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  • in reply to: I’m attracted to gay men #15538

    Brian
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    As a gay male, I can tell you that I have plenty of female friends. They feel attracted to me as really close friends, almost like siblings. It’s because if they ever catch me looking at their chest, they know it’s because I’m trying to read their t-shirt rather than get my jollies off. Compared to some of the straight guys I hang out with, I’m more empathetic to how females are feeling and I’m honestly supportive rather than trying to be the one they go out with after the hard break-up or whatever. On a side note, you think manufacturers would move the text away from a females chest area so women don’t feel like slapping the heck out of someone every time a guy is attempting to read what whitty text their shirt holds. Truthfully, not everyone is staring at your chest.

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    Name : Brian, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Disability : ADHD (According to the marines, its a disability), Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 18, City : Minnetrista, State : MN, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Ice Cream Scooper (part time), Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Origin of various racial slurs #17879

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    By no means to I use these words in my vocabluary, and I know I have far less ground to say them on than most people. I know this may or may not be a racial slur, but the fact people believe African Americans love fried chicken is very easily explained. Due to extreme poverty (not all African Americans live in poverty, but sadly alot do), there is one food anyone can afford that has the most calories for the least amount of cash. Lard. You deep-fry something, and you’re consuming hundreds of calories instantly. Eating lots of calories keeps you from being so skinny you can no longer function. Chicken is just the most commonly deep-fried food. The watermelon thing though… I haven’t a clue on that one. Nigger. Easily done; trace it back to its root word of negro which means black. I have an utter hate for this word, even when used light-heartedly by rappers or commedians, and especially by the white kids at my school. Other forms of the word: Nizzle, Nigga, Nig, Whigger (used for whites who are attempting to mimic the socially enforced African American culture we see on TV. I.E. Baggy clothes, carrying small arms, thuggin’, pimpin’, etc.). Now for one so the African-Americans here don’t come out swinging at me like I’m only pointing at easy ones… Faggot. To fag or to be a fag was a common term in British schools from the late 1700s and referred to a lower classman who performed chores for upperclassmen. Around the time the Titanic sank, it started being used for gays as it is today (in America, anyway). It referred to a homosexual ball where the men were dressed in drag and were called fagots, or sissies. 1926, Ernest Hemingway, The Sun Also Rises, ‘You’re a hell of a good guy, and I’m fonder of you than anybody on earth. I couldn’t tell you that in New York. It’d mean I was a faggot.’ (To avoid prosecution by samclem, this information was paraphrased from http://www.straightdope.com/mailbag/mfaggot.html)

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    Name : Brian, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Disability : ADHD (According to the marines, its a disability), Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 18, City : Minnetrista, State : MN, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Ice Cream Scooper (part time), Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Gays and their parents #18229

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    Its not having problems with the other gender in the family unit, it’s having closer relationships to someone else of the same gender. For example, my late uncle would never say no to spending time with me or be too busy to play games with me unlike my parents who would constantly promise me simple activities (like fishing for an hour or two on a saturday). My late uncle would always follow through with what they promised though; so my mind has wired the feeling of care and the feelings of importance he gave me with what to look for in a significant other. It just so happens my late uncles name was Billy, and my boyfriend has the same name.

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    Name : Brian, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Disability : ADHD (According to the marines, its a disability), Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 18, City : Minnetrista, State : MN, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Ice Cream Scooper (part time), Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Can a gay turn straight? And back? #30886

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    has the same last name as the female who posted this? It could just be me… or the guy’s trying to stick up for himself or convince himself he can change.

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    Name : Brian, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Disability : ADHD (According to the marines, its a disability), Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 18, City : Minnetrista, State : MN, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Ice Cream Scooper (part time), Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Definition of pedophilia #35191

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    Pedophiles are normally middle aged, but always over 18. A 2 or 3 year gap between you and your significant other is normally not a huge thing to worry about. Consider that most couples with children have a 4 or 5 year gap at times; Hollywood is just wrong though… like 80 year old guys marrying 21 year old females. No, it’s not wrong at all… just once you turn 18, start looking for people around your age with a small chest size unless you’re already in a relationship with, say, a 16 year old (most states have an age of consent, normally 16)

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    Name : Brian, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Disability : ADHD (According to the marines, its a disability), Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 18, City : Minnetrista, State : MN, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Ice Cream Scooper (part time), Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Origin of various racial slurs #36954

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    Cracker… white trailer trash. I’m going to assume this is the same as the fried chicken thing except is stopped being a term for cheap food and became one for cheap people (again, not trying to be offensive… my boyfriend has a close friend who lives in a trailer park, and she’s cool as hell). According to a history teacher, it was a term used by northern American whites to describe the poor Southerners of their own race. Since then, its meaning has become more general and is often used by blacks to describe whites, ESPECIALLY racist whites; the word still retains the flavor of Southern poverty. The one you asked for Andrew, Kike. Keikl means circle in Yiddish. On Ellis Island, people got seperated by religion at times. Those who were Jewish got a Star of David, and Christians got a Cross. But due to the fact there were so many people, the cross became an X, and the Star of David was an O. Sloppy, but it got the job done for the inspecters; soon the Jew’s called each other keikls as a joke of how sloppy the star’s were. This joking is now used as a horrible term for Jewish people that, when you know the roots of it, isn’t really that offensive (like most of the words). It’s sad we even have these words, isn’t it? Some kids at my school got a Nazi flag from their grandpa who took it in WWII… they taped it to their passenger side rear window and drove past a synagogue just after it let out. I can’t do any more… I feel so dirty typing these out.

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    Name : Brian, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Disability : ADHD (According to the marines, its a disability), Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 18, City : Minnetrista, State : MN, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Ice Cream Scooper (part time), Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
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