[Terence Morgan]

The answer is both complex and simple. You cannot escape your upbringing. When a poor person wins the lottery, he will continue to be poor mentally, thus the phrase nouveau riche. A well bred person might lose all his possessions in the world but he will continue to live with the manners and behavior he is used to. Even in jail. There is also the issue of race connected to this problem. For poor blacks, they resent the idea that to ‘fit into’ their new neighborhood they have to behave like their white neighbors. Often times, they will not be accepted by the white community on equal ground anyway, so why bother. After years of feeling oppressed by white people in their black communities, it is fun to make white people feel uncomfortable and tense. As a black male, often when I am in a white area, I notice people holding their belongings tighter or even crossing the street to avoid coming into contact with me. It is more evident if I dress in a ‘hip hop’ manner, people act a little differently when I wear a suit. Imagine how frustrating this must be for me. Sometimes the frustration leads me to do something for my own enjoyment, such as yell ‘BOO’ at an obviously uptight white person. I grew up the son of a successful lawyer and my mother was a housewife. I went to private schools with a tuition over $11,000 a year since age 2 and after high school went straight to university out of state. No matter how much education I have or my background, if I wear certain ‘hip hop’ style clothing, these white people can’t tell the difference between me and some gangbanger they saw on tv. Life for people of color in america can be frustrating and sometimes we just get tired of trying to play the game. Your example of minority youths walking in the streets, I think, is an example of their frustration. Why should they get out of the way of your car? They are pedestrians, who always have the right of way to powered vehicles. As more and more white youths buy hip hop music, movies and clothing, this will create more rich and powerful blacks who feel, why should they dress like the white man? Why should they keep their house in the same way as white people? White people should be like them, after all, they have just as much money as the white man. Who is to say which culture is more respectable. Money is power my friend, if you don’t like the new look of your neighborhood, save your money and move to a more expensive neighborhood.

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Name : Terence Morgan, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Buddhist, Age : 29, City : Los Angeles, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : IT manager, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

[Terence Morgan]

Hi Ying Yao. I feel I am perfectly qualified to answer this question, I have dated mostly asian females for the past 12 years and Im a black american male. As opposed to black females, asian females are smaller. I prefer petite females personally. Black girls like Jada Pinkett are rare for black women. It is much easier to find a girl under 5’4′, under 110 pounds, small hands and feet, with delicate facial features among asians. I prefer small breasts. Slanted, cat-like eyes are sexy to me as well. Long hair is nice but even when Bai Ling shaved her head, she was sexy to me. I have liked asian females since I watched kung fu movies on tv as a little kid. When I went to college, I met a Japanese exchange student, from then on, I dated mostly japanese girls. I like their style of dress and feminine attitudes. I find asian americans to be very different than asians overseas and prefer the overseas types. I like a woman who chooses high heels over sneakers, skirts over pants and has a small pretty face. Skin color often isn’t a great factor but I tend to prefer tan skin if not brown like southeast asians over a very pale person. I hope this answers your questions and feel free to send a picture of yourself or your friends to my email for rating. I could tell you which one is more or less attractive from my eyes.

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Name : Terence Morgan, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Buddhist, Age : 29, City : Los Angeles, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : IT manager, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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