is working. People tend to react to, or treat, another person in a way they perceive that person would understand. Body language, dress and grooming play big parts in how others will judge a person. A well suited, groomed and mannered person working in any job will automatically command respect just from his appearance, and in contrast, a sloppily dressed, wild haired, wildly made up person will be treated differently because it is a natural assumption that this person is not really intelligent or else he would look better in public.

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    Name : Celi W, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 62, City : Galax, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : Professional, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Clean up your mess, teens #36854

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    It is not that the teenagers feel they have a right - it is that they do not accept any responsibility for their actions. Unfortunately too many children in the U.S.A. are catered to and picked up after to the point that they don't even realize they have responsibilities in their lives. Then they grow up, keep making their messes and eventually call their parents to make their bonds when law enforcement has to stop them. And their parents run right down to the jail, bail them out, and the behaviors repeat over and over in an endless cycle. They can't teach responsibility because they never learned responsibility, so these teenagers become parents just like their own. Apples don't fall far from the tree.

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    Name : Celi W, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 62, City : Galax, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : Professional, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
    in reply to: Large families: none of your business! #42634

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    I know the couple does have the 'right' to have as many children as they want but for the larger families I have known in my life time, numerous children just increases the odds for numerous problems. We certainly have enough people in the U.S.A. now and too many of these people are homeless or living in poverty. I feel intelligent, responsible adults should look beyond their own bedrooms to the future of not only their children but of the mass produced children who have so many needs not being met. A couple might be providing just fine for a large family now but life can through some curve balls.

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    Name : Celi W, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 62, City : Galax, State : VA Country : United States, Occupation : Professional, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
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