Have you thought of why you find giving oral sex aversive? I know some people (men and women) look at giving oral sex to their partner (again male or female) as unclean due to the other functions down there. When my son (he is 22) came to me complaining that his girlfriend wanted him to give her oral if she …
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I never think about Finland, and I have even been there once. Little internal news about Finland ever hits the U.S. media. The only time Finland gets any press is during the Winter Olympics when they win a few medals in oddball sports like Biathalon and speed skating. I think the common impression of Finland in the United States is …
Read More »THE QUESTION: SO10: Why do some straight people assume that the children of a gay couple will become gay? I, like most gay men, came from straight parents, yet I’m gay. POSTED MARCH 19, 1998 Mike O., Ann Arbor, MI ANSWER 1: In my opinon, many people who are naive about the origins of human sexuality believe children are inherently …
Read More »THE QUESTION: SO20: What does the symbol of the rainbow stand for in the gay community? POSTED MARCH 28, 1998 L.C., <loose450@aol.com> Waterford, MI ANSWER 1: The rainbow signifies the attitude of the gay community: We accept all colors, races, ethnicities, religions, etc. POSTED APRIL 3, 1998 Bee, New York City FURTHER NOTICE: Bee’s response, though touching, is awfully optimistic. …
Read More »THE QUESTION: SO30: Why does it seem that gay people are obsessed with having sex at public rest areas? POSTED MAY 4, 1998 John S., Detroit, MI ANSWER 1: I’m 32 and gay, and in all my years have never encountered nor have ever engaged in sex at a rest area. I will agree that some gay males have sex …
Read More »THE QUESTION: SO40: Are there any specific reasons for the lisp many gay men have when they talk? POSTED JUNE 3, 1998 Dan J., 32, white male, Sonoma County, CA (Similar questions posted June 23, 1998, by Mark, straight male, Chicago, IL; and Oct. 7, 1998, by Yvonne G., straight white female, 41, Carlsbad, CA) ANSWER 1: I’m sure some …
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