[Chickenator X]

I suspect that you're being gay still makes him a little uncomfortable, and this is just his way of coping with it, by distancing himself from you a little. He's about your age I'm guessing? He'll grow out of it, right now he's just young. Or possibly he's a little nervous that on some level you're attracted to him... you may have to explain that he's 'not your type' and you could never like him in That Way. As others have stated, it essentially comes down to this: are you comfortable with it? Is it coming out of a scared or abusive place when he says those things, or is he just funnin'? Mayebe you two should have a talk, and ask him 'Seriously, are you okay with this?' Whatever he's scared of, that you're keeping other big secrets from him, or that you have the hots for him or whatever, is probably a fear you can put to rest. And as a gay, you should probably get used to standing up for yourself, even with people you're close to... this society is a lot more gay+ than it used to be, but there's still a lot of bigots out there, some a lot closer to you than you think. It never hurts to be careful.

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[Chickenator X]

I'm confused... for a straight man, doesn't perentrating a woman, mouth, vagina or anus, count as losing one's virginity? So didn't this kid lose his virginity by entering another boy's mouth? Or do we go by the Clinton definition, oral sex doesn't count as penetration? :-)

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[Chickenator X]

I don't find it offensive at all. In fact, every time I've seen two men kiss, it's always seemed genuine to me. Well over half the time I see women kiss, I find it somewhat exploitive... like it's just being done to give me wood. I personally hate being led around by my dick by Hollywood, and as is more often the case these days, Madison Avenue.

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[Chickenator X]

I know plenty of girls who like to watch two men together. Heck, my first girlfriend admitted to me that she once watched two guys together. Admittedly, she herself was Bi.

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[Chickenator X]

I don't know about that... seems to me that society is giving a nod of approval, or at least turning a blind eye to girl-girl action outside the auspices of porn. Hell, they're using it to sell Jolt cola and Mini Coopers now. As for 'performance', where are you getting this from? I agree that there's a tittilation factor, in fact it's moving product as we speak, but I just can't accept that all men like to watch because they feel they deserve a show. Some men want to be present because they have threesome fantasies, some men are voyeurs and prefer to not be seen watching the women, some men watch for the educational value, some men find it beautiful, and some men don't like to watch two women at all. It varies from man to man, and I'm not sure this kind of generalization is helpful.

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[Chickenator X]

I have to disagree here. I much prefer it when the girl-girl stuff has no men around. Myself, when witnessing actual making out between women, I have one of two reactions. If it's obviously being done for my benefit, or for an audience, I find it mildly offensive. When it's happening but of genuine attraction, irrespective of my presence, I find it beautiful or touching. And no, I don't wish to intervene and 'get a part of the action', nor do I wish to witness any more intense activity between the participants unless I myself am in love with both of them. And for the record, I'm not sure the girl-girl scenes in the porn I've seen qualify as Lesbian porn per-se.

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[Chickenator X]

i know many men who like watching girl-girl porn with no guy in it because two beautiful women getting all sexed up is two times the eye candy, and having to starte at 'hairy man-ass' ruins it. I think I speak for the majority of men when I say that watching two women together, I *don't* 'mentally insert myself between them'... I'm getting off on what they do to each other, with no man present. I think it's at least partly aesthetics, and partly a voyeur thing.

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[Chickenator X]

Could be one of several things going on here. --- CASE 1: Consider the Gay man stereotypes... tend to be clean, well groomed, gainfully employed, posessing of aesthetic sense, etc. All of these are traits that might serve to attract women, and may exist statistically more amongst a random cross section of gay men than straight men.

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