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  • in reply to: Why does my wife want to strap one on? #33484

    Ken
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    It's a video, you can get it from goodvibes.com. It doesn't have to be a 'problem' :)

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    Name : Ken, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Secular Humanist, Age : 36, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Getting a bead on Anal Beads #23006

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    They're small (although I suppose if you're the one receiving them in your anus, 'small' is relative ... but typically 1/4" - 3/4" diameter or so) beads made of some non-porous material, usually plastic, that are inserted into the anus for pleasure, often before or during sex. Some are threaded together, others are on a more-or-less rigid 'shaft'. In men, they can stimulate the prostate gland, but they can feel good for both sexes.

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    Name : Ken, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Secular Humanist, Age : 36, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Masturbation, sex, and the rest of the story… #15142

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    'Most women don't really like sex and often only do it for their man's sake' If by 'most women' you mean *you* don't really like sex, I'm sorry to hear that. Get some therapy. Enjoying sex is the greatest thing on earth. You - literally - don't know what you're missing. I really hope you get the chance to find out! 'Most girls regret having sex - I know I did' Do you mean you regret starting too young? Or is this an ongoing thing? If the former, I can understand that, but surely you can get over it. If it's the latter - see above.

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    Name : Ken, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Secular Humanist, Age : 36, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: What’s a chode? #15386

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    I'd always understood 'choad' to be just another slang term for the penis - I'd never heard the 'wider than it is long' distinction (which must be pretty unusual, don't you thinK?!?). The slang term I've heard for the perineum (not to be confused with the peritoneum), at least for a woman, is the 'taint' (t'ain't) as in 'it ain't the vagina, and it ain't the anus' ...

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    Name : Ken, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Secular Humanist, Age : 36, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Looking for non-mysogynistic porn #15829

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    Now that hardcore porn has been legalised in the UK, you should be able to find a greater range of titles available through legitimate distributors. Try some of the work of director Andrew Blake, or some of the female directors like Nina Hartley. Most pornos are shot on video, in one day, with a budget of $30K. Blake shoots (no pun intended) on 35mm film, with original scores (music), and budgets in the million dollar range. They have stories you can actually follow (if you care to!) and the action is H-O-T. I'll add my voice to those others who have recommended goodvibes.com. Even if you can't play their NTSC tapes & region 1 DVDs in the UK, their recommendations and reviews are great.

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    Name : Ken, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Secular Humanist, Age : 36, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Help in awakening my boyfriend sexually #22268

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    I think the core issue here is that he cheated on you, and it's still an issue between the two of you. Your pain and hurt and anger and his guilt and shame are probably still there in some regard. If you don't work through this issue, it won't go away on its own. If you are both committed to the relationship, I'd suggest seeing a relationship counsellor who can give you the 'tools' to help you work through this, as well as generally improving the way your relationship works. I bet you dollars to donuts that if you can learn to work through the 'chearing' issue, you can work through the 'sexual awakening' issue! Be aware that in most places, almost anyone can call themselved a 'counsellor', so ideally find a a Ph.D. psychologist or an LCSW (licensed clinical social workers), but most importantly, find someone you both like and trust. If you've been to counselling and it didn't help, find another counsellor. And good luck!

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    Name : Ken, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Secular Humanist, Age : 36, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Reply To: Asian vaginas #32572

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    'Tell me Mrs. Fu Manchu, Are the rumors really true? Is it North to South like all the rest, Or mysterious East to decadent West?' My vote goes to the theory of general correlation of vagina size to body size, and Asian women tending to be smaller-framed than most Western women.

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    Name : Ken, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Secular Humanist, Age : 36, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Reply To: Dirty laundry? #40285

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    I've heard this claim before (that the lower colon is usually 'quite clean'), and I'm willing to accept it's true, but my question is: how does it get clean? I mean, when fecal matter passes through the lower colon, some of it clearly rubs off and stays behind. So are you saying these longitudinal 'skid marks' don't really constitute being dirty, or that the lower colon is somehow self-cleaning?

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    Name : Ken, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Secular Humanist, Age : 36, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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