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Congratulations Emily! You have just made the amazing discovery that older adults are just as human as everyone else. Some of us are just as insecure now as we were when WE were teens. Personally, I see no more difference in your liking the music of an older generation than there is in my likeing Big Band Era music. If each generation were expected to like only the music of their own age, where would classical music be? Some of those guys wrote centuries ago and their music is still loved. By the way, the best test of a ‘classic’ is how many generations beyond it still find it appealing. P.S. I really like ‘Los Lonely Boys’. Am I not acting my age?
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Name : JD-Ricks21121, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : crippled with arthritis, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Mormon, Age : 50, City : Mesa, State : AZ, Country : United States, Occupation : mechanic, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Personally I think that if you can appreciate it than more power to you. I think that any good music, rock, classical etc. has a certain timeless quality to it. I have some adult friends who have taken their kids to ‘classic rock’ concerts and they have both all have had good times. Turning your question around on you how do you feel about adults that like contemporary teenage music? As a teacher I find that having something to talk about outside of our subject of study can be a great bridge between myself and my students.
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Name : David-C, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 33, City : Tokyo, State : NA, Country : Japan, Occupation : Teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,HELLO EMILY! music has always been a big thing in our house. my kids ‘tolerate’ me listening to theirs and i encourage them to listen to my stuff. theres all kinds of stuff floating around our house. our 26 year old listens to softer stuff, my 22 year old love the beatles and zepplin, even tho she is a manson & nin devoutee, my 18 year old is into hiphop and my 17 year old son is into anything hard with a bit of gangster thrown in. the only time i get an attitude with them, is when they try to outKNOW me on my stuff. we all sing like crazy when we’re in the car. i LOVE it that they know the words to everything, be it old, country or whatever happens to be on… 🙂
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Name : kate-p, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 48, City : waterloo, State : IA, Country : United States, Social class : Middle class,I also am a young adult who likes classic rock. In my family, classic rock is a way of life. I grew up with it. So in essence, I understand your compassion for this style of music. However, I was thinking of your question and how you said that older people of that generation were upset. An example came to my head: Picture a grown adult, let’s say 45 years old. You see them listening to rap or R&B music. It just doesn’t fit the picture. Maybe the people from this time feel the same thing about you listening to their generation’s music. Also, these people had suffered a lot in this time frame. Possibly people from this era tell themselves, ‘How could that younger girl possibly know what that song REALLY means?’ Maybe the person you are referring to who disagreed with your passion for old rock, was in the service during Vietnam? The type of music you choose should be your decision, and the opinion of someone else should not influence your likes or dislikes.
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Name : Kelly-McBride, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 18, City : Defiance, State : OH, Country : United States, Occupation : College Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper class,I think it is cool when teenagers listen to classic rock, the music of my youth. I find it exciting and am glad they are helping my favorite music live on. ROCK ON!
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Name : davidc, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 51, City : irving, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : marketing, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,‘My friends and I listened to bands like Led Zeppelin, Aerosmith, Queen…and I grew up in the late ’80s when those bands were no longer popular.’ – ??? Since when exactly did bands like Led Zeppelin stop being popular?
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Name : Josh29127, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : Ashford, State : CT, Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,I have friends that have teens and they rock out to it. ‘We will rock you! If it’s too loud, your too old!
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Name : David Pickrum, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : British, Polish, Spanish, Muscolero Apache, Religion : Christian, Age : 48, City : Dallas, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,This is because most new music is nowhere near as good as old music.
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Name : David-Russell, City : Gaithersburg, State : MD, Country : United States,Many of my peers do not understand why I enjoy the music, movies, etc. that my parents enjoy. Those my age find me strange, and a few adults are under the impression I am attempting to give the impression of maturity. The majority of adults, however, have no qualms about my tastes, and many commend it. I feel that having a common link with other generations provides an excellent way to maintain communication.
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Name : J21364, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 14, City : Jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States,It’s pretty presumptuous of anybody to try to tell someone else what sort of music he or she ought to like. I grew up during the classic rock age, and I listened to big band music, jazz and classical. I learned to appreciate the likes of Buddy Holly much later (though I still prefer Duke Ellington). Life is too short to spend any time resenting someone else for liking ‘my’ music.
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Name : Richard G., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Humanist, Age : 60, City : The Woodlands, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : accountant, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Good music is good music, no matter when or where it comes from. I just recently discovered I like Swing. If you review what was playing on the radio in years past, you’ll find most of it was junk. Same with today. Most pop stuff is trash and won’t last. But the good stuff will live on. So enjoy the good stuff where you find it, no matter how old or new it is. Some old fart telling you not to listen to “their” music is like a Slovak telling you not to like Holupki or an Englishman telling you not to like tea. P.S. You might even want to check out the orginal ‘long hair’ music….like Beethoven! 🙂
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Name : Tony, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Buddhist, Age : 51, City : Binghamton, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : accountant, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Music spans all ages and borders. If we limited our musical tastes to a few styles, life would be dreary indeed.
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Name : TomO, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 74, City : Oklahoma City, State : OK, Country : United States, Occupation : Retired, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I think it’s great that you like classic rock. I can’t understand why anyone would be upset about having something in common. I have a 70-year-old friend who likes ‘Dirty Laundry’ and I think that’s pretty cool.
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Name : Tom W., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 49, City : South Bend, State : IN, Country : United States, Social class : Lower middle class,I was raised on the classic rock of the ’60s. I have a 24-year-old son who has all the box sets of the ’60s including The Beatles, The Who, Jimi Hendrix, Led Zeppelin, The Doors, Stones, etc. I couldn’t be happier. When we’re together we listen to the same music and have a lot to talk about. It’s a great bridge over the generation gap. Keep on rockin’.
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Name : Chris-M, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 51, City : Plantation, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : Insurance, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I’m a fan of The Police, The Clash, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Dire Straits, Bad Company, Bob Dylan, etc. My dad is thrilled, and mostly everyone else reacts with joy or at least semi-amusement. Most people who’ve reacted negatively are my age and wonder why I listen to ‘old crap.’
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Name : Meghan M, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : bi-curious, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 17, City : Vienna, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Less than High School Diploma, Social class : Upper middle class,
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