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Psychiatrists often base their diagnoses on a book called the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual. The latest version of this book, DSM IV, requires that for a person to be diagnosed with pedophilia, he or she must be at least 16 and the subject must be prepubertal and at least five years younger. I.e., if you’re simply looking for a technical definition, you are not a pedophile. In a larger sense, I think you’re asking, ‘I’m attracted to a quality (smaller breasts) that seems prepubertal. Does that mean that I am attracted to sexual immaturity?’ The idea of arousal by sexual immaturity is the main point of the diagnosis of pedophilia.
My more subjective answer to the question I think you’re asking is ‘No.’ In the 21st century, most girls have entered puberty by the age you have mentioned, and are likely to have more sexual characteristics than merely breasts. Moreover, fixations on sexual characteristics vary wildly; attraction to small breasts is not abnormal or pathological in and of itself.
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Name : Tyson, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 23, City : Toledo, State : OH, Country : United States, Occupation : medical student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,If you’re attracted to girls with small breasts, I would call this a preference, because you can find girls within your peer group who have the attributes you are interested in. If you’re attracted to 13- to 14-year-old girls because of their age, that is something that will begin to give you serious legal problems in about two years or less. I would suggest staying within your own age area for the ladies that turn your head.
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Name : Dave, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 42, City : Mukilteo, State : WA, Country : United States, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class,Try to meet a girl 16 or older with small breasts or go to a tiny tits fetish site with adult women and see if you respond the same. If not, you may think about seeing a sex therapist. Pedophilia is a mental disorder so it can be identified and controlled. Don’t worry, it may be nothing.
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Name : Dina M., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : unsure, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : Poet, Education level : Less than High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,With you being 16, there’s nothing wrong with liking 13 and 14 year-olds – as long as you don’t keep dating that age range past 18 or so. If it’s smaller breasts you’re into, there are plenty of females of all ages with small breasts. Chances are as you get older, your tastes in women will change. Most guys’ do.
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Name : Taz27441, Gender : M, Age : 33, City : Detroit, State : MI, Country : United States,I don’t think it’s problematic that you like girls a couple of years younger than you. At 16, you yourself are not totally out of the pubescent stage. If you were 35, or 25, and you told me you liked 13-year-olds because they were small-breasted, I’d be a little more concerned.
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Name : Veronica, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 19, City : Boston, MA/Fort Myers, FL, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,No 13 or 14 year old child should EVER be touched, fondled or anything else sexual. And no one should make comments in regard to their breasts. They are still children, no matter how grown up they think they are. Your 16-year-old mind is driven by the desire to get off … and these young ladies have sex with you because they feel pressured to. They are not old enough or rational enough to make the decision to sleep with someone else. They do not understand the sanctity of it or the consequences. When you turn 17, it will become statutory rape. If you don’t know what that is, knock one of them up and I’m sure their dad would be happy to introduce you to the concept.
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Name : Erica, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 25, City : Alexandria, State : LA, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Don’t worry your completely normal. Most young men end up dating girls that may be a year or two younger. And at this age you don’t even know exactly what it is that you like yet. You may not even like younger girls in a couple of years. At least you are aware of yourself so you have the oprotunity to monitor this behavior and garuntee that it dosen’t grow into a disorder.
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Name : calinda, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : administration, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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