We pick what we consider moral and then live by it. Right? If the two people are comfortable morally about this agreement, how can it be amoral? Nothing we do is moral to 100% of the world's population.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, Ok, why did you marry a woman who won't give a BJ? And why would you want to do something that she obviouly hates? If the marrage is otherwise perfect shut up already. What if she wanted to do something to you that you found disgusting and kept bothering you about it? I have never dated a girl who didn't get off on giving or recieving oral. Dated one who hated finishing, which made it no fun to finish.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, The guy has the gas pedal, the girl is in charge of the brakes. You are 50 and asking this? If some guy gives you any problem, what a great way to screen out the jerks.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, I've only dated one spitter. Dated her a long time, and I am sorry to rate her as the worst oral. I'm just not into doing something that is turning the other person off and she so obviously dosn't want to have anything to do with the end product that it ruins the fun of it. The best was this virgin who did a great job,had zero problem with the end product and was psyched that she had obviously done a great job. Should have married that one.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, I believe some people are naturally monogomous, like me, not a choice I made. Some are naturally polyamorous, I don't think that is really a moral choice either. It's important to know who you are and be honest about it. It's pretty awful to pass yourself off as monogomous to get the monogomous person you want only to cheat on them and distroy them emotionally because 'monogomy is stupid', or 'just because I F'ed that person dosn't mean I love you less'. But it's also important for a monogomous person to be realistic about getting involved with people who are honest about not being naturally monogomous or who admit to a history of cheating, they will eventually cheat on you and wonder why you are making such a big deal about it.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, Patrice O'neil recently said an ugly 19 year old is prettier than a bueatiful 30 year old. It's a funny thing to say and maybe wrong but there is alot of truth in it. Older women ALWAYS become harder and less feminine, even the ones that have stayed hot for their age. None of the girls I have known for 20 years have gotten sexier in personality. Sure I'll bet some of them are at thier sexual peak now, but that isn't the same thing. Ok all that said. There are always people coming away from a highschool reunion saying the hot girls who got married young are now hagared and fat and some fat frumpy girls got a career and a life for themselves and got themselves into shape and are now hot.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, Because I work construction and have to haul stuff, need boots for work, have a horse and need to pull the trailer and need boots to ride, ride motorcycles and wear boots....a guy just gets used to mostly wearing boots. But also there is an expression....That guy is all hat and no horse. Some guys just wear the clothes and drive the trucks cause they want to adopt an image.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, Why do we want to eat an orange when an apple is perfectly good? I want to sleep with any girl I find attractive. As far as a relationship or marrage, if she is 'the one' I don't care about color. That said, I have dated and lived with women from other backgrounds and how we were both raised to deal with daily communication, values and lifestyle really became a big problem, also disapproving family on both sides hurts long term relationships. One girl thought yelling and arguing ment you care, my parents never fought and I hated having argument in the air all the time.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, As a very muscular guy with dry spell issues of my own. I think the answer is that when you are having no luck with women you see hot women with guys who seem your opposite. Women are just as shallow as men and are attracted to status and popularity like men are attracted by raw good looks. But they aren't lying when they claim personality is important. A rich intellegent handsome shy guy is zero competition to a less than average dumb poor guy with confidance and a great personality. The two easiest ways to increase your odds are to work on your personality, (project confidance,be quick to break the ice, be funny and flitratious)and be where there are alot of single attractive women. Getting in great shape is only good for your own confidance.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, Easy. When a girl dates a badboy it is obviously all on him. She is always the blameless victom who gets endless sympathy and always has some entertaining drama stewing so she can be the center of attention with her friends. If he dumps her or finds someone 'better', that's just the bum being the jerk he is, nothing on her. Being with a nice guy who has his act togeather has deep risks. If there are problems there is a good chance he isn't causing them. There is no drama to passively be entertained by, she has to make an effort to be her best self and bring something to the table. If the girl is dumped by this guy that all her friends know is a real prince, then it is mostly on her not being good enough. If he finds someone better, she probably really is better and not just the bad boy's next toy. The bad guy is less risky to insecure women.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, If you were into the easy money of taking your clothes off for a room full of pervs, wouldn't you also be into the easy high of doing drugs? Also 'you become what you do'. I dated a girl who later became a stripper. She was a hippie chick who thought it was a goof and was amazed at the bad attatudes and lifestyles of the longtime strippers, a couple years later she had thier attatude and their lifestyle.
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Name : GuyGuyerson, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 45, City : boise, State : ID Country : United States, Occupation : self employed construction, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, 
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