Looking for non-mysogynistic porn

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    Gloria21517
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    I want to enjoy watching porn with my boyfriend but can't find any that's just about really hot sex. All the stuff I've seen either really degrades women or wraps it up in fainthearted euphemisms ('women's porn'). And none of it seems to be from the woman's point of view, which I'd find really erotic. I get so mad (and completely turned off) when I see women being treated like scum or porn being used to mask mysogyny - does anyone know of any porn that's just about the thrill of completely uncensored sex? Is there any out there? Many of my female friends feel the same.

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    #32038

    Victoria
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    While I can't recommend specific titles to you (we're a little too far apart to have many common titles), I can tell you I have found non-mysoginistic porn. It's out there, trust me; sometimes it's a little hard to find, but I've watched several that were quite enjoyable. And if you're ever feeling really sick of those mysoginistic movies, rent a good dominatrix flick - that'll bring your spirits up!

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    #40324

    Starpit
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    Unfortunately, there isn't any porn like that. But there also is Anime (detailed animation) porn you can find online call 'Hentai'. I find it interesting, and you can see cartoon girls have fun, etc. Some are much more lifelike than the porn you normally see on videos, etc. A lot of my friends (girls) enjoys watching them more than porn.

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    #17069

    Brad23154
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    I share your pain. Whenever my wife and I want to rent something, it's always a trial. But there are movies out there. Candida Royale is a producer who makes 'women-friendly' porn that's pretty hot, for example. For an actual list of non-mysogynistic movies with capsule reviews, go to www.goodvibes.com. It's the web site for Good Vibrations, a sex store in San Francisco run by women. They're great.

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    #43531

    KT26141
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    Candida Royale's stuff is pretty good - my wife and I like her movies for the most part. A good way to find recommended titles would be at Good Vibrations web site (www.goodvibes.com, I think). It's an adult store based in San Francisco that's run by women. They've got recommendations and summaries of the content on their site.

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    #36138

    Brian22995
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    You should try watching a TV show called 'Bliss'. Here in the United States it's on the Oxygen network. Even though it's pretty tame, it's seems to be more aimed at the woman's point of view.

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    #37430

    Chris H.
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    I know what you mean. How about something where the boobs are real and there are no tattoos and you don't have to be a gymnast to simulate the action? Maybe you should try some old porn flicks from the seventies. There are some movies that totally dispense with plot and are just hour-long clips of sex scenes. There's usually enough variety to find something of interest

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    #22656

    Christine
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    You're usually better off if you look for 'erotica.' It tends to have less of the trappings of what many (not me, though) consider offensive porn. A good place to start is nerve.com - they have pretty decent erotica/photography, etc. online. As far as movies, books and magazines are concerned, try a company called 'A Woman's Touch' Despite the name, they have both straight and lesbian porn that is most definitely non-mysogynistic. It sounds like it may be a bit softer in nature, but there's more hard core stuff there, too. Request a catalog - their descriptions of what you get are really great.

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    #41710

    Chaz
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    I saw a video once directed by a woman named Buffy Malibu. It was all girl/girl scenes, but remarkably natural and I even got the idea the actresses were enjoying themselves. I don't know if she also does girl/boy videos. There's also a company called MWI Productions that advertises 'sex-positive adult videos' on their website. It sounds like what you want, but I haven't actually seen any of their videos.

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    #46230

    Michael20685
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    _The_Elven_Bride_ is a hentai -- drawn porn done in the Japanimation style. I find it to be an uplifting work, but there are scenes I'm sure are questionable. For instance, the Harpiya race need to mate with humans to produce Harpiyas, and the main character must collect the natural lube of the Harpiya queen without cheating on his wife: their secretions are the best lube in the world, and the guy's wife, an elf, has a vagina too small for him to penetrate without her experiencing pain. So there's a sex scene between the guy and the Harpiya queen, but I always ask myself if it's technically rape; and if so, who's raping whom? And if you're a mythology geek like me, you'll enjoy the references to Yggdrasil, hydras, etc.

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    #15829

    Ken
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    Now that hardcore porn has been legalised in the UK, you should be able to find a greater range of titles available through legitimate distributors. Try some of the work of director Andrew Blake, or some of the female directors like Nina Hartley. Most pornos are shot on video, in one day, with a budget of $30K. Blake shoots (no pun intended) on 35mm film, with original scores (music), and budgets in the million dollar range. They have stories you can actually follow (if you care to!) and the action is H-O-T. I'll add my voice to those others who have recommended goodvibes.com. Even if you can't play their NTSC tapes & region 1 DVDs in the UK, their recommendations and reviews are great.

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    #21646

    NadyaB
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    Starpit, you haven't actually watched Hentai. I've seen Hentai movies that are an hour long and feature 3 rape scenes. The most famous Hentai movies feature rape and what appears to be pre-pubescent girls having sex. Don't even get me started on Rorikon. I've been on Hentai forums and it's nothing but misogyny from the clips and from the people frequenting the forums. Hentai reflects the Japanese culture, which is quite frankly very sexist (where else besides Saudi Arabia and Japan can you find women who go to college and do nothing with their degrees but become housewives?).

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