N.G.

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  • in reply to: Does size matter, or not? #45917

    N.G.
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    My husband is very well-endowed. Although sex with someone with a larger penis can be more satisfying than with someone with a smaller penis, it can also be painful when someone with a big penis slams too hard. It feels very like what I imagine getting kicked in the nuts feels like to a guy. Also, some of the very best vaginal orgasms I have had were given to me from men who had very small tongues and didn’t use anything else…

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    Name : N.G., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : Lethbridge, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Program Director, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Female jockeys? #36483

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    Riding any horse takes a good deal of strength if the horse is not docile. Riding a horse that has been bred to run takes a surprising amount of strength. Get that horse on a racetrack where it is focused on only one thing, and they can be darned near impossible to control. If you ever see a male jockey with only a light shirt on his upper body, you can see they are incredibly fit athletes. Most women of such small size aren’t physically able to build their upper body strength enough.

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    Name : N.G., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : Lethbridge, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Program Director, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Child pornography #43427

    N.G.
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    Sorry D.G., but if your husband told you he was putting the photos on disks so no one could track spammed material to you, he was lying in a panic to get you off a dangerous trail. No one spams porn. No one who truly didn’t want it would put it on a disk instead of deleting it. No one with even a couple of years of computer and internet usage would believe him. It’s obvious that you truly love your husband. It’s also obvious that he didn’t expect you to catch him, and that he hopes you will believe his very flimsy and (in my humble opinion, sorry) stupid attempt to cover his tracks. I would have a very difficult and heartsore time trusting someone who lied to me like that about something so serious. I’m sorry that he’s hurt you so, and that it’s not a simple problem.

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    Name : N.G., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : Lethbridge, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Program Director, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Bus stops #29012

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    I know when I was a University student with no car, it made me insane when a bus would go roaring past my stop and miss me because it was running ahead of schedule. As far as I am concerned, a good driver will always try to be at the stops at the same time, every day. A good passenger will recognize the importance of that timeliness and plan accordingly!

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    Name : N.G., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : Lethbridge, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Program Director, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Age differences at the office #30772

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    I’ve had to overcome a similar problem. I took my job as Program Director of a crisis service when I was 26. I was responsible for supervising employees as young as 18 and some up to 65. At first, I also tried to be nice to everyone. While that often seemed to work, I also would feel that perhaps I was being humoured more because people liked me than for my leadership skills. Eventually I realized that as a people manager, you can’t be everyone’s friend and you *are* going to have to occasionally ruffle feathers. Sometimes you have to say ‘Do it because that is how I am telling you to do it. End of discussion.’ I’m not saying become the wicked witch, but one of the painful truths of managing is that you are no longer peers with those you supervise. You can’t always be their friend. That may extend to both at work and away from work. A surprising side benefit is that once you find your balance of supporter versus head nasty, it makes your job less stressful and easier. Good luck!

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    Name : N.G., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : Lethbridge, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Program Director, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Who’s minding the children? #31168

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    Darn near every mother I have talked to feels some degree of guilt about having someone else spend so much time with their children. I can’t speak as much about how men feel because I haven’t talked about it with many. Personally I don’t feel guilty that I am leaving my kids there, but I do feel guiltly that I don’t get to spend as much time with them. I also feel Andrew is a bit off when he states that daycare staff are *not* assisting in raising children. I know that when my two daughters spend eight hours a day with adults other than myself, I strongly expect that the adults present had better be teaching my kids some of the rules and regulations of our society, ie. table manners, politeness, cleanliness, etc. If the daycare centre isn’t assisting with this part of the role of parenting, what are they doing for me and my kids? Isn’t teaching these our children the basic rules of our society basically a part of parenting?

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    Name : N.G., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : Lethbridge, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Program Director, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Reply To: Public restroom etiquette and wheelchairs #25525

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    I am not handicapped, but I often find that in long lines, most people are also quite good about letting a mother with two young children go into the handicapped stall ahead of the line. Usually this has something to do with one of the kids desperately holding themselves and doing the pee-pee dance…. What would be a polite way for non-handicapped person to assist a handicapped person jump ahead in line without embarassing the handicapped person?

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    Name : N.G., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : Lethbridge, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Program Director, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Who’s minding the children? #36708

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    Sorry Andrew, I feel you are a bit off when you state that daycare staff are *not* assisting in raising children. I know that when my two daughters spend eight hours a day with adults other than myself, I strongly expect that the adults present had better be teaching my kids some of the rules and regulations of our society, ie. table manners, politeness, cleanliness, etc. If the daycare centre isn’t assisting with this part of the role of parenting, what are they doing for me and my kids? Isn’t teaching these our children the basic rules of our society basically a part of parenting? On the other hand I do agree wholeheartedly that daycare is in no way a complete replacement for parenting. There are very definite limits to how far I expect my daycare to take their part of the parenting role.

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    Name : N.G., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : Lethbridge, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Program Director, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Adult authority necessary to maintain peace? #45071

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    I suspect what is more important than adult versus youngers is maturity. As a broad generalization, the older someone is, the more mature they are. On the other hand I have known some incredibly mature children and some unbelievably immature adults. As someone who desperately wanted to be accorded adult status when I was a teen, there are moments when I would gladly shuck all responsibilities as a mother and Program Director for the crisis control organization I work at to go back to the semi-freedom from responsibility that I had in my teen years. Enjoy it while you’re young. (G-d, I HATED hearing that when I was 15!! Yeesh!)

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    Name : N.G., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : Lethbridge, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Program Director, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: No need for TV #19649

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    I’m speaking as from the position of another who grew up without a TV. When I was 10, we chose as a family not to have a TV. When I tell people that now, they automatically assume that we were too poor to purchase another. In actuality, we were an average middle-class family who were very happy growing up without a TV. I have found as an adult that still doesn’t watch regular TV, I have a very low threshold for TV or movie scenes of physical violence, war, or psychological thrillers. Your average B-grade slasher I can take or leave, they don’t bother me. Scenes that have elements of truth or believability to them often will bother me for hours or days. This is something that many of my friends and aquaintances don’t seem to understand. Yet with reflection, it does make sense. If I was never regularly exposed to that kind of violence, why shouldn’t it bother me? I’m not desensitized to it like most who watch shows with that content. In some respects, it bothers me more that people don’t realize they, themselves have become desensitized to some pretty horrible actions. I hope this doesn’t portray me as an avid TV hater, ’cause I’m not. I just wished more would think about what they are *really* watching.

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    Name : N.G., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : Lethbridge, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Program Director, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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